More heartbreak - Page 2

What is really needed at this point of time is Sai and Virat taking a small break from each other. They need to step back and reflect on each other's words and actions and introspect on the reasons behind why they behave like this. Sai blurted out so many things today which have been her deep rooted insecurities regarding this relationship. She's failing to look at Virat's actions. Virat is failing to clearly communicate about his past to her. Unless he does that, this relationship will never progress to the next level. He's already done enough for Sai and he needs to stop doing these gestures to make her feel special now.

Samrat is already not giving me any good vibes. He's behaving as if Pakhi was his true love of years and he was cheated by Virat and Pakhi. Looks like this track will be stretched like rubber and unfortunately the viewers will have to put up with a certain someone as she's a crucial link to all these issues being resolved

Originally posted by: Nja91

Virat will remain mute and Sai wont listen.great combination. But ultimately it is going to be Sai that will figure out everything herself. Virat seh koi ummeed nahi ab. .but i dont understand how some people are so blind in the Sai hate/virat bhakti that they only see flaws in one person. Isnt virat equally to blame for this situation. And isn't Virat failing at listening to and understanding Sai's insecurities. She cannot voice her insecurities any more clearly than this. if despite all her insecurities, she stays with him putting even her self respect at stake, doesn't that show him that she definitely reciprocates the same love. But she is just afraid n insecure. She wants reassurance n instead of giving her that he has just allowed her to walk away with her misunderstanding. So virat is also making the same mistake as Sai- not reflecting n seeing the truth.

I'm most annoyed at Sunny also remaining mute. When he should have spoken up, he stayed quiet.

And I'm so upset that mohit/sunny didn't understand Sai's anguish and didn't mediate and try harder to resolve the fight. Neither of them folllwed Sai to make sure shes safe. She was just in an accident. Unlike virat, these 2 were the objective third party observers, the well wishers....but their half assed attempts were of no help. Their presence added no value. Might as well have given us a Sairat only scene..

It is not that easy for Sai to forget Pakhi’s accusations on Virat and her constant attempts to take him on a guilt trip. Virat himself is not addressing this concern of Sai because for him,what Pakhi does or say is immaterial . For Sai that matters because she never got the right kind of effort from Virat to clear of things by being vocal about his past.

honestly i wanted to slap sai..so dumb she us..atleast she could have redpected sunny and mohits feelings..she is so immatured.har bath par over react karna🤢😡.kitna sundar surprise tha. kaunsa pati aisaey karta hey.

why dont they both say i love you and end the matter.🤪at least we may not have a need to apply headache balm...

Originally posted by: Nja91

Virat will remain mute and Sai wont listen.great combination. But ultimately it is going to be Sai that will figure out everything herself. Virat seh koi ummeed nahi ab. .but i dont understand how some people are so blind in the Sai hate/virat bhakti that they only see flaws in one person. Isnt virat equally to blame for this situation. And isn't Virat failing at listening to and understanding Sai's insecurities. She cannot voice her insecurities any more clearly than this. if despite all her insecurities, she stays with him putting even her self respect at stake, doesn't that show him that she definitely reciprocates the same love. But she is just afraid n insecure. She wants reassurance n instead of giving her that he has just allowed her to walk away with her misunderstanding. So virat is also making the same mistake as Sai- not reflecting n seeing the truth.

I'm most annoyed at Sunny also remaining mute. When he should have spoken up, he stayed quiet.

And I'm so upset that mohit/sunny didn't understand Sai's anguish and didn't mediate and try harder to resolve the fight. Neither of them folllwed Sai to make sure shes safe. She was just in an accident. Unlike virat, these 2 were the objective third party observers, the well wishers....but their half assed attempts were of no help. Their presence added no value. Might as well have given us a Sairat only scene..

