Excellent decisions - Page 7

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I want Raghav to lash at Pallavi, the way she lashes out at him when he takes decisions on his own..be it him wanting her to leave for Kolhapur or taking Kirti's blame... She questioned it because her life was also getting affected..Raghav has all the rights to question her..I really want him to see way to upset with her.. This is not her own decision to make.. This is not just her life.. But Raghav is too irrational when it comes to love..Chahe Amma ho, Kirti ho ya fir Pallavi..He is too giving...

He is too giving so he gets hurt a lot too.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Exactly it wasnt her decision to make when it affects others lives too. Consult toh chodo , she didnt even inform him or Amma abt it. Bcz after all its her decision......cannot be wrong . She didnt evn bother to inform them later abt it. Ab yeh jaruri nai hai btana.

Raghav wont lash out. Even if he does.....she will again bring up his trust issues and insecurities.

Totally agree. She expects a lot from him but when it comes to the Ds the rules don't seem to apply to herself.

Raghav won't lash out because he's too afraid to upset the apple cart. He will continue to put up with all this while it eats away at his insides. There's an imbalance in the relationship as Raghav feels he stands to lose far more than she does. The day she feels insecure too, if ever, then she'll have a different attitude to this.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Can Raghav really sit back, wait and watch? if Mandar was genuine and has no bad intentions of snatching pallavi or making her his- then i can understand and agree that Raghav should show patience, trust pallavi to Make right decisions and sitout and watch..

But in this case, he knows Mandar’s intentions and he is very worried for pallavi’s safety.

What if (listing possibilities in the order of impact)

1. Mandar keeps pallavi hostage by emotionally blackmailing her

2. Mandar drugs pallavi and makes her sleep with him in his bedroom, fakes accidental intimacy and ofcourse pallavi will believe what ever comes out of Mandar’s mouth. Pallavi will believe that she slept with him and tries to divorce Raghav

3. Mandar abducts Pallavi and takes her away for ever or finds that pallavi only loves Raghav and tries to kill as he doesn’t want Raghav to get her back. We have seen phsyco tendencies

Can Raghav just stay back and watch what happens ???

Sometimes we need to set back otherwise since things went out of his hands, he should have come clean to her when he made many occasions on his side to let her know what mandar was doing with him, now he lost that chance and Mandar took that chance to change the tables against him. She comes to know through others and also defended him until he accepts the truth. She always trusted him no matter what, when every proof and world is against him. He is still thinking of her safety, that's good but their is way of handling the situation not like this. Agree Keerthi is bad but he done the same thing with her and now with his wife. They are not outside third party people. They're his family, he needs to protect them but their is way of doing it, not like this. They got patched up and still he can let her know to be careful around mandar because he is not trusting and he is concerned about her safety. Pallavi always heard him and she also asked why he didn't said before?? What is stopping him?? Did he don't trust her?? Why he feels so insecure when he itself know why she is helping mandar and she always loves him?? Then why he trusted her before when he opened everything to her. Same goes with pallavi, she is feeling uncomfortable with mandar touches why to ignore her instincts?? She don't want mandar to come home or talked to her unnecessarily so why to hold it, let him know and make it clear she loves her husband, moved on and she is helping him as humanity??? She said it but it's need to come hard. Both say trust each other but that's needs to show on actions.

She will know this through hard way and that's bound to happen when we cross certain lines. Both makes mistakes but both will fix it.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I would have agreed with you if his insecurities were only about losing his wife. More than losing a wife he is afraid of losing one person whose presence reminds him that he is also a good human being.

He has been misunderstood so often that he had somewhere started to believe other people's version of him being a Rakshas. Pallavi accepting him has restored his faith in himself.

When a 17 year old boy's mother abandons him and calls him murderer every other day , wishes she had killed him in womb , curses him every day for 10 long years how do you expect him to be all sorted out ?

We all want RR to behave rationally but it isn't easy for him. He is losing one person who accepted him, forgave him and even loved him.

This is it...the underlying factor driving him right now.

Very well written Jia. ❤️

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

did anyone notice new bgm … the lyrics are very angsty…they may use it properly in future MU when both of them are pissed with one another…

btw us episode ka mtlb hi kya hua … jisme raghav ne point out kia ta k mje lgta h tumari achai ka fayda utha kr tumko wapas bula lenge… Raghav being very understanding and lovesick but can’t he bring this up… I mean 1 “I told you so” to bnta h…

If Raghav even speaks up he'll be labeled as being inconsiderate. Uski qismat mein sirf sehna likha hai, thanks to role reversal.

But I agree, he should get a chance to say I told you so to everyone.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

I want him to have his 'I told you so' moment when she messes up more and comes to him to tell about it and seek help

This sounds like a dream.

They will probably show him ecstatic at her return and diving in to help her, while at the end she will get all the credit for cracking the case. 😆

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Raghav has two options only, to step back or step up. No in between. If he steps back, and let things unfold without his intervention, even then, Pallavi will still be his wife, come what may because she is not on auction for someone to come and place a bid and take her away.

