Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #28 | Love Endures - Page 49

Just fyi if anyone is wondering which fabric is which lol:

The dark maroon from staircase scene with the single thick trim/lace is chiffon or georgette.

The light blue floral and the pink floral are organza or muslin - probably organza bc it appears to be soft.

The net would be the black one we saw in a BTS and the white one with a hearts (personally hated the design of that one). And I think it's just net achal (anchal?) and the rest of the saree is georgette/chiffon. I'd have to take a closer look.

The (often) silk (banarasi/handloom/handwoven) are the ones that are darker silky ones with the gold motifs/pattern.

Her yellow one we see in the kitchen when she's making kheer for Raghav in precap - I think that's muslin.

Often times my family design our own lehengas / kameez/etc, so that's why I know about different types of fabrics - thought I'd share the knowledge here.

Originally posted by: MissWiseUnicorn

Don't even get me started on that grey saree😵

I'm so glad the confession happened in a pink saree and not that grey one! Pink is their romance colour I swear.. every romantic milestone in their relationship had a pink saree 🤣

At least now the frequency of repeating sarees is less... warna pehle toh we used to get the same saree every two days

It's unbelievable that women have more clothing types than I can even remember and yet Raghav has a better wardrobe than Pallavi... She's the FL for god's sake give her a better wardrobe

what's the grey one?!

Originally posted by: PinkOrchid

There were two things I implemented since to help me overcome all the negativity I faced because of them, I now always put myself first and I also have very clear boundaries with family, friends etc, 3 strikes and you are out!!

I see such strong people around in our AT. You people inspire me, literally🤗

Originally posted by: Diya2021

How are you feeling about the current track ? Even though I love Pallavi, I am finding it a bit difficult to digest the logistics lately. Her helping Mandar and this separation with Raghav is bit forced for me. Why should she give all kasam and all to Baba and that too to VD, found it so weird after her strongly opposing his behaviour. And why does she have to stay away from Raghav to look after Mandar ? I am still finding it unrealistic to see her strong attachment to D family. Other than Aayi & Kaka, I just can’t relate her attachment to anyone else there. Even after Aayi herself said that Mandar isn’t her responsibility anymore, why can’t she back off a bit and set her priorities right. I just saw a new BTS, looks like Mandar is again going to try suicide. Please can someone push that man down because I just can’t stand him anymore. What is his obsession with Pallavi? And how is Pallavi allowing him to take advantage of her so much ? I’m really upset with the writers in spoiling Pallavi’s character. I have been trying so hard to justify her character but some scenes have been very badly written. I have no idea what they are trying to show by pulling on such a separation. For god’s sake, they are husband and wife and who is stopping them from meeting each other ? I don’t understand why she needs to stay away from him and look after Mandar. And looks like this isn’t going to be resolved any time soon. Sorry for the long rant. Was thinking I shouldn’t but I have been struggling to watch it as I don’t want to leave the show halfway as well.

Hey! You jumped in right in the middle of this discussion only. I think page 53 onwards? The current track is frustrating, yes, and the mistakes both of them have made from the inception of the plot are just...exhausting, but trying to maintain a positive outlook for now.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Exactly. He was totally fine working as a ambulance driver. Even after coming to D house he did his DNA test and picked up report by himself. Went to RR mansion and went to Mandir alone and now all of sudden he needs to be monitored all the that too by Pallavi onlu🤪🤪

Then he goes to meet SunKi alone

How come nobody noticed him going out

What if he jumps off a cliff in his hallucination attack or runs into vehicle in his trance

Cvs ullu bna rahe hai humko aur kuchh nahi

Yes! See!! They sure are making fools of us!! It’s spoiling what otherwise has been a decent show for me to tolerate. I don’t watch many of these serials as can’t deal with such naff storylines but will continue with remote at hand as I only watch for Pallavi & Raghav😊

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Yay! Thanks a lot Yaar🤗

You're welcome!! Enjoy :) And good luck - hopefully you won't get sucked into the abyss of kdramas 🤣 for your own mental health.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

According to me, what makes it easier to understand Raghav in the current scenario is the fact that the emotion he’s undergoing is a very usual one. We all have known this insecurity and fear too well at some point in our lives. But honestly how many of us have even witnessed a situation that Pallavi is in. A widow living with her in laws. The in-laws with whom she shares a cordial relationship and treat them as her own parents. Let’s not forget that she is an orphan by birth. That is bound to have an impact here. They are now her ex in-laws to us, but to her VD remains a father figure only. I had a tiff with my parents years ago, and it went so bad in my head that I didn’t speak to them for months. At that time I was sure I was never going to. But today I am as attached to them as I ever was. What made me snap out of my ignorance was seeing my father hurting due to my behaviour. I put all my complaints to rest then and there. I couldn’t see him like that. You don’t forget, maybe you don’t even forgive but you melt down. You can’t be bitter or harsh for too long, especially to your family, that too in the situations which are already too hard on them. Because at the end of the day you are a human with varying range of emotions. That is exactly what’s happening here!

Another thing is, we equate Pallavi with ourselves. I would have done this or that in her situation. But she is not us. Sabka apna apna tareeka, timimg hota hai deal krne ka.

Example- if a friend comes and tells me that I hurt them with my words, but according to me my words were well known facts which shouldn’t have hurt anybody under normal circumstances : what should be my counter response?

1) itna toh kuch hua bhi nhi. You are overreacting.

2) or I should stop and think maybe this person is very sensitive. Or maybe she is going through certain difficult circumstances that a trivial things feels like a huge deal to her. Or maybe it has something to do with her past experiences that my words were hurtful uske liye.

I prefer going (2) way. If someone comes and tells me they are hurt- so they are hurt. Period.

I don’t get to decide if they should or should not feel hurt. What’s not hurtful for me might be extremely painful for them. And vice versa.

So I see pallavi in this light only. If she’s telling me that she still feels attached and responsible towards her in-laws toh baat whin khatam. IMO, I don’t get to decide how she should or should not feel. There must be so many factors which have lead to this.

You forgot to tag me 😒

Same, this was my feedback too.

@wilddreams: i forgot your name, sorry . i know,your ask is from Cvs and not Pallavi but hopefully it is not taking away your complete pleasure from watching the show.

Originally posted by: fria319

Just fyi if anyone is wondering which fabric is which lol:

The dark maroon from staircase scene with the single thick trim/lace is chiffon or georgette.

The light blue floral and the pink floral are organza or muslin - probably organza bc it appears to be soft.

The net would be the black one we saw in a BTS and the white one with a hearts (personally hated the design of that one). And I think it's just net achal (anchal?) and the rest of the saree is georgette/chiffon. I'd have to take a closer look.

The (often) silk (banarasi/handloom/handwoven) are the ones that are darker silky ones with the gold motifs/pattern.

Her yellow one we see in the kitchen when she's making kheer for Raghav in precap - I think that's muslin.

Often times my family design our own lehengas / kameez/etc, so that's why I know about different types of fabrics - thought I'd share the knowledge here.

That was some much required knowledge . Honestly, I have still not been able to figure out the difference between many such fabrics

This might help a lil bit atleast😆

Originally posted by: fria319

what's the grey one?!

The one she wore in the hospital during the whole keel (nail) drama... she was about to confess in the hospital.

I think stopping that confession was the only useful thing that Mandar has ever done🤣

Originally posted by: MissWiseUnicorn

The one she wore in the hospital during the whole keel (nail) drama... she was about to confess in the hospital.

I think stopping that confession was the only useful thing that Mandar has ever done🤣

OMG I HATED that one too 🤣🤣

@bold: 🤣🤣🤣🤣