A Reprieve of Open Communication - Page 4

Originally posted by: Josupra

Forgot to mention.. previously whenever Imlie went missing, Adi always used to cover his concerned about Imlie saying, she is 19yr old girl who is new to city.. now, with the truth being out, he is able to freely say, Imlie is his wife and he would obviously be concerned. Aparna aur Didi’s ki sadi hui shakal was sooo good.. they couldn’t argue his point 😆

Everytime he gets to say seena thok ki PATNI hai humari, chinta hogi na, you can just see that sense of satisfaction inside him ki he can express his truth FULLY without hesitation😆.....bechara was burdened for SO LONG in making excuses about showing his concern for Imlie....ab no tension😆

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

About precap: sari chori didi I think will be trying to churao and imlie aa jaayevi toh didi will act all bechari ke usse bohat pasand aa gaya ya kuch nd imlie de degi isse ke phir aap pehan lo ya yeh gayab karke ya dang laga ke kuch karke will make sure imlie wears the dress and she gets to wear it.. then she will be I will make up for the sari and make you look better dress pehan ke jao and all to make fun of her ke adi ne hi kaha and might tell adi ke imlie refused to wear your gift damaged it ya kuch bhi so I wore it since imlie does seem to have an objection with the color I guess or the fact that it is expensive toh adi usse samjha raha hai ke kuch bhi expensive nahi and phar ka rang toh dilhega so she knows the conversation she will lie to both and hence adi will be totally confused..

Thu at my kalli zabaan but they can also do the typical wala MU of adi thinking didi is imlie and maybe a back hug ya kuch and imlie seeing it.. thu thu but I hope not.. don't ask.me how they will pull that from back caz imlie and didk look totally different haha

Can I have the first option please - sounds much better than the second one 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

ROFL Adi ko Imlie ke KADAK haath ki aadat hai, not Didi ka LIMP noodle wala massage🤣.....cuz he did say ki roz toh tum champi karke mera sar khol deti ho.....lol toh matlab effective head massage toh Imlie waali hi hai even after 7 years of Didi ki LIMP waali😛🤣

Re: Imlie's sisterly yearning....lol I still feel it's overblown with Imlie talking about how she has no one to hold her hand....umm toh who his Adi and what about her actual parents? lol but yeah ST's acting in that scene was superb.

I agree the whole sisterly talk is overblown but there are some people who yearn desperately for a sibling cos that is a different bond.

But somehow saying this in her mind , adi and her parents are not even comparable cos they are a part of her….. Sorry I on’t know if I am coming through with what I am trying to say … it’s a bit hard to put in words i guess

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

About precap: sari chori didi I think will be trying to churao and imlie aa jaayevi toh didi will act all bechari ke usse bohat pasand aa gaya ya kuch nd imlie de degi isse ke phir aap pehan lo ya yeh gayab karke ya dang laga ke kuch karke will make sure imlie wears the dress and she gets to wear it.. then she will be I will make up for the sari and make you look better dress pehan ke jao and all to make fun of her ke adi ne hi kaha and might tell adi ke imlie refused to wear your gift damaged it ya kuch bhi so I wore it since imlie does seem to have an objection with the color I guess or the fact that it is expensive toh adi usse samjha raha hai ke kuch bhi expensive nahi and phar ka rang toh dilhega so she knows the conversation she will lie to both and hence adi will be totally confused..

Thu at my kalli zabaan but they can also do the typical wala MU of adi thinking didi is imlie and maybe a back hug ya kuch and imlie seeing it.. thu thu but I hope not.. don't ask.me how they will pull that from back caz imlie and didk look totally different haha

Don't say it NM.. Imagine karne se hi michmichi ho rahi hai.. Adi can't mistake Malini for Imlie..

Other than this, your prediction about the precap is quite possible. After seeing Didi's sad face, Imlie might have given the saree to her. Didi once gave uttaran to Imlie but Imlie being Imlie, gave didi a new saree.. rakle didi aur kush ho jaa.. Whatever you do, you cannot even increase Adi's concern for you forgot about love.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL and I'll still say that it's DETACHMENT more than "Selfishness"😆.....He just genuinely does NOT give a damn about Malini😆.....itni baar directly/indirect he's expressed it but ab bhi log nahin samajh rahe😆

Today, he didn't hide anything from Imlie at all.....so I don't get the "selfishness" argument anymore😆.....weren't people claiming that he will be "selfish" by hiding the KC truth from Imlie cuz he's insecure that she'll leave him? 😆......Yet none of that came to pass.....lol

What I saw was an Adi totally feeling secure in his relationship with Imlie. He's never dug below the surface with Malini before also so why on earth will he start now? 😆......His approach with everyone else has usually been to take things at face value only.....lol he asked Malini directly, she lied again, he bought her lie.....baat khatam.....why should he dig deeper than that? 😆......Agar itna hi selfish hota toh token questioning bhi nahin karta Malini se😆......this is just his surface level detachment speaking.....he can't bring himself to care about anyone else other than Imlie😆.