Great no..every time there is a problem in a relationship.. Virat will fail to articulate...want Sai to understand actions and then when that fails..will distance himself by never addressing the problem and eventually Sai will figure things out on her own..since Virat without addressing the source of the problem treated her like a queen

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

why dont they both say i love you and end the matter.🤪at least we may not have a need to apply headache balm...

if only Vankar loved us this much 🤣

Originally posted by: tptwi

You touched my heart with this analysis, Neerja. Truly so beautifully written ❤️

The most painful thing about today's episode to me was how glaringly clear it was that Sai and Virat are on the same side... and yet they are so blinded by their own emotions that they cannot see what the other is feeling.

The fact that Sai assumed Virat's story was about Pakhi and Virat, but Virat did not even understand what Sai was saying spoke volumes. Virat does not realize, even a little bit, the extent to which Sai is insecure about his past. Why else would Sai be so impacted by the yoga teacher narrating what happened on the retreat? If Sai felt nothing towards him, none of this would be bothering her even a little bit. She left herself entirely vulnerable today, and yet, the harsh words that she used caused Virat to retract all of his own vulnerability and crawl back into his own shell. He, too, was trying to make her understand- asking her to question why he would bring her this far to celebrate something that was fake to him... but she was so overtaken by her own confusion, guilt, and pain that she was in no state to process his questions.

The most powerful dialogue of the entire episode was when Sai said that Virat says something, but does something different. This encompasses the crux of the problem. Virat wants Sai to understand his love for her through his actions, but Sai is someone who places emphasis on words... she takes everything Virat says to her heart... and hence, she is unable to understand what Virat is actually feeling... because while she sees his actions are full of love, he has never said in words that this relationship is real, he regrets making the vaada, Pakhi is no one to him, etc. etc. What he has said has never been enough....and had he been in a more rational state today, he would have realized that.

Another moment that gave us so much insight into Sai- she said that if Virat ended everything between him and Pakhi, then why is Pakhi still waiting for him? Sai knows that Virat has never been inappropriate with Pakhi. She even sees that he defends her in front of Pakhi... but, all of these things are overclouded by Pakhi's constant tamashas... she shamelessly declares that Virat has shattered her dreams and basically professes her love for him outside of their bedroom in the middle of the night. How is Sai supposed to look past all of this? The disconnect here is that Sai hides her emotions so well and Virat is so blinded in his own feelings of love, that Virat has never realized how much all of this bothers her... again, this could have been the perfect opportunity, but he was too broken...

For everyone saying that Virat lost another opportunity to confess today and tell the truth, I disagree. The man is destroyed. Sai didn't outright reject him, and no matter how true what she said was, her words hit him like daggers. He stopped Mohit from finishing his sentence, because in his mind, there was no way that Sai would accept anything he said. He did not want to push it and lose even more of her than he already had...

Today, Sai was completely alone. Mohit and Sunny both understand Virat and Sunny even helped him realize his feelings. But, Sai has no one... absolutely no one... who can understand the turmoil going on within her.

When Sai said that if Virat wants to see her happy, he needs to stop playing with her emotions, she once again placed all of her emotions on the table. The contradictions between Virat's words (or lack of words) and his actions are driving Sai mad. She does not understand what he is trying to do or what he is actually feeling. This is exactly what she meant when she told him to stop joking that he likes her during the ring gifting. She has let herself believe in the reality of this marriage and been shattered way too many times by now. She is so scared to let herself believe it at this point. And, what emotions was she talking about? Obviously love.... she is in love with Virat, but she will not let herself accept her own feelings because she is absolutely terrified that Virat doesn't reciprocate...so when he sends her signals that he does, she feels as if he is playing with her feelings.

Her monologue on the walk was much needed. She has never been present when Virat has put Pakhi in her place, so in her mind, Virat has always been soft with Pakhi... giving her false hope. This is her guilt pouring out of her. Sai is someone who cannot see even her enemies in pain...let alone Pakhi, who despite the abuse she spews at Sai, Sai considers her family. She thinks that she is the reason that Virat and Pakhi were not able to unite. Had she witnessed the post-GC fight confrontation or the post-accident confrontation, the story would be very different today.

