Malini's Confession today

Malini to Anu Today-

" Itne Salon se mein serf Adityaa se Pyaar kia,Saccha aur Gehra.Aditya Confuse the,but mein nei.Mein janti thi mera peyaar,peyaar hain dosti nei.Apni life n dunia mei meine serf adityaa se peyaar kia,uske bina mein nei ji sakti "

So malini knows that very well Adi was always confused about her , even on that time too when imlie was not in the picture. yet she invested her time on him, yeh jante huye bhi Adi vaise usko kabhi peyaar kiai nei jaisa woh chahte the . she was forever insecure agar hum initial episodes dekhte the . usmein usko 7 ghante ka duria bhi bardast nei huyee , how she was scaring- ap dur hogeye humse , bla bla..so it was always from her side n she knew it.

but phirbhi every time she is playing victim card on the name of 7 Saal jahape she knows adi was always confused . ajke yeh revelation mujhe woh wala 7 saal naya tarikesee sochne mein majbur kar dia. it was always one sided, intejaar malini kiaa , she invested her life by her own wish . not defending Adi , he definitely wrong too. but yeh jo malini ek tarafaa blame bass Adi ko karte hain 7 saaal kay duhai deke yeh mere hisab se galad hain. cos ismein she was clear already , adi always considered her as friend not love the way she wanted on those 7 years ...

Welcome to the club

We already know it is one sided love, who she invested her 7 years of compromising for an insecure relation ignoring all the red signals!

She made herself the convenient partner that AKT could live with.

And now she can not let go of her obsession!

Yes AKT did wrong to her when he marry her in impulsive act to fight his destiny and fate and to save his ego! But he told her first, he DID, but due to her fainting he couldn't compromise her health for a force relation so he lied on her for the sake of her health!

But during the 7 years, yes he may be confused, not understanding what love is, he don't have time to explore another relations and options, but she sensed that na? She could save herself from this insecure relation a while ago without investing this amount of time!

And another thing , how could we blame him, if due one line she fainted, he left for 4 days she went on hunger strike, she assume he has an affair she committed suicide, so you could imagine what kind of personality she have, she may blackmail him, guilt trip him during this 7 years to keep him close! But not enough to make their relation stronger 🤗

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Malini to Anu Today-

" Itne Salon se mein serf Adityaa se Pyaar kia,Saccha aur Gehra.Aditya Confuse the,but mein nei.Mein janti thi mera peyaar,peyaar hain dosti nei.Apni life n dunia mei meine serf adityaa se peyaar kia,uske bina mein nei ji sakti "

So malini knows that very well Adi was always confused about her , even on that time too when imlie was not in the picture. yet she invested her time on him, yeh jante huye bhi Adi vaise usko kabhi peyaar kiai nei jaisa woh chahte the . she was forever insecure agar hum initial episodes dekhte the . usmein usko 7 ghante ka duria bhi bardast nei huyee , how she was scaring- ap dur hogeye humse , bla bla..so it was always from her side n she knew it.

but phirbhi every time she is playing victim card on the name of 7 Saal jahape she knows adi was always confused . ajke yeh revelation mujhe woh wala 7 saal naya tarikesee sochne mein majbur kar dia. it was always one sided, intejaar malini kiaa , she invested her life by her own wish . not defending Adi , he definitely wrong too. but yeh jo malini ek tarafaa blame bass Adi ko karte hain 7 saaal kay duhai deke yeh mere hisab se galad hain. cos ismein she was clear already , adi always considered her as friend not love the way she wanted on those 7 years ...

Malini only wants to see what she wants to see. Reality is not her place to be. Coddled by her parents and not having to deal with challenges and be ok with the outcome on her own she has relied on her parents to fix everything with their money, clout in society and what not. She is an only child, a pampered princess who never had to share or allow someone else to have things go in their favor where she accepts the outcome.

Out of the blue Sita Mother threw a googly at her that uprooted her wicket of life and now she’s struggling to cope because as an adult she has had no practice dealing with scenarios that didn’t go in her favor. Came her half sister into the picture already married to the man she loved for seven years and she’s struggling to accept it. Adi is the toy boy she set her sights on and got attached to and now she doesn’t know how to give him up.

Malini knew Adi did not reciprocate her love and was confused about their relationship.. So why did she marry him? Did she believe as long as she married the man she loved she can make him fall in love with her some day (7 yrs is more than a long time to wait for someone to fall and be in love with her)?

Or was she ready to live life accepting his friendship? Did she not consider the possibility that if he only saw her as his friend and confused about having a more intimate relationship that there would come a day when he met someone he fell in love with and wanted to commit to for life?

Malini has woven herself in a web of delusion and dreams and had never seen her relationship with Adi through the lens of reality. She is so terrified to face reality that she reacts in extreme ways to control the situation to go her way.