Where is this coming from but seriously selfish? For example? Selfish hota toh kyon batata imlie ko ke maine yahaan tak pooch lia if she loves me? And now she can go and ask ? Phir toh he would want to make sure ke imlie koi baat na kare and buy his version.. I don't know if it is lack of a better word ke kya..isme selfishness kaha se aa gayi..

He made it so clear ke didi ka dosti bhi sirf ek ehsaan hai.. he is just doing it for returning a favor for helping them by lying isme selfish kahan koi baat nahi chuppayi but selfish ok

With you strongkybon every word ..adi doesn't give a shit as we have said it so many times it really doesn't bother him and he doesn't think it is her business to find out further again as he told imlie too ke tumhein kyon lagta hai ke hum hi hain dono pareshaani she she have alag reasons toom he is genuinly not interested in finding more caz usne apna farz poora kar lia by dorectly asking didi and then telling imlie ke he asked straight up if she has feelings caz that was his worry and she refused toh ab ghanta farak nahi padta it is not their business ..adi by nature is not the one to ghusso in kisi ka bhi life and I like that about him a lot

I am sorry but it is anything but selfishness as he was so clear to imlie ek dum Sacha and straight koi Indirect nahi maare and that just shows how secure these 2 are ke yeh yahan tak bata sakta hai ke he asked his ex whether she loves him...

Originally posted by: Josupra

Don't say it NM.. Imagine karne se hi michmichi ho rahi hai.. Adi can't mistake Malini for Imlie..

Other than this, your prediction about the precap is quite possible. After seeing Didi's sad face, Imlie might have given the saree to her. Didi once gave uttaran to Imlie but Imlie being Imlie, gave didi a new saree.. rakle didi aur kush ho jaa.. Whatever you do, you cannot even increase Adi's concern for you forgot about love.

Not that i want it but they will have to do something to make didi feel she won but adi imlie will sial as always agar didi ne kuch lie kia bhi toh seeing today am sure imlie will say it and tell.him je usko pasand aa gayi isne dedi emotionally weak lady ko to feel happy 😆 Am just putting and option main khud aisa kuch nahi chahti whatsoever but having options open is good caz then we are prepared

Originally posted by: PPak

Lovely write up. One thing I thought tho - while Adi to Imlie commumnication was open....did Imlie tell Adi about Didi asking her to go and then calling Adi to come and pick her up, She pondered about it but did not bring it uo to Adi to assert her suspicion that dd was still hung up on Adi,

One more thing - if with truth out Imlie and Imlie is no longer even considering leaving for DD - then what does she want to achieve by she and Adi going to Dd and speaking to her. I dont get that. Isnt it better to allow M then with whetver self respect she has left than forcing her to tell the truth. Adi seriously for all his talk clearly showed he doid npt care a damn about DD. Nice episode.Dance will be on as soon as Wed or /thur i think with precap tomoroow. Hope they don't spoil it.

Imlie at this point simply wants to get to the root of why Malini is acting weird.....I don't think she has any inkling that Malini is trying to lure Adi back to her.

Imlie's stance is that she thinks Malini has only ever loved Adi but she has still sacrificed her love for Imlie-Adi's sake.....and supposedly she is hiding her pain/loneliness inside her.....so Imlie is offering support to Malini so that she doesn't feel alone.....that's all...

What she told Adi today was that she just wants to find out what the issue with Malini is.....Imlie is not sure yet so what can she tell Adi about it anyways? Both Adi-Imlie are disregarding obvious red flags about Malini's cheap antics which show she is trying to force closeness with Adi😆

Originally posted by: Josupra

of course.. Adi takes everyone's words at face value except Imlie, He asked what he wanted to, Adi's answer is good enough for him so he doesn't want to complicate it more by asking her again as Imlie suggested.. He asked, she said and it is done.. Iss se saada ee kisi aur ke liye kar hi nahi sakta..

Expecting anything else from Adi is just foolishness.. he is not wired to dig thru answers except when it is related to Imlie and then his work.

