IPZN CC#2 yeh pyar na hoga kam - Page 111

Originally posted by: kankabhor

About fans and celebraties, I am with Alakh. I know it is unfair to expect them to tolerate abuse/trolling but world is not fair to anyone. It is practical and more mature. We know most of these fans must be teenagers so it is best to ignore it. Arguing with fans just brings negativity to everything and you create mountain out of mole.

I believe today's digital generation like Akshita, Suhana Khan are better at handeling these things. I feel Akshita would be better than Param at handeilng SM trolls. Most of us are 90s kids and tmany times feel repulsive about teenagers on SM doign tiktoks and all but there are few things which we can learn from them.

We definitely have so much to learn from kids nowadays. They are far more aware of what is happening around them and are taking action to bring about change. The BTS fandom is one I am in awe of and scared of. 😆

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

If they are too toxic, just stay away or cut off if you can. I have dumped a few leech like relatives recently. Even made my mom dump them 😆

My chem lecturer is toxic too. Can I please dump him somewhere as well?

Originally posted by: Wanderlust05

My chem lecturer is toxic too. Can I please dump him somewhere as well?

Do you do lab work? 😆

Originally posted by: Wanderlust05

My chem lecturer is toxic too. Can I please dump him somewhere as well?

lol...you dont want to blame Sony for this?😆

Originally posted by: Shiny095

We definitely have so much to learn from kids nowadays. They are far more aware of what is happening around them and are taking action to bring about change. The BTS fandom is one I am in awe of and scared of. 😆

Let me commit blasphemy by saying this: KPOP is so manufactured and artificial, its more like band versions of the 90s but without the authenticity. It’s a fad now and will disappear in 10 years or so - not from Korea but probably other countries 😆

I watched several k dramas but most of them are same rinse and repeat.

Also they are so similar to western shows.. also I I don’t understand.. do Koreans don’t have their own music? It’s just western music and pop stars just packaged differently and sold as kpop

Originally posted by: sun29

they must be,the whole point of shooting them and putting them up on a public platform for the world to see and assume and interpret in 100 different ways...the whole goodness of relations being personal has lost its meaning today ...if it is on insta or twitter it is real or else it is not ...many times i miss the simple life before the instas, twitters and facebooks

I think it is totally different for us (90s kids) and todays generation. We have seen the life before this digital boom and SM. So we are kind of immigrants to the digital world but new generation is native to this SM and digital world. For them it is the reality. Definitions of real and virutal have changed and lines got blurred. It will merge in near future. I highly recommend Black Mirror TV show if you have not watched it yet. It explores digital revolution in future and how humans will change. It is a bit dark.

On surface I used to also think that on SM it is fake, but is it? When I think of it deeply, I come to think of what is the definition of reality? For example, Even in real life we are different with different people like with family, with friends, with boss, with colleagues we behave differently. Atleast I am like that. It is not that I fake it but inhenretly I beheve differently with differrent people. But who is real me? I think every aspect is just one layer of your reality. My IF personality as anonymous is not fake, it is still a part of me. I do not discuss ITV shows and this ParaKshita shipping with my real life😆 This exists only on SM but I wont call it fake. In a same way SM is just one layer of reality for today's generation.

Things have changed. I strongly think we will go all digital and virtual in a decade or so. Covid has expedited the process.

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Let me commit blasphemy by saying this: KPOP is so manufactured and artificial, its more like band versions of the 90s but without the authenticity. It’s a fad now and will disappear in 10 years or so - not from Korea but probably other countries 😆

I watched several k dramas but most of them are same rinse and repeat.

Also they are so similar to western shows.. also I I don’t understand.. do Koreans don’t have their own music? It’s just western music and pop stars just packaged differently and sold as kpop

I've never listened to them, but their fandom is next level. I'm sure there are academic papers written on them or in the process of being published. So much to disect.

I've watched k dramas. I've only watched the rom coms for entertainment. 😆

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I think it is totally different for us (90s kids) and todays generation. We have seen the life before this digital boom and SM. So we are kind of immigrants to the digital world but new generation is native to this SM and digital world. For them it is the reality. Definitions of real and virutal have changed and lines got blurred. It will merge in near future. I highly recommend Black Mirror TV show if you have not watched it yet. It explores digital revolution in future and how humans will change. It is a bit dark.

On surface I used to also think that on SM it is fake, but is it? When I think of it deeply, I come to think of what is the definition of reality? For example, Even in real life we are different with different people like with family, with friends, with boss, with colleagues we behave differently. Atleast I am like that. It is not that I fake it but inhenretly I beheve differently with differrent people. But who is real me? I think every aspect is just one layer of your reality. My IF personality as anonymous is not fake, it is still a part of me. I do not discuss ITV shows and this ParaKshita shipping with my real life😆 This exists only on SM but I wont call it fake. In a same way SM is just one layer of reality for today's generation.

Things have changed. I strongly think we will go all digital and virtual in a decade or so. Covid has expedited the process.

Loved it. A must watch.

Originally posted by: sparklep

in my opinion the main problem with online is.. most people immature n think if they have difference in opinion means they are enemies and need to reticule them... they need to learn to respect others POV ...dont take everything personal and start abusing ...

I love this forum for the same reason , most of us don't agree with each other but we still maintain a common ground never cross the lines ..I am completely moved on from Ishqaan and Parakshita still I am here just to chat with you guys❤️

I have personal FB and twitter which I use only for talking about politics and many social issues. What I realised on SM is that people make posts only when they have a strong and emotional attachment to the topic. For example, if I feel strongly for some womens' issue, I make a post on FB. As I am emotionally attached, I am not always rational and use strong language in my post. Then other person with opposite opinion also reitalitae it with strong language. Many humans have moderate opinions on many topics but we don't share it or talk about it on SM. We only share when we are emotionally charged and has personal investment in that topic. The debate turns ugly as other person also keeps getting rigid. I have seen this on FB account with many of my friends who makes posts when they are extremely against goverrnment's some actions which affect them personally. Their posts then seem to have strong language and bias. But in real they are very moderate and understanding about 100 other things but that just one thing is their weakness. And they choose SM to take out that frustration. This is what makes it worse on SM.

Here on IF, we started talking about things where many of us have moderate opinions so we listen to others and are not emotionally overwhelmed. Then once that bond forms we can even tolerate strong/extreme opposite opinions of others like we do with family and friends. We dont agree with family and soemtimes have very opposite views but we dont go and abuse them like we do on SM.

Originally posted by: skysunmoon

She is watching Parakshita Vms at 2am 😁😁 Is she missing him at this late night? 😂😂

Abhi video call finish hua hoga unka to Akshi ko time mila to post😆