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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

ok I m not saying that this doesn’t happen in big cities or educated families. Yes problem exist but a bigger problem exist when what today’s DILs are doing to the boy’s parents their ILS. WE HAVE TO call spade a spade. Old problem hasn’t gone away but a bigger problem has started in past couple of decades.



Yes I agree that this is also happening...that why people need to demand for realistic shows n need to boycott unrealistic shows.... But people prefer some weird shows over realistic show , n even this is just one show I find it relatable n even this is getting less trp...what to say

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Antaramantara


Yes I agree that this is also happening...that why people need to demand for realistic shows n need to boycott unrealistic shows.... But people prefer some weird shows over realistic show , n even this is just one show I find it relatable n even this is getting less trp...what to say

This show glorifies Ishwari & Dev’s relationship.

I wish they showed other side also & progressive track. Instead they are showing 1800 century stuff which some of the elder generation went thru & some from newer generation are going through 🙁


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

This show glorifies Ishwari & Dev’s relationship.

I wish they showed other side also & progressive track. Instead they are showing 1800 century stuff which some of the elder generation went thru & some from newer generation are going through 🙁


I am not completely agree ....Certain times yes, they glorified their relationship but also at the same time they showed how this relationship proved suffocating again n again for dev.... Dev's condition after break up, Dev's condition during separation... N now...in today's episode, it is very evident that dev is suffocating , he doesnt dare to go against his mother but at the same time he knows that sona is right.... though he did say hurtful things to sona to defend his mother but at the same time , didn't talk properly to ishwari....even ishwari has realised that dev is suffering, still she n dev are not ready to accept their faults...n they didn't show sona as negative...on any social media platform, people are standing with sonakshi not with ishwari n dev... people calling it a toxic...so makers are successful showing their relation toxic

Edited by Antaramantara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

What they were or are showing MIL-DIL TRACK May be happening in small villages, uneducated families. It used to happen 30 some years ago but not in big cities, educated & today’s women. What used to happen long back due to MC🐷 MEN & his family torturing DILs now the situation is reversed & feminism has taken 180% turn. Today’s generation women (DIL) won’t put up with it, nor will MIL dare doing what used to happen. Men are so much under women’s control woh ufff nahi kar sakte. This is today’s fact whether one wants to accept-believe it or not. DILs have taken the role of old MILs.

There is negative connotations against ILs. My parents can do no wrong but boy’s parents are evil ILs that is the msg given out in society. They are singing old song. Woh zamane ke men to be blamed for is zamane ki feminist women. Pay back is a bitch 😞

We all want happy cohesive families but something is seriously wrong with what CVS showing on krpkab3 👎🙁


In my circle, all I can see my aunties are cribbing that DIL don't respect them n son don't bother, so they dont feel like visiting their son. I hv seen children tortured mother for property n made homeless and another family starved her till death.


There are MILs like mine, who was always there for me like a friend. I used harras my husband, if he troubles me I will call MIL😆. My husband also very gentleman he respected both of us. He is kind of strict strict n soft soft too. So, me n my MIL bcom one team😆


I hope unmarried girls don't get scared seeing this show and don't generalise bcoz some ppl bad experience. There are MILs and husbands like mine too.😊

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly this ...Sony is getting low trps because so many channels are leaking episodes..I commented on this then one of them replies Sony is not uploading complete episode and they are so eager to watch it ..they cant wait so they are watching pirated videos ..yesterday one pirated video got 310k views ...imagine how many channels doing it ..fans of original Balh are cursing Sony & Ekta that they are disrespecting original pair of the show Ram and Sakshi and already too 1much negativity has started for Balh2 ..they are requesting not to offair krpkab for copy paste show because the show wont succeed because it has same story of S1. Already zoom article and TOI article has came on this that its foolish to reboot original BALH.


And regarding this happens in rural not urban isnt true ...recently I met a young girl from well to do family and she got married in rich family ..MIL is educated but still she controls so much her son ..she has made him so dependent on him that they couldn't even celebrate their 1st Anniversary..although her husband also is earning good but he cant listen anything against his mom.

That girl said she wants to exit her marriage or she may do suicide ...I told if u feel so suffocated dont do suicide better take divorce.

So dont tell this problem doesn't exist if it doesnt exist for you.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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80% where'd you get this number. I live in one of the most uneducated states of India, I am the first generation woman in my dad's family to have a masters and a full time corporate job, but even then I have not seen mother in laws like this, not in my home, not any of my friends, neither my any of my relatives. I do know there's a considerable percentage of unbearable in laws but 80% is a little to much.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nainarox18

80% where'd you get this number. I live in one of the most uneducated states of India, I am the first generation woman in my dad's family to have a masters and a full time corporate job, but even then I have not seen mother in laws like this, not in my home, not any of my friends, neither my any of my relatives. I do know there's a considerable percentage of unbearable in laws but 80% is a little to much.

https://www.thehindu.com/data/data-domestic-violence-complaints-at-a-10-year-high-during-covid-19-lockdown/article31885001.ece

Read this report of 2019....

This report says almost 86% out of total domestic abuse is not reported ... So only 14% out of total abused is reported

https://m.thewire.in/article/women/domestic-violence-india-underreported

Now this report says there is 40% abuse is of domestic violence out of all cases reported for violence against women.... Imagine this 40%(out of all violence reported against women) reported case, n this report is before lockdown n during lockdown these cases has tremendously increased.. Imagine the unreported physical violence.... N imagine the percentage of mental violence, which this show is all about , they are not showing any physical violence, it's a mental violence


If you didn't face anything like that than you should be thankful n I am glad that there are certain places in India where it is not happening...... My point was for those who blindly denied that anything like even happening in India , so this show is outdated ...no it's not

Edited by Antaramantara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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So true @Antaramantara .. we report violent domestic violence but we dont report emotional abuse ,mental violence and covert passive aggressive behaviours because such claims don't get their stand in our homes and courtrooms..


And these problems dont come out just after marrying ...they come out slowly after many years of marriage and because of that women cant exit their marriages..thats the main theme they are addressing here .


Since beginning krpkab has been dealing with subtle form of emotional abuse which comes in guise of love and care.

Edited by Lively2000 - 4 years ago

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