Glad they are continuing what was left in S1

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Ok... This was one of the finest show which was very close to reality in S1 before separation track or I should say before their 'trip for fertility' track... Then post separation track was very unrealistic like any other ITV track...

I never liked post separation track very much even S2 bcoz something major was missing b/w pre n post separation... n that thing was realistic approach

The problem which Sonakshi faced after marriage was actually faces by more than 80% of DIL in India n they were going in the right direction, the feeling of being outsider, the feeling of being unheard, the feeling of not being able to speak her mind in front of her in laws even when she knows she is correct, but then they had to skip suddenly bcoz trp was going low n other reasons... N separation happened in rush... N post separation , they never dared to touch that topic again


But now with this season , I m glad , they are bringing it up again.... Addressing this very serious matter without glorifying ishwari( a mother), which normally ITV do ... Without letting trps etc to come in between the plot...now this season is actually looking realistic to me except baby swapping part but that's ok


I know some are not able to connect due S2 ending part+S3...but If people watch it as continuation of S1 removing whatever happened after fertility track n removing S3 , everything start making sense... They are continuing what they left due to fans pressure+ trp...n I am glad


Also I don't understand that when this show is famous for being realistic , then why people start hating it the moment when reality of DIL of most household of India is addressed.... Romance n love is fine... But whole life do not run on romance alone... First people demand realistic show but when such shows are introduced , people start saying we want romance.... I don't understand

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly my thinking ..S2 was short phase which happens and later problems develop between most understanding couples...and really i hated that post leap part ...many fans were irritated with Ishwari that time so they had to bring that separation which wasnt even necessary..if they had shown original story the show would have ended around Feb or March .. there is my post on this forum ..The pain of untold story.--the original krpkab which i posted one month back .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lively2000

Exactly my thinking ..S2 was short phase which happens and later problems develop between most understanding couples...and really i hated that post leap part ...many fans were irritated with Ishwari that time so they had to bring that separation which wasnt even necessary..if they had shown original story the show would have ended around Feb or March .. there is my post on this forum ..The pain of untold story.--the original krpkab which i posted one month back .

This is something I don't understand... People demand realistic shows like other countries....but when someone try to show this, then they start hating it then demand romance

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Posted: 4 years ago
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As you said, it may b many house problem. But are they showing solution? And how many MILs watching this show for them to understand n bcom better person? They know most of them are DIL, n so they will show otherway here, they will show how DIL shd accept n adjust such situation. 😆


At the end, they will tell if DIL is adjusting n accepting how family runs smoothly..😳

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Originally posted by: Antaramantara

This is something I don't understand... People demand realistic shows like country countries....but when someone try to show this, then they start hating it then demand romance


I got to see this kind of dysfunctional mother n son only this show. And realised many hv similar problem through their comments. Otherwise it is very unrealistic for me..touch wood..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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What they were or are showing MIL-DIL TRACK May be happening in small villages, uneducated families. It used to happen 30 some years ago but not in big cities, educated & today’s women. What used to happen long back due to MC🐷 MEN & his family torturing DILs now the situation is reversed & feminism has taken 180% turn. Today’s generation women (DIL) won’t put up with it, nor will MIL dare doing what used to happen. Men are so much under women’s control woh ufff nahi kar sakte. This is today’s fact whether one wants to accept-believe it or not. DILs have taken the role of old MILs.

There is negative connotations against ILs. My parents can do no wrong but boy’s parents are evil ILs that is the msg given out in society. They are singing old song. Woh zamane ke men to be blamed for iss zamane ki feminist women. Pay back is a bitch 😞

We all want happy cohesive families but something is seriously wrong with what CVS showing on krpkab3 👎🙁

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hari73

As you said, it may b many house problem. But are they showing solution? And how many MILs watching this show for them to understand n bcom better person? They know most of them are DIL, n so they will show otherway here, they will show how DIL shd accept n adjust such situation. 😆


At the end, they will tell if DIL is adjusting n accepting how family runs smoothly..😳

Bold1 a show need to run for atleast good amount of time to show proper problem n it's solution.... But whenever they starts this topic , people starting demanding romance, how's this going to work.... leave solution , they are not even able to show the problem properly

They never glorified ishwari, remember the amount of hate supriya ji used to get... Even now they aren't glorifying her... otherwise sona wouldn't have asked Dev what she asked him today or she would have never confronted ishwari the way she confronted her few days back

N yeah most saas do not watch this kind of show but DIL do watch this, someone in other thread have mentioned how she had gone similar kind of thing in her life n how it was such a relatable show


Bold2 if they wanted to show that they would have chose gopi bahu type lady ... But they always sona to take a stand against ishwari , post their break up till patch up,it was sona who always stood up and spoke up, ITV goody goody bahu never dare to say something to their lover's mother.... Even after their marriage , sona always complained dev for her misery, but that plot never got proper chance for closure , it was just rushed for separation...


Bold3 I don't know whether they want to end in this way or not but if people keep pressuring them for romance, then they definitely will end this show on that note

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hari73


I got to see this kind of dysfunctional mother n son only this show. And realised many hv similar problem through their comments. Otherwise it is very unrealistic for me..touch wood..

Yeah... This is true ...I am not married but still in my relatives I have seen multiple examples of this kind of mother son duo... When son knows his mother is wrong but still not able to speak bcoz of baggage his mother suffering when he was child... N this is the story most of the families of rural joint family background

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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

What they were or are showing MIL-DIL TRACK May be happening in small villages, uneducated families. It used to happen 30 some years ago but not in big cities, educated & today’s women. What used to happen long back due to MC🐷 MEN & his family torturing DILs now the situation is reversed & feminism has taken 180% turn. Today’s generation women (DIL) won’t put up with it, nor will MIL dare doing what used to happen. Men are so much under women’s control woh ufff nahi kar sakte. This is today’s fact whether one wants to accept-believe it or not. DILs have taken the role of old MILs.

There is negative connotations against ILs. My parents can do no wrong but boy’s parents are evil ILs that is the msg given out in society. They are singing old song. Woh zamane ke men to be blamed for is zamane ki feminist women. Pay back is a bitch 😞

We all want happy cohesive families but something is seriously wrong with what CVS showing on krpkab3 👎🙁

Bold3 if this iss just limited to rural families...then why just few months back , a lady from very educated family attempted suicide coz of her in-laws torture, the lady n her husband were from very good educated background...so much so that even Kerala CM had to post

Similar thing happened in kolkata ...n again family was influential, education highly reputed...

If someone is not facing it , then don't consider that this problem doesn't exist , this problem is 30 years old. Etc etc, yeah there are some families where DIL are at fault but there are some families where husband is at a fault...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Antaramantara

Bold3 if this iss just limited to rural families...then why just few months back , a lady from very educated family attempted suicide coz of her in-laws torture, a lady n his husband were from very good educated background...so much so that even Kerala CM had to post

Similar thing happened in kolkata ...n again family was influential, education highly reputed...

If someone is not facing it , then don't consider that this problem doesn't exist , this problem is 30 years old. Etc etc, yeah there are some families where DIL are at fault but there are some families where husband is at a fault...

ok I m not saying that this doesn’t happen in big cities or educated families. Yes problem exist but a bigger problem exist when what today’s DILs are doing to the boy’s parents their ILS. WE HAVE TO call spade a spade. Old problem hasn’t gone away but a bigger problem has started in past couple of decades.


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