Does Didi really love Virat?

There have been many discussions and we all know Sai and Virat love each other deeply. But I am more curious about Pakhi. Does she really love Virat?

I personally feel she does not. Virat is nothing but a mere obsession. But I don't think she realizes it.

We all hate her for all the negativity she has brought into CN and Sairat's lives. But is she inherently a vile character? Guys think about the first few episodes....we all got to see a different person all together....Pakhi used to be a positive person....not selfless (like Sai)....but definitely not vile.

Yes... life played a cruel trick on her and she could not be with Virat. But was she really in love with Virat in the first place? Attracted?....yes! But love?.....No!

She knew Virat for a sum total of 2 days. As Virat told her in the one episode which happened after ousting of Sai....."Two people can feel a lot when they meet for the first time and they too felt it. But it is only when you spend time with them do you truly realise if you love them".

After Sai came into his life Virat realized he never really loved Pakhi and hence the promise he made to her about him not allowing anyone else take her please held no ground.

But Pakhi could never realise this as she had no "True Love" feeling to compare this with.

Virat is ready to distance himself from Sai (the love of his life) as he believes him getting close to her is giving her Pain.

Sai thinks of reuniting the so called lovers.... Virat and Sai....since she believes she ruined his chances at love by entering into his life.

But Pakhi.....she was ok for Virat staying alone and lonely (the Vaada).... just because she couldn't have him .....no one can. This according to me is not love.

Love is when you keep the happiness of your loved ones before everything else .... even your pain.

So, to sum up..... Paakhi is selfish but not vile and she most definitely is not in love with Virat. She is plainly obsessed because she believes it sincerely that she loves him the most and nobody including Virat himself is able to understand her. But the truth is she is the one who is not understanding herself.

Your views??

Definitely... Pakhi needs to realize that Virat is a married man deeply and madly in love with Sai...his true love..

KBA needs to just know the difference between love and obsession... clearly she's delusional and needs therapy...

Agree with your post completely. She is merely obsessed with him. Considering the time span they developed feelings it was too short. What did they even know about each other apart from how they looked? Physical looks and mere attraction was the basis of those feelings.

Virat could break his promise easily only coz his feelings weren't anything deep. He was plain stupid to give that promise just so that she marries his cousin. It was such a bad idea. It only gave hope to Pakhi and fuelled her obsession further that she's not seeing reason anymore. She can't digest the fact that Virat has moved on and there's no way he's going take her back.

And what was she even thinking while she married Samrat? I've said before also. She should have taken the courage to stop her wedding instead of going through with it and then yelling out her love for Virat on her wedding night. Its all pure obsession.

Very nicely written, agreed with everything. We have seen three characters who are in love- Virat, Sai and Samrat. And then we have someone like Patralekha.

We have seen Virat struggling with his own, whatever he promised or whatever he said to Sai after their marriage, he is not able to make her believe that his feelings has changed for her and he has started loving her. You are right he is ready to let Sai go to her hostel or whatever just because he feels that this "deal" marriage is giving her pain. This is love.!

Sai, only 19 years old girl, is understanding what relationships are and what feelings are. She could feel everyone's pain, whether it is Pulkit Devyani, whether it is Shivani, whether it is Ninad, or let it be Pakhi too, she understands her too. She is unaware about her feelings for Virat may be, but she wants his happiness and that is why she thinks that if Virat's happiness is in Pakhi then she will get away from them. This is love.!

Samrat, though I don't get completely agreed with whatever he did, still he loves Pakhi. I said I don't agree completely because it didn't went well with me to digest that he left even his mother. For one person, he is punishing everyone in the family, that is not acceptable for me. For Pakhi, for that one girl he left his family, his mother, even his work too. Just because of the happiness of her and Virat, because he thinks he is the barrier between both of them, he left everything behind and have started a new life. This is love.!

And then we have Mrs Samrat, Patralekha. She is behaving like Virat was in a long relationship with her and have ditched her all of a sudden. No, they were not in any relationship. Yes I do agree that we could feel a sudden attraction slash likeness for someone in a blink, but love happens when we spend time with the person, like Virat said. And where there is love, there is no selfishness but there is selflessness. But ok, she didn't got her "love" in her life, then what.? Is she going to cry lifetime for it or else she will try to move on in her life. Why she is punishing herself, her husband and whoever in the family.? Isn't she aware about something known as- life goes on.! I believe that if Samrat and Virat were not brothers, then Pakhi would not have been crying and irritating others like this. She would have moved on in her life. Just because Virat is present in the same house, she is not able to bear that he is loving someone else, she is not able to bear that he is moving in his life. She is obsessed with him, true, and she only wants him to stay back to her. This is not love.!