Again, Sai thought to herself that Virat has never said anything to her to show that he might have feelings for her. Virat has in fact told her that he does not want her to leave him, he has no commitment towards Pakhi, and that he wants this marriage to be real (which to me does not count because Sai was in no state to understand him right after she had regained consciousness in the hospital). But, all of these words, Sai has been unable to label as his love for her as a husband. The fact is that Virat has tried very hard to express himself, but he has never been clear enough... due to his own fear of losing her, and today, in his mind, all of his worst fears came true...

Today, during the monologue, Sai was finally starting to try to understand Virat's perspective... she was questioning what his motives are... this seems to be the beginning of her own realization even if she is too immersed in her own pain right now...

The ending absolutely killed me. Virat thinks that Sai feels nothing for him and that she left him because of it... when in fact quite the opposite is true...

It is clear now that Virat will not say anything. After he witnesses Sai and Samrat's conversation, his heart is going to break 100000 times over. From this point on, it will be Sai who is going to have to figure things out on her own, and to me, today marked the start of that. In a weird way, Pakhi was a catalyst for Virat in realizing his feelings for Sai, and now Samrat will be the catalyst for Sai...

Forgot to tag you ❤️

Problem in this love story is their circumstances are massive...dramatic...always the worst case scenario 😔 lekin har situation ke bad ye log aisa behave karte hain jaise kuch hua hi nahi tha 😐 This is sign of a fake relationship 😬😬 Jaise yaha par jo viewers hain usne mera relationship show tak hai Fights ke bad mai solve nahi karti 😆 ek dusre ko itna ganda bol dete hain 😄 fir normally baat karte hain kyonki hamko kaha milna hai? Lekin agar they want to make their marriage work to they have to talk Superficial relationship hai SaiRat 🤔 Ek fight jisme characterless Wali baat aye fir dusre din haha hihi Shuru 😆 aur shippers only need proximity, closeness 😬 ye nahi dikhta ki relationship is toxic 😄 who was right? 😶🤔 I think both were wrong 😕 Pakhi is not there with them ek I love you se baat ban sakti hai 😬😬 Jo Virat rejection ke dar se nahi bolta

Originally posted by: tptwi

You touched my heart with this analysis, Neerja. Truly so beautifully written ❤️

The most painful thing about today's episode to me was how glaringly clear it was that Sai and Virat are on the same side... and yet they are so blinded by their own emotions that they cannot see what the other is feeling.

The fact that Sai assumed Virat's story was about Pakhi and Virat, but Virat did not even understand what Sai was saying spoke volumes. Virat does not realize, even a little bit, the extent to which Sai is insecure about his past. Why else would Sai be so impacted by the yoga teacher narrating what happened on the retreat? If Sai felt nothing towards him, none of this would be bothering her even a little bit. She left herself entirely vulnerable today, and yet, the harsh words that she used caused Virat to retract all of his own vulnerability and crawl back into his own shell. He, too, was trying to make her understand- asking her to question why he would bring her this far to celebrate something that was fake to him... but she was so overtaken by her own confusion, guilt, and pain that she was in no state to process his questions.

The most powerful dialogue of the entire episode was when Sai said that Virat says something, but does something different. This encompasses the crux of the problem. Virat wants Sai to understand his love for her through his actions, but Sai is someone who places emphasis on words... she takes everything Virat says to her heart... and hence, she is unable to understand what Virat is actually feeling... because while she sees his actions are full of love, he has never said in words that this relationship is real, he regrets making the vaada, Pakhi is no one to him, etc. etc. What he has said has never been enough....and had he been in a more rational state today, he would have realized that.

