Aniruddha's feelings - Page 2

Originally posted by: anir3434

@bold I think this is the very troupe that story-tellers across the world sell as love. We are told that we can fall in love only once and the one we eventually settle down with is our true love and that all our previous loves were just infatuations. Even I used to think the same way. Till I realized that love has more to do with oneself, rather than the object of our affection. The object of our affection just acts as a stimulus through which we are able to understand the depth of love we are capable of. And as we move through our life, our love only becomes more refined.

The post was whether Ani's feelings for Soudamini was love or just a mere infatuation, not whether Soudamini deserved his love or not. Of course she does not.

She was Ani's childhood friend. As Ani himself says, the affection, care and eventual love that he developed for her was a result of that friendship. They had fought together, laughed together, celebrated festivals together... To say that Ani's feelings for Soudamini were just a mere infatuation would be a great disservice to his character. Because as I said earlier, this guy is capable of so much love, that he even cares for strangers so deeply. Then why wouldn't he love somebody that he had a emotional bond with since childhood? Ani falls in love with a wrong person, and since he is not a doormat, after the initial shock and heartbreak, gets over it and then fights back. And then much later he falls in love with Bon, who is a person, who will never take his love for granted. If tomorrow Bon turns into a negative character, he will stop loving her too. That does not mean, Ani's love for her was merely an infatuation. His loving Soudamini or being infatuated with Manorama doesn't mean that his love for Bon gets tainted in any way.

Regarding Ani-Bon relationship, I do wish to write about them some day, because I feel after all that build-up with Ani and Bon's character, the makers took a very cliched and dry path in depicting their love.

I do agree people can fall in love more than once.its just one of them becomes the most sincere,all consuming type.

Most of the people Don't even find that real one.

Its hard finding your soulmate.

Well i guess we can say,for ani it was love for mini.he did love her.

But mini was not his true love...

Bondita is.But they ruined the development of mature version of that after doing so much pre leap

Now i get your problem with this rushed pyaar ka bhukar after all the build up.I guess we all Will be forever salty about Rudhita's falling in love phase.

I'm still oka the way they are btw.those two are pure love❤️

probably just 2 more episodes of why they are in love would be enough for me.Instead of choti bon or vj as their inner self clarifying their love for each other,it would be a lot more better if ani bon knew it from within. Makers have put rudhita on such a pedestal that now them linking love with heart beats & rain seems way too flimsy.

They had gone through so much that the deep love should have reasonated within themselves.I did feel ani's love in all his letters since last 8 years, in his mandir confession before vj.but then something just didn’t click.same about bon.her sudden realisation of being in love without much introspection was sore to eyes somehow.We all knew bon would love her sakha babu anyway but the way she realised it,urggggg

Thank you so much lovely forum members....not providing such beautiful insights of the relationship....I do have quite a bit of idea now.....and I absolutely agree that Ani did love Soudamini....but I feel his emotions for bondita run deeper than even love perhaps....I feel she is his soul mate..someone who as he himself confesses ...completes him....but then while trying to understand his relation with mini ...I discivered so much more about Aniruddha....all thanks the introspective views I received over hear....thank you all so much