Just on that thought....what would have happened if Paakhi told everyone that Virat and herself were in love (in reality....attraction)...? Would Sammy and BK gang got them married? And if they did get them married (nightmare!!)... would Virat and Paakhi have realised they never really loved eachother? Gosh!!! Only if Virat never went on that Ill fated Yoga retreat! Would have saved them a heartache and saved us a headache!

Vada was illogical just like didi's definition of true love... Love is selfless and if didi loved virat so much she would never agreed to marry someone else at first place secondly, she would wish only best for him she would have thought why should he ruined his life for me by giving such vada and not moving on in his life and suffer seeing me with another man??? Abeej si love story hai vada couple ki...

Love was never there 🤨 Pakhi is stuck at the place where Virat made a promise to her 🤓 Love nahi hai na hi wo kabhi bolti hai ki she loves Virat 😕 ho sakta hai merko yad nahi hai 😅 Pakhi got married kyoki she got a promise from Virat aur fir subsequently Har din Jab tak Virat realized his feelings for Sai aur uske bad bhi Virat ne kaha ki wo Pakhi se apna promise fulfill kar raha hai to na waha obsession hai na love 😒 Ek fondness hogi un memories ki which she spend thinking she loves him in the beginning 😳 Promise matter nahi karta if she didn’t have assurance of it for a long time fir wo witness ki how Virat fell for Sai 🙃🙃 Relationship ka duration to kabhi makers ne question nahi kiya otherwise us duration ke basis par jo Virat ne kiya wo kaise justify kiya jayega ❓ kyonki storyline to hai ki Virat sacrificed for his brother 😬😬😬 Our opinion can differ lekin makers yahi dikhate hain

Love is very strong emotion. It's selfless, pure and most importantly it gives FREEDOM. Pakhi Didi wants Virat's captivity. Pakhi and love, these two words are antonyms. In the entire show, show me one selfless act of hers towards anyone, just leave about Virat. Even if you consider Virat, other than sharing her POWER BANK did she ever did anything for Virat and his happiness. She married Samrat just to stay close to Virat, how creepy???

I feel that guy really felt something special for her in his heart in their first meet, maybe that's the reason he still tolerates her emotional blackmail and curses. Now he clearly understood that "You can't judge a 📚 by it's cover". With time, life will teach you many lessons even if you're not willing to learn. ❤️

Can there be love in just two days meeting ? They were attracted to each other and the time spent together was beautiful that's it. If she really loved him she wouldn't have blocked his number after he couldn't recognize her voice. If she really loved him she wouldn't have agreed to get married to someone else so soon. If she really loved him she wouldn't have cursed him to have a loveless life. If she loved him she wouldn't put him down or continuously insult him or mock him. She is so obsessed that she has created her own delusional world in her head. She thinks they were about to get married which even Virat found delusional. Both Virat and Pakhi took their attraction wrongly. But Virat realized it was just attraction while Pakhi didn't and cooked khichidi in her head.

Can there be love in just two days meeting ? They were attracted to each other and the time spent together was beautiful that's it. If she really loved him she wouldn't have blocked his number after he couldn't recognize her voice. If she really loved him she wouldn't have agreed to get married to someone else so soon. If she really loved him she wouldn't have cursed him to have a loveless life. If she loved him she wouldn't put him down or continuously insult him or mock him. She is so obsessed that she has created her own delusional world in her head. She thinks they were about to get married which even Virat found delusional. Both Virat and Pakhi took their attraction wrongly. But Virat realized it was just attraction while Pakhi didn't and cooked khichidi in her head.

I totally agree with you. Her anger to Virats not recognizing her when she called showed how egotistical she is. Her reaction was to just block him, she never gave him a chance to explain. It was all about herself. Her only thought was he had insulted her, never for a minute she did she think that the other person might have a valid reason. Being a single kid,She has been overly pampered and spoilt by her parents. Used to getting undue attention and her own way. Virat, such mein turned out lucky. Imagine married to such a self centered person, with his kind of job she would have made his life hell.

See how she behaved when he was with that little girl th e whole night and the time he was on a mission to get those territorists. That was height, she wanted to call him in middle of the operation. Her stubbornness in not saying a word to Samrat when they met. Her lies about Sai insulting her to parents. She never owned up about that Sangeeta Deshpande letter. She let omi take the blame. Her reaction on Sai’s fall on her birthday.

Actually right from the beginning she has shown a vile kind of stubbornness. She wants to be pampered and spoilt like her parents did. As she is not getting that attention from Virat she is not able to handle it.