Lekin kab that? She faints, slit her wrist and melts down when truths are revealed….. Adi telling her about his marriage to Imli, AC telling her of the possibility she may have a sibling due to Dev’s PD tryst, Adi telling her he and Imli were in love with each other. Her status and her mother’s constant neecha dhikana of Adi’s family status didn’t help either. She clings to Adi like a creeper always obsessing over the lack of his phone calls. Deep down the fear he may fall in love with someone else came out before he went to PD for the first time.

What Malini needs is hours on a professional’s couch to safely learn to face the reality of her life. Not return to Ts house like an addict who can’t stay away from the source of addiction that feeds her delusions with false hopes from enablers like Aparna, Radha and AC.

She needs to move on and let Imli and Adi live their lives. If she truly loved Adi she would put his happiness before her possessive attachment where her feelings are not reciprocated.

KC is the only one who dared to call her out on her unhealthy attachment to Adi after he had told her the truth of his love for Imli and he’s who can help her out of her mental mess. But she’s obsessed with Adi that only takes her deeper down the dark hole where he mother seems to prefer keeping her.

Cs are a disturbed family, status and society dictate their every decision even if it’s not in Malini’s best interests.

i dont think she meant it that way.. what she means is now aditya thinks he was confused but she never was

but yes she definitely had some idea that what she feels for aditya.. the intensity is not reciprocated in the same manner by aditya...

aditya's flashbacks about the jealousy while in PD... her questioning him again again why didnt you call.. why no msg.. all of it was one sided...

i am also not sure about how they came to be.. it definitely was not aditya who initiated the relationship..

aditya gets the blame cos he entertained an grand idea of "Hum mun k hai aur rahenge.. if u see even after their wedding.. on bus top.. aditya says.. sab humaari shaadi ki tayyari kar rahe hai.. unke saath.. jo humse pyaar karati hai" he could have said.. jinse hum pyaar karate hai.. his wording had a very deep connection to the fact that he never loved malini it was a relationship of convenience.. for both of them..

Don't forget too, that one reason Aditya married Malini was to spite Anu, as she was constantly running him down for being a lower-class than them and not good enough to marry her precious daughter. Red rag to a bull, any male would take that as a challenge to prove the ghastly woman wrong, without thinking of the consequences.

Arrey issi tarah darrake rakha honga in those 7 years. Otherwise Adi would have ran away years ago🤣 Lol Adi falling for same choice like shoe , chai and bike ride and dislike like wetting in rain.🥱He is a very intense person

Malini will confess all her truth in front of her mother but not to T's .She told Apu that Aaditya is not in love with her anymore but to Anu it was altogether a complete different statement that Aadi was confused. .what a contradiction between two statements !! Actually she lives in fool's paradise where she will never state publically that Aadi didn't love her ever because it hurts her ego .

Malini is always ready to believe anything that suits her purpose and allows her to remain in her dream world. Being from the world she came from, which was a mashup of toxic parents who coddled her and indulged her every whim, made her extremely clingy to anything that shows some semblance to her dream life of being married to someone who is exactly like her and would never fight with her the way her parents did.

Funnily when she met Adi & liked him (I will not use love as I still do not believe she truly loves him even today), she changed herself so much to suit his habits, that she became like a mirror to his tastes and likings. Which is why they used to have the same choices for clothes and shoes - because she had trained herself to match everything of his, so that they would become that cookie cutter, Stepford type, perfect couple that looks good together, always happy and never disagrees with each other. Her obsession to not follow her parent's path made her choose someone who she could manipulate & mold to suit that picture perfect life she always imagined.

That is also a reason why Adi was able to get along with her for 7 years. She never challenged him in anyway or made him think beyond the box he had made for himself, so he never felt the need to look outside his comfort zone. She became a part of that box happily, as that allowed her to be with him and call him her boyfriend. Added benefit was him standing up to her mother which she could never do, so according to her Adi was the perfect life partner for her.

But then he realized that destiny has given him a chance to live his life with someone who can make him a better version of himself. He understood that while all this while he was admiring a fake bouquet and keeping it close, Sita Maiyya gave him an opportunity to experience the beauty of real wild flowers that can fill his life with their scent. Hence no matter what Malini said or did, Adi kept moving towards Imlie, finally realizing that he loved her.

This is what has really shaken Malini - from when she realized that he was distancing himself from her till today when she knows the whole truth. The fact that Adi left her while she still wanted him is what bothers her. The person for whom she had apparently "changed" her habits is not willing to value her "sacrifice". The person jiske saath usne itne perfect wale dream dekhe the, has always only thought of Malini as a friend. That is what is bugging her - how dare he dismiss all these "efforts" she has made to become the version of a life partner had Adi always wanted. She refuses to entertain the thought that what they shared was not love - it was just habit. They had gotten habituated with each other and had converted that into marriage. The fact that there was no love from either end is something that will take Malni a long time to concede, even if she ever does.