Another moment that gave us so much insight into Sai- she said that if Virat ended everything between him and Pakhi, then why is Pakhi still waiting for him? Sai knows that Virat has never been inappropriate with Pakhi. She even sees that he defends her in front of Pakhi... but, all of these things are overclouded by Pakhi's constant tamashas... she shamelessly declares that Virat has shattered her dreams and basically professes her love for him outside of their bedroom in the middle of the night. How is Sai supposed to look past all of this? The disconnect here is that Sai hides her emotions so well and Virat is so blinded in his own feelings of love, that Virat has never realized how much all of this bothers her... again, this could have been the perfect opportunity, but he was too broken...

For everyone saying that Virat lost another opportunity to confess today and tell the truth, I disagree. The man is destroyed. Sai didn't outright reject him, and no matter how true what she said was, her words hit him like daggers. He stopped Mohit from finishing his sentence, because in his mind, there was no way that Sai would accept anything he said. He did not want to push it and lose even more of her than he already had...

Today, Sai was completely alone. Mohit and Sunny both understand Virat and Sunny even helped him realize his feelings. But, Sai has no one... absolutely no one... who can understand the turmoil going on within her.

When Sai said that if Virat wants to see her happy, he needs to stop playing with her emotions, she once again placed all of her emotions on the table. The contradictions between Virat's words (or lack of words) and his actions are driving Sai mad. She does not understand what he is trying to do or what he is actually feeling. This is exactly what she meant when she told him to stop joking that he likes her during the ring gifting. She has let herself believe in the reality of this marriage and been shattered way too many times by now. She is so scared to let herself believe it at this point. And, what emotions was she talking about? Obviously love.... she is in love with Virat, but she will not let herself accept her own feelings because she is absolutely terrified that Virat doesn't reciprocate...so when he sends her signals that he does, she feels as if he is playing with her feelings.

Her monologue on the walk was much needed. She has never been present when Virat has put Pakhi in her place, so in her mind, Virat has always been soft with Pakhi... giving her false hope. This is her guilt pouring out of her. Sai is someone who cannot see even her enemies in pain...let alone Pakhi, who despite the abuse she spews at Sai, Sai considers her family. She thinks that she is the reason that Virat and Pakhi were not able to unite. Had she witnessed the post-GC fight confrontation or the post-accident confrontation, the story would be very different today.

Again, Sai thought to herself that Virat has never said anything to her to show that he might have feelings for her. Virat has in fact told her that he does not want her to leave him, he has no commitment towards Pakhi, and that he wants this marriage to be real (which to me does not count because Sai was in no state to understand him right after she had regained consciousness in the hospital). But, all of these words, Sai has been unable to label as his love for her as a husband. The fact is that Virat has tried very hard to express himself, but he has never been clear enough... due to his own fear of losing her, and today, in his mind, all of his worst fears came true...

Today, during the monologue, Sai was finally starting to try to understand Virat's perspective... she was questioning what his motives are... this seems to be the beginning of her own realization even if she is too immersed in her own pain right now...

The ending absolutely killed me. Virat thinks that Sai feels nothing for him and that she left him because of it... when in fact quite the opposite is true...

It is clear now that Virat will not say anything. After he witnesses Sai and Samrat's conversation, his heart is going to break 100000 times over. From this point on, it will be Sai who is going to have to figure things out on her own, and to me, today marked the start of that. In a weird way, Pakhi was a catalyst for Virat in realizing his feelings for Sai, and now Samrat will be the catalyst for Sai...

Lovely analysis 😢.

So, sais trigger as we all assumed was the suicide story and yoga girls chemistry BS. I don't want to sound like a broken record but that story was weird and doomed the whole trip. Writers really need to stop insulting Virat intelligence who is supposed to be a topper in UPSC 🙄.

