Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #81|Kuch Toh Tha Tere Mere Darmiyaan - Page 49

Can I take a moment and appreciate Mamis love for Raavi

She is probably concerned now that both of his daughters will be called names by society.... My heart goes out to the woman who face the brunt of divorce and get judged

Originally posted by: Transference

Hypocrisy alert Dev:

1. Giving Dhokha to a Girl Rishita after making her fall in love for 2 years

2. Leading on Raavi for an eternity!

3. Leaving Raavi at the altar

4. Not grovelling for a sorry- where was Ladki ki Izzat then?

5. Leaving Rishita begging for the marriage. Humiliating a girl. Had Rishita had her WOKE self-respect then, she wouldn't be begging a man who left her.

6. The Way he dragged Rishita everywhere. Dissed her for not cooking food! She told her father she should die. Tarakki ke par Parivar bull shit!!

Why hasn't anyone stopped serving him food?

He behaved severely with Rishita all the time, but lol there hasn't been any accountability?

Rishita should see this.. she needs to divorce him asap 😆

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Rishita should see this.. she needs to divorce him asap 😆

You know what At this point I am like both Raavi and Rishita need to get divorced and become something inspiring in life.

I wish the same thing for Shiva.

I wish common sense for Dev.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

This is the SBS segment, if you go on Twitter, you can follow the thread with the rest of the interview

https://twitter.com/theflawedmiss/status/1427564993663225856

Thank you Avi 🤗

Originally posted by: Rattus_Ruhi

https://twitter.com/Dawai_wali/status/1427489610557317123?s=20

This is highly likely.. we will have a scene where she complains about all the house work she has to do here when her dad raised her like a princess🤪🤣

Did raavi sign the papers too ?

Originally posted by: deeps07

If one has a family like this, anyone would.prefer a tree than that...😆

This is so true! Shiva is better off at his tree than with his adbhut family 🤪🤣

And the makers don't want to show a single friend for him so 🤷

Originally posted by: loveableangel

What does Shiva feel for Raavi? Because it's not love and it cannot be infatuation. He would not behave this way.

Raavi I don't know what to think about her actions. I need an insightful monologue from her. I can't fault her for her actions. She wasnt rude until shiva beat up her friends and pushed her. Even by mistake. She went for where it would hurt him. Which was wrong. Also, someone needs to explain to her that a marriage in which you allow outsiders to insult your husband will not last long. It's like when you fight with your sister and rant to your friend but then your friend agrees with the insult and you're like "no, shes my sister. Only I can say that."

Hopefully that made sense. Can someone make sense of what Shiva feels? I feel that it's bad on his end that he did not even feel an ounce of guilt.

That guy is probably sulking at this point.

He took a stand in his decision during divorce instead of marriage in front of BHABHI maa😕

Probably his mind is going like She deserves someone better+This is a compromise+We are not compatible+blah blah blah.

Kinda feel sorry for both🥺

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

This made me LOL. Rishita had been slightly growing on me lately but that diminished once again. Her selective woke-ism and herogiri irks me to the core. Did she forget the time when Dev aggressively charged towards her when she refused to give up their bedroom for GauRa? And that hasn't been the only time Dev has pulled some crappy stuff...

I agree! Hypocrisy alert from rishita 🤪

Dev kare toh raas leela, Shiva kare toh character dheela🤷

Originally posted by: loveableangel

What does Shiva feel for Raavi? Because it's not love and it cannot be infatuation. He would not behave this way.

Raavi I don't know what to think about her actions. I need an insightful monologue from her. I can't fault her for her actions. She wasnt rude until shiva beat up her friends and pushed her. Even by mistake. She went for where it would hurt him. Which was wrong. Also, someone needs to explain to her that a marriage in which you allow outsiders to insult your husband will not last long. It's like when you fight with your sister and rant to your friend but then your friend agrees with the insult and you're like "no, shes my sister. Only I can say that."

Hopefully that made sense. Can someone make sense of what Shiva feels? I feel that it's bad on his end that he did not even feel an ounce of guilt.

I'm not the CV, nor do I claim to be the CVs, but based on the way the track ran. I believe Shiva's thoughts progressed something along the lines of:

Kangan Kaand: I don't like MKMKB. She's related to Maami, so she has to be pure evil... However, she was also willing to jump for me... For me. She was willing to sacrifice her life for my happiness... and I can accept that! I've always wanted a wife who would love and accept me for who I am, and I felt like, for the first time, Raavi saw me as someone beyond bhootnath and Chattan Pandya. She seems like someone who would follow alongside me as I go through my adventures!

Up Until Sneha + Diary: I really like Raavi. She really is my soulmate. Happy... bubbly... Even her silly remarks of being Somnath's most beautiful don't bother me anymore... because to me, she is the world's most beautiful woman ❤️ How can I start my relationship with her?

Sneha + Diary: I really mean nothing to her... She never wanted someone like me... She wanted someone like Dev... white collared, nice job, well-dressed... that's why she never introduced me to her friends, right? That's why she always seemed so nervous and turned her face away from me, right? Even if she means the world to me, I mean nothing to her... and I will continue to mean nothing to her...

Raavi's Friends: I understand you never wanted to do this marriage... but come on... I'm a person, too! I might not be college educated, but why do you disrespect me like this? Why do you save all the smiles to your friends when I have never once received a smile like that. Why is it that you are able to talk to your friends so easily, but when it comes to me, you grow silent... if you hate me this much, why do you continue to stay with me? Is it because you don't want to see me happy? Did you jump that day, not because you cared for me, but because you wanted to see me suffer for longer? If you really don't want to be with me... then I don't want to be with you either (Shiva pushes Raavi)

Raavi's Friends Round 2: How could I expect anything different from you. Now I understand. It was never about marriage for you, was it? You never wanted a future for me... I am nothing more than your puppet... when you are happy, you are willing to spare your time for me... and when you are angry, you test my bottom line... and for what? For these English speaking friends of yours? Do you even know how debauching their thoughts are? One of them wanted to elope with a married woman... and you defend them? We're over Raavi... whatever feelings I felt for you... they were nothing but a farce... you tricked me well... but I shouldn't be surprised... you are MKMKB after all... causing pain runs in your veins.

Precap Scene: Rishita is right... why should I hold onto this relationship? I wasn't wrong. It was her. She doesn't want to introduce me to her friends... she doesn't want to defend me... she calls me gawar and jahil, not understanding everything I gave up in life... she doesn't deserve me... and keeping her stringed along will be my mistake... so it's better to divorce

IDK... as I was writing this, I realized there could be other interpretations, but this is how my line of thought went when watching all those scenes. Humans don't easily accept their mistakes, and Shiva was so blinded by insecurity, rage, and inferiority that he couldn't possibly see beyond this...