Exactly this.....his funda has always been like this about everything....he doesn't like complications in general😆. But for Imlie, he's ready to take on all the complications in the world😆....she is his only exception.

Warna socho, just yesterday this guy was making emotional claims to Malini promising her dosti wala saath....and aaj he was like, mere kaan thak gaye Malini ke topic pe baat kar kar ke🤣....that should tell you everything about what he means vis a vis dosti with Malini😆.

Isne jitna basic puchhne ka effort kar liya to clarify his doubt, that is the entire scope of his "gehri dosti" related efforts, bas😆.....Baaki iska saara dhyaan Imlie ke upar hi rehta hai😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

ROFL Adi ko Imlie ke KADAK haath ki aadat hai, not Didi ka LIMP noodle wala massage🤣.....cuz he did say ki roz toh tum champi karke mera sar khol deti ho.....lol toh matlab effective head massage toh Imlie waali hi hai even after 7 years of Didi ki LIMP waali😛🤣

Re: Imlie's sisterly yearning....lol I still feel it's overblown with Imlie talking about how she has no one to hold her hand....umm toh who his Adi and what about her actual parents? lol but yeah ST's acting in that scene was superb.

Yes adi was complaining ke aaj kya marre hue haaton se doing champi.🤣 I would take it as him identifying ke uski biwi ka haath nahi Hai.. that gives me satisfaction he knew ke uski biwi ka touch kya hai but isko masaage mil raha tha toh he was like karte raho free ki seva 🤣 asal toh aake biwi hi karegi meri🤣🤣

About sisterly bond ST act well but I just found it soooo extra OTT and ek dum bizzare ..I u derstsnd when you say ke.kuch log yearn and all understandable but they make it sound as if imlie was an annath ..pehle bhi they mad ever say nonsense like didi is the first one to apnao her and all and ab yeh..when she disregards the genuine rishte for didi that is when I have problem.when she calls didi her maayka then I have the problemm.when she puts that woman above adi and her Amma I have a problem.. PD kya hai iska phir sasural..her Amma is not her apni or never held her hand kya? Frank those who have come across as sisters more than ever..yeh zabardasti ki bakwaas bai saari ke hunara haath kisi ne nahi thama adi kya iske kaan pakkadta hai haath toh wohi Thame ga na..usne iska saath nahi dia..ek.dum high on cheap Nasha bakwaass karwate hain imlie se in this behanchara and usse bhi funny hai ke she doesn't care about this pyaari behan either until she is not in front of her..zabaradari angle hai heh and it just is infuriating with the way they make imlie not have any self esteem and say she is above any body else for her whe she doesn't give a shit never has

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Where is this coming from but seriously selfish? For example? Selfish hota toh kyon batata imlie ko ke maine yahaan tak pooch lia if she loves me? And now she can go and ask ? Phir toh he would want to make sure ke imlie koi baat na kare and buy his version.. I don't know if it is lack of a better word ke kya..isme selfishness kaha se aa gayi..

He made it so clear ke didi ka dosti bhi sirf ek ehsaan hai.. he is just doing it for returning a favor for helping them by lying isme selfish kahan koi baat nahi chuppayi but selfish ok

With you strongkybon every word ..adi doesn't give a shit as we have said it so many times it really doesn't bother him and he doesn't think it is her business to find out further again as he told imlie too ke tumhein kyon lagta hai ke hum hi hain dono pareshaani she she have alag reasons toom he is genuinly not interested in finding more caz usne apna farz poora kar lia by dorectly asking didi and then telling imlie ke he asked straight up if she has feelings caz that was his worry and she refused toh ab ghanta farak nahi padta it is not their business ..adi by nature is not the one to ghusso in kisi ka bhi life and I like that about him a lot

I am sorry but it is anything but selfishness as he was so clear to imlie ek dum Sacha and straight koi Indirect nahi maare and that just shows how secure these 2 are ke yeh yahan tak bata sakta hai ke he asked his ex whether she loves him...

@bold: Haan that is what I was also trying to clarify. If he was selfish, he would stop Imlie from digging deeper and asking Malini about it too.....but he didn't do that and told Imlie ki she is free to check for her own tassalli.

So then as you said, his case is more about general FARZ nibhaane wala......woh bhi bahut hi to the point ekdum.....lol.....he treats Malini like a detached responsibility - that is why he is not interested in digging around in her life beyond the surface level.....His business is only Imlie😆......baaki sabke liye yeah his funda is "not my business"😆.....Tunnel vision waale Babusahib😆