If he steps up and gets a grip on himself by not allowing Mandar to affect him this much, then he will slowly get over his insecurities and will be at peace and Mandar will be at a loss of what to do next because a secure man cannot be shaken that easily. Even in this option, she will still be his wife.

Mandar, who?.

A hurt and broken Raghav is such a treat to watch, albeit heartbreaking. Sai's emotional scenes are always heart wrenching 💔

As much as we want Pallavi to grow through this track, it will be about Raghav and his pain to a large extent. It's a treat to watch because of how Sai performs but becomes repetitive after a while if all tracks end up with him crying rivers and feeling like his heart is being ripped out.

Originally posted by: inlieu

As much as we want Pallavi to grow through this track, it will be about Raghav and his pain to a large extent. It's a treat to watch because of how Sai performs but becomes repetitive after a while if all tracks end up with him crying rivers and feeling like his heart is being ripped out.

Trust has many maturity levels.

Raghav’s trust is at budding level

1. He trusts that Pallavi will not voluntarily go back to Mandar

2. He trusts that she loves him when Mandar was not in the picture. He trusts that she believes Mandar was a good man and cared deeply for her and she had many dreams to have a happy married life with him

3. Now coming to Mandar’s disappearance - he built a great fake backstory that he left that night to get pallavi the bangles he wanted to gift on their first night. Pallavi saw Raghav in discomfort and did nothing to alleviate his insecurities other than making pallavis awesome nimbu paani. She did not remove the bangles even next day that would remind Herself and raghav of the missed firstnight of mandar-pallavi. At this point even i started believing that if she was not married to Raghav and just loved him - she would have gone back to live with Mandar and give their marriage a shot. She is being very insensitive towards Raghavs insecurities- he told her he doesnt feel comfortable or thinks something is not right about Mandar. She knows that mandar wants her back and Raghav is aware too. Raghav finally even told her about the challenge, aayi and milind aske sher to not take an oath but she ignore everyone and everything and went ahead and promised that she will not leave until Mandar gets all fine and dandy… now she is a lost cause for me and cant wait see her suffering if any..

Raghav doesnt trust that pallavi will not leave him and go back. He strongly believes that she will give into their emotional blackmail and go back to DH leaving him.. he expressed his same concern and she promised that she wont even let air between them… 😂

Now she did exactly what he feared.. so where is the trusg? Should he really trust her?

Yes he trusts her not to cheat on him or do any twotiming with him and mandar—- thats where the trust ends

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Trust has many maturity levels.

Raghav’s trust is at budding level

1. He trusts that Pallavi will not voluntarily go back to Mandar

2. He trusts that she loves him when Mandar was not in the picture. He trusts that she believes Mandar was a good man and cared deeply for her and she had many dreams to have a happy married life with him

3. Now coming to Mandar’s disappearance - he built a great fake backstory that he left that night to get pallavi the bangles he wanted to gift on their first night. Pallavi saw Raghav in discomfort and did nothing to alleviate his insecurities other than making pallavis awesome nimbu paani. She did not remove the bangles even next day that would remind Herself and raghav of the missed firstnight of mandar-pallavi. At this point even i started believing that if she was not married to Raghav and just loved him - she would have gone back to live with Mandar and give their marriage a shot. She is being very insensitive towards Raghavs insecurities- he told her he doesnt feel comfortable or thinks something is not right about Mandar. She knows that mandar wants her back and Raghav is aware too. Raghav finally even told her about the challenge, aayi and milind aske sher to not take an oath but she ignore everyone and everything and went ahead and promised that she will not leave until Mandar gets all fine and dandy… now she is a lost cause for me and cant wait see her suffering if any..

Raghav doesnt trust that pallavi will not leave him and go back. He strongly believes that she will give into their emotional blackmail and go back to DH leaving him.. he expressed his same concern and she promised that she wont even let air between them… 😂

Now she did exactly what he feared.. so where is the trusg? Should he really trust her?

Yes he trusts her not to cheat on him or do any twotiming with him and mandar—- thats where the trust ends

Pallavi is vocal about each and everything but Raghav holds everything on his head. He shared his discomfort but still allowed her to go to d family and Mandar. He have every rights to share with pallavi what he feels and she will hear him , she done that before also. It's about how much he is ready to open and share his insecurities. Pallavi don't feel any insecurity because she is very clear about her love for raghav and humanity help for mandar. She also voiced out many times. Yes she don't need to wear that bangles but for her that bangle doesn't matter to her. It don't hold any value. Pallavi don't know mandar intentions, what others speaking on her back and depth of raghav insecurities.

When she Cross certain line, their will be consequences and she needs to face it, their is no choice. She will face it and learn it hard way. She will always have raghav back no matter what and she will come out by herself out of this mess. She is very smart and strong woman, she knows to handle herself when any situation arise. Raghav needs to control his anger and impulsive instead calm and composed, believe in his love and trust Pallavi. If raghav trust his wife he don't need to feel insecure neither needs to fall for some words. Both are wrong and right at their own place.