Originally posted by: VintageWine
Never said Jasmine was a saint or she should get a free pass, she should get the equal back lash as fateh. That said she even to end ties with Tejo and what not. She's conniving and sharp in her own ways, but the people around her fall for it - her family, Tejo included. Tejo fell for her tactics and believed her, chalo you can even ignore that out of a forgiving heart she let it go. But which dimwit invites her ghar pe allows her to use their washroom, knowing what was going btw those two. You need to be smart enough to not let a woman like jas inside your bedroom...
Am not saying it serves her right, NO. But being an educated person she behaves like a dimwit, fateh had ignored and avoided her royally and she was shamelessly clinging to him. No level headed and self respected woman is not gonna notice the change in him. Especially the change after sleeping with her for just one night. You just gotta add two an two.
Still not taking away the fact that she is a victim.
Ethically she isn't in the same tag of jasfa, but the fact that fateh showed jasmean the stars makes her the victim as well!
I don't see Tejo being fool here! Tejo had her suspicions and she did ask . But has always been given valid reasons. No wife has horns to fight everyday.
Fateh has been a golden husband that's the truth . His attitude changed and Tejo did feel it. She asked . In fact their last meeting before shooting accident was enough to bring F to edge. If shooting would not have happened. F had to answer her. He knew it that's why he lost it. She was not taking it anymore. Did not we all see it ? From which angle as she was wearing rose tinted glass. 🤓She was using her normal eye sight ! She was no more docile wife. She was rightfully asking questions for his changed attitude.
Shooting incident was a life death situation. A crazy guy with gun. What if he fired straight into her head ? She was dead then. Once saved person would for moment forget everything and just thank almighty. Same happened eith Tejo . When she opened her eyes she had her husband crying like a child all berserk. Which woman who thought she is dead a moment before ask her apologetic, frantically crying husband about old questions?
Fateh does not love Tejo but very well knows she is his wife and he has responsibilities. For Fateh shooting incident triggered an embarrassing realisation. He was shamelessly crossing every limits of cheating and right when his wife was at gunpoint he was enjoying is illicit romance with his wife's sister. It wrenched him in and out. He was guilty, embarrassed and felt pathetic. All these feelings are heavier then love. They kill you .
Out of all those feelings he is trying to make up for all wrongs he did to her. Giving her time , giving her attention, taking care of her and everything he had stopped doing due his EMA with J.
Tejo can very well see this change. Even made a remark that he is feeling guilty that's why he is doing it. But he is all their with his heavy sweetness and skinship.Now why will she question. ! Again I say wives have no horns.
Now even after such responsibility and intimacy one has somebody else in heart . Then better he keeps it their . I call it right to personal space and even wife as no rights to encroach it.
I will still not call Tejo victim until and unless her rights as wife have been challenged. They were being challenged before shooting incident and Tejo asked right questions at right time. She was not late given that marriage is just few months old. Whatever triggered Fateh fact is right now he is doing every bit as a husband so that Tejo is not victimised by his so called eternal love.
Now that is what Jasmean can't digest. Till now she had F in her control . She was his saviour , his entertainer his axis on which he rolled. They both were showing each other stars and not just one! They both were knowingly having an affair and if one says I can't go any further then it is called break up not victimisation !
So overall at this point I see nobody as a victim . It's just messed up relationships which they need to make it straight.
If Fateh wants to carry on with Marraige he still has a chance . If he wants to go for his love , he must tell Tejo that this Marraige cannot go any further.
Marraige have divorce love affairs / EMA have break up . We have solution for everything . Just make up your mind and come clean.
One more thing Fatejo were friends are husband wife now . So their relationship dynamics is far different then Jasfa who were lovers and now technically cheaters .