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Shiva is not a dual personality

His worst has always come out infront of raavi

And now when he is fighting his feelings it's more than worst if that is even a thing

I know the kicking scene was disrespectful but that's what he wants to do he want to kick out the feelings he has for her

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

Honestly, not a bad episode. Today, I didn't really feel angry at anyone in particular 😆

GauRa scene was nice tbh but I couldn't enjoy it, not after all that we've witnessed.

DevTa scene was more enjoyable today. Rishita wants to work? Good for her! I'm a firm believer in becoming independent. I dislike the prospect of asking someone for money whenever need be. If you have spent all these years studying, put it to good use!

Looooved Raavi thinking of pursuing her studies further! I really hope this wasn't a one-time thing and she actually goes through with it. And I wish we're able to get some ShiVi scenes out of this, in an environment faaaar away from Pandya Niwas, and without the whole family interfering.

Coming to Shiva and him showing off his soccer skills...not a fan. I didn't like it. It was actually disrespectful. But have to give it to him, his aim was good. The potli ended up right at the door.😆 I'm gonna take this scene as him missing Raavi and not wanting to admit it. So seeing her stuff, he took it as a way to catch a glimpse of her :)) I will conveniently forget the kick

Also, I couldn't get the Raavpaal meme out of my head while watching that sindoor scene....lol

My favorite dialogue of today: Yeh chipkali ke jasoos na mujhe aaj sone nahi denge 🤣

@bold- I took it as a parallel to the shadi vala sindoor scene they played in the flashback. Tab Raavi ne haath maara toh aaj Shiva ne laat maari

Also, don't know if it's just me. But it's almost as if the writers are trying too hard to be non-cliche. He could've thrown a rock to get her to open the door, and then thrown the potli at her. Raavi pakad bhi leti. I can ignore such stuff but I'm not sure if the rest of the audience will 🤔

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

Shiva ka misconception ki woh Raavi ke bina khush reh lega is already being challenged. Kehta hai that he's happy ke Raavi aur uski baatein nahi hai...par phir room mein jaata hai where their memories are the strongest Kehta hai that it's nice to have the room clear of her pasaara...but jab drawer mein he sees her stuff toh itna ghusa that he wants to go to her right there and then.

Dusri taraf, Raavi ka misconception that baat na karne se she'll be able to forget everything and move on faster It's great that she's actively trying to move on and build her life. But jab tak you don't confront the issue, it's going to fester. Thoda introspection toh kare to figure out how and where everything went wrong. Kab tak they'll play tit for tat vala game?🤔

Agar shadi ke din Raavi ne sindoor ko thuk raaya, toh ab Shiva has to do it with his soccer kick.🤔

Agar din mein Raavi came with the dhol, toh raat mein Shiva came to personally return her stuff. 🤔

I'm sure kal it's Raavi ki baari to return something to show ki usse bhi Shiva ki yaadein nahi rakhni. 🤔

I'm guessing this vicious cycle will continue for a couple more weeks, especially since next week seems to be Gaura focused. Unka din bhi toh aana tha

Not us waiting for the MU's to end like:

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ohh god they are making the leads toxic to keep the spark going 🤣

Is that just bad writing? Even with MU resolved and them in love- can't they keep the nok-jhoks and one-upmanship going in a positive fun way?

I like angst- but I want the characters retain the essence of who they are- I somewhere understood how the mandir fight happened, including the slap... because yes I also tend to get blinded by fury when I fight with my husband(no slapping... but mast stonewalling karti hoon 😆)

But Shiva becoming this screaming mess and kicking things around 🤷‍♀️ It is not very pleasant to watch. Are they saying passionate people tend to become aggressive and abusive?

I am genuinely asking because I have no clue 😆 I am more of a completely shut down kind of a person. I basically don't talk or do anything when I am furious.

So ShiVi are just doomed to have a prolonged MU/separation?

It shouldn't be like this..even if they want to stretch the separation for the sake of spark it would have been fine..but they r making each characters toxic..I say the writer is on some sastha nasha.. no other explanations seems reasonable..

Abuse and aggression in a mild way I can understand.. like shouting..taunting..closing doors with force..some people shut down..some keeps taunting..some keeps pestering and nagging..but here these two are more than all of this combined..

But stamping on stuffs dress sindoor..going to her house and kicking it like football in the middle of night..all seems farfetched ,unrealistic and pathetically childish..which is not acceptable from lead characters..they r attacking the sentiments of the audience in a whole lot of ways than they knw it..

Has dhara finally given up on shiva lol he is acting so crazy that even mahaan dhara is resigned to the fact he isn't gonna change lol

Shiva probably has this regular attitude going to mamis house so he thought kicking things at the door was all fine lol

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

@bold- I took it as a parallel to the shadi vala sindoor scene they played in the flashback. Tab Raavi ne haath maara toh aaj Shiva ne laat maari

Also, don't know if it's just me. But it's almost as if the writers are trying too hard to be non-cliche. He could've thrown a rock to get her to open the door, and then thrown the potli at her. Raavi pakad bhi leti. I can ignore such stuff but I'm not sure if the rest of the audience will 🤔

That makes sense. These two always try to one-up each other. Aise karte karte poori life bita denge...

@bold- yeah. same for me, but writers ki mati maari gayi hai. Literally, my mom told me she's annoyed with him for his behavior. I know what's coming from her side after she watches today's episode. I wish the writers didn't take this route.

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Shiva is not a dual personality

His worst has always come out infront of raavi

And now when he is fighting his feelings it's more than worst if that is even a thing

I know the kicking scene was disrespectful but that's what he wants to do he want to kick out the feelings he has for her

Agreed 💯

It's his emotions that determines his actions. He loves his family so unke liye kuch bhi karega. But he's always lashed out at Raavi, pehle nafrat meinand now narazgi mein 🤔

So tomorrow raavi will go to her college in that manhood pink dress , more useless friends of hers, more tel masala shadi YADA YADA YADA YADAA

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

It would be super weird now like extremely weird as they play not bhabhi devar but mother son here but they would have looked good in another show as a couple , I don't think that is going to happen now

But no wonder they were short listed as a couple in 2 shows

Oh okay. It's been years since I watched a hindi serial so I have no idea of the current actors. Yeah, the OG has casted age-appropriate actors so you get to see and feel the difference in the characters. Though, I really do not know whether it is the actors or their scenes that made me misunderstand. I'm not a big fan of hugging or physical contact unless in a relationship, so maybe its me. 😔