Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
Haan! It was marked as mature and I wondered ki aisa kya post kar diya hails ne?
I had read long ago an article on grief.
They said grief hit in waves and then those waves becomes less strong as time passes.
Time is the best healer after all.
I wish u and ua family happiness and healing Hails🖤
That is exactly how it is! There are days when triggers hit and I can't seem to get out of it. Everything comes back flooding. Especially with my dadaji. He was like my second father. He raised me when I lived in India and we he moved in with us after my baa passed away, he was literally my world. He was in depression and couldnt be alone. He would always want me in the same room. He liked to be outdoors and CoVID really hit him mentally. in the end it got so bad that hewould have anxiety attacks from being lonely and would say "tubpan ave mane eklo chodi dayis" if was out of his sight for like 10 minutes. and I dedicated all of my personal time those years to him. Whatever he wanted to do. There's just a huge void in my life now. But deep down, I tell myself that he's united with my grandma and is in a much better place. And that's why your OS hit me so hard the other day