So Sai asked mostly the right questions like you said but a few things went right above my head

1) how is Pakhi a bechaari but Virat is the villain even after sunny saying they broke off everything the moment he found out she was getting married to Jeeva. How come she didn't get curious why she married Jeeva if she had such a great love story with Virat. So she would trust her abusers dukh bari kahani but not Virat or sunny version of the same story🙄

2) sai also hints at Virat playing with 2 women's feelings. Why doesn't she call out Pakhi aswell for being married to one and trying to have an affair with her brother in-law and declare her love openly. Is this not playing with 2 men and cheating her husband irrespective of if Samrat is there or not 🙄. I can't think of any right term to use other than a sexist.

One dialogue which stuck me and wished Virat spoke was when sai says mujhe pata hain Virat sir kye Dil mein Pakhi Didi Kee kyaa jagha hain. She paused for a moment hoping Virat would say something and she seemed disappointed that he did not deny anything 😢. I wanted to go into the screen and make him say something, anything 🙄.

Virat was truly broken and shattered that Sai still thinks this is nothing more than a deal waali Shaadi and that he holds a Diya for Pakhi 🤢. The only time he seemed to try and explain was related to the silly story and the yoga teacher claims, but that too was a bummer. What did he mean when he said all of that was past, when did they even have anything to Begin with, they did not confess, they didn't share anything other than the possessed dance🤢. If this is the makers way of still keeping the invisible triangle then hats off to them 🙄.

Sunny needs a kick on his bum, what was he talking about dor and rishta which Virat broke off. What dor what rishta they never had anything so much that Pakhi agreed to marry the 1st guy who came along🙄. Sab Nasha Karke aaye hain 😑.

All my hope about sunny revealing the real story to Sai came crashing down, kaise beizatti hain yeh 😭🤣

I know no one is interested in Pakhi 🤣 but I have to say this , she is such a b****. How dare she talks to Ashwini that way and all c gang including Mansi are looking like she is doing ashwinis aarti and only speak to shut Aai. What kind of sanskaars are these where p gets to murder someone and can still be the victim 🙄. From sais becahri dialogues and her nonstop nonsense about nothing left in her life are clear they want to white wash her like no one else. My only hope is Samrat though I am not liking him much with the constant Didi flash back and nothing about his mom. But, Please show the c gang what sort of cheat she is 😑

Oh by the way the cake is not real. It was something else and it shattered 🤣🤣

Rewatching the episode 3 times to gather all the dialogues seriously made me depressed 😔 need to wash my brain 🤣🤣

Lets keep KD aside, I liked the episode because the way writers handled the anniversary track. They placed the Virats fake story (how ever dumb it is!) and yoga teacher aptly so it looks like, to me atleast that Sai's outburst is mostly exacerbated due to these two incidents.

Yes she is confused, she wanted more verbal assertion but imagine if the two incidents did not happen, Would sai be so mad as she was today?...I dont think so. More than yoga teacher crap, Virat's story had upset her the most. It has opened her the box of insecurites which I think she had sealed after the accident patchup. I am sure if not for these two incidents, she would have been happy for the surprise and virat would have confessed and everything would have ended well.

But the fate has some more suffering in the store for them. One good thing is Sai has spit out everything. She acknowledged there are issues with all these things. Only when you understand the root cause, you will try to solve it. While solving her questions, she will find answers.

Virat would have definitely confessed if she had reacted positively. It was the right moment. But now he will take few steps back. He always had doubts about Sai loving him as a life partner. Today her words will be taken by 'insecure' part of Virat seriously. He will move away, which will help them. Virat has faced the fear of losing Sai to Ajinkya. Sai has to face the fear. when you are faced with your worst fears, you think instinctively what is needed for you to end it. NO additional garbage will interfere with your thought process.

PS: Today Sai did say some harsh words for which Virat deserves an apology, not for a husband but for her caretaker and friend who never crossed the line with her nor showed anything 'more' without her consent.

AND LETS NOT DISCUSS KD. Yes i am saying this 😔. Writers are giving us something different. Lets see! KD messes with our brains.