Malini is always ready to believe anything that suits her purpose and allows her to remain in her dream world. Being from the world she came from, which was a mashup of toxic parents who coddled her and indulged her every whim, made her extremely clingy to anything that shows some semblance to her dream life of being married to someone who is exactly like her and would never fight with her the way her parents did.

Funnily when she met Adi & liked him (I will not use love as I still do not believe she truly loves him even today), she changed herself so much to suit his habits, that she became like a mirror to his tastes and likings. Which is why they used to have the same choices for clothes and shoes - because she had trained herself to match everything of his, so that they would become that cookie cutter, Stepford type, perfect couple that looks good together, always happy and never disagrees with each other. Her obsession to not follow her parent's path made her choose someone who she could manipulate & mold to suit that picture perfect life she always imagined.

That is also a reason why Adi was able to get along with her for 7 years. She never challenged him in anyway or made him think beyond the box he had made for himself, so he never felt the need to look outside his comfort zone. She became a part of that box happily, as that allowed her to be with him and call him her boyfriend. Added benefit was him standing up to her mother which she could never do, so according to her Adi was the perfect life partner for her.

But then he realized that destiny has given him a chance to live his life with someone who can make him a better version of himself. He understood that while all this while he was admiring a fake bouquet and keeping it close, Sita Maiyya gave him an opportunity to experience the beauty of real wild flowers that can fill his life with their scent. Hence no matter what Malini said or did, Adi kept moving towards Imlie, finally realizing that he loved her.

This is what has really shaken Malini - from when she realized that he was distancing himself from her till today when she knows the whole truth. The fact that Adi left her while she still wanted him is what bothers her. The person for whom she had apparently "changed" her habits is not willing to value her "sacrifice". The person jiske saath usne itne perfect wale dream dekhe the, has always only thought of Malini as a friend. That is what is bugging her - how dare he dismiss all these "efforts" she has made to become the version of a life partner had Adi always wanted. She refuses to entertain the thought that what they shared was not love - it was just habit. They had gotten habituated with each other and had converted that into marriage. The fact that there was no love from either end is something that will take Malni a long time to concede, even if she ever does.

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Brilliantly said👏🏼. PPP is a good case study for a psychology student. She’s emotionally immature…..makes you go at her behavior. like when she got upset editorji didn’t eat her cake but enjoyed Imli’s moti roti.🙄

Live enough in her delusional world and any man will start to feel suffocated and keep his distance. No wonder he ran off to PD. Imli made him feel alive.

She is so much older than Imli (how old is she anyways, late 20s maybe even early 30s). She better stay single till she gets professional help. Imagine the terror of her becoming a mother with her mental make up.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Malini is always ready to believe anything that suits her purpose and allows her to remain in her dream world. Being from the world she came from, which was a mashup of toxic parents who coddled her and indulged her every whim, made her extremely clingy to anything that shows some semblance to her dream life of being married to someone who is exactly like her and would never fight with her the way her parents did.

Funnily when she met Adi & liked him (I will not use love as I still do not believe she truly loves him even today), she changed herself so much to suit his habits, that she became like a mirror to his tastes and likings. Which is why they used to have the same choices for clothes and shoes - because she had trained herself to match everything of his, so that they would become that cookie cutter, Stepford type, perfect couple that looks good together, always happy and never disagrees with each other. Her obsession to not follow her parent's path made her choose someone who she could manipulate & mold to suit that picture perfect life she always imagined.

That is also a reason why Adi was able to get along with her for 7 years. She never challenged him in anyway or made him think beyond the box he had made for himself, so he never felt the need to look outside his comfort zone. She became a part of that box happily, as that allowed her to be with him and call him her boyfriend. Added benefit was him standing up to her mother which she could never do, so according to her Adi was the perfect life partner for her.

But then he realized that destiny has given him a chance to live his life with someone who can make him a better version of himself. He understood that while all this while he was admiring a fake bouquet and keeping it close, Sita Maiyya gave him an opportunity to experience the beauty of real wild flowers that can fill his life with their scent. Hence no matter what Malini said or did, Adi kept moving towards Imlie, finally realizing that he loved her.

This is what has really shaken Malini - from when she realized that he was distancing himself from her till today when she knows the whole truth. The fact that Adi left her while she still wanted him is what bothers her. The person for whom she had apparently "changed" her habits is not willing to value her "sacrifice". The person jiske saath usne itne perfect wale dream dekhe the, has always only thought of Malini as a friend. That is what is bugging her - how dare he dismiss all these "efforts" she has made to become the version of a life partner had Adi always wanted. She refuses to entertain the thought that what they shared was not love - it was just habit. They had gotten habituated with each other and had converted that into marriage. The fact that there was no love from either end is something that will take Malni a long time to concede, even if she ever does.

You are absolutely spot-on with this analysis - I only hope that everyone starts to realise this very soon, including Malini herself. It is heartbreaking seeing Anu so blind to all the suffering that poor Imlie has had to endure in her 19 years of life, and is still suffering because of such biased ignorance.