Of chaos, trust and jeepers creepers - Page 3

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

🤣🤣Toh agar real mein chance mile toh you’ll take it na? Yeh screen stimulation is not as great as real life.

Try karne me kya harz hai 😉

Amazing post Kiara 🤗

you have given such a sorted out version for all of us to see. ❤️

Twitter is always so toxic. I don't even go there.....as for targeting Pallavi, I think people overlook the fact that if it wasn't for her greatness (mahaanta) then Raghav would never have had her in his life because if we want to see from a real life perspective, as do the people who bash her character, then a woman cannot fall in love with a man who just insinuated her to be a call girl. In real life, it doesn't happen, no matter how sorry he feels later. It's because of her nature that she gave Raghav a second chance to redeem himself. So when she forgave Raghav, no one was calling out at her greatness. I feel that we need to just see her as a character who is forgiving and also has this need to be mahaan ( I don't like this quality, but it is how it is).

As for RR, people just want the old RR. I don't understand that if we keep seeing the old RR then where is the character development? RR is a person of multiple shades and from the beginning he has been portrayed as emotional, maybe more than Pallavi. A man in love is vulnerable and the swag and attitude that fans are looking for will not be in a man who is head over heels for a woman.

We see things from different lenses, I hope there's a balance in all this.

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

you have said everything what was in my heart. I don't even need to add a single word to this. Reading this gave me a sense of comfort

Whenever I visit twitter I always found this negativity that they don't understand the actual character mindsets. Always busy in targeting pallavi character They only want the brash raghav rao we have seen in pre marriage episodes.Not understanding that his character emotions and conflict too has to be shown not only his attitude and swag.

Fair enough, we are all frustrated with Raghav, he is behaving like a teenager who stalks his girlfriend. And angry at Pallavi for being who is is - blind and a pushover. Pallavi has always been blind until she takes the hit and learns from her mistakes. That is why from these two, one must act sensibly, and this time it will not be Pallavi, so naturally, Raghav has to be the one.

Mandar should not even be in the picture, they both give him undue importance. Pallavi is already doing it, now Raghav is also doing that, by adding fuel to the fire.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

I think he already tried doing that by saying that he is afraid if D fam will take her away from him but she said that no one can come in between.. i am trying to imply the scene where she didn't check her phone switched off to real life. My fam will be running whole world if my phone is switched off and they know that the person with me is not trustable. A simple glass of lemon water doesn't replace that fear. I am just wondering how she cannot reason the fears that Raghav has regarding the D fam.. may be i am trying to imply real life logic and searching that in ITV logic which never happens... She is smart enough to have grasped Sunny behaviour where he wasn't even showing any creepiness where as Mandar time and again shows his creepiness.. if she is doing this for aai forget about baba now, she herself told not to do this by straining the relation ship with Raghav. I agree that Raghav by putting the tracker is invading Pallavi's privacy which I never agree but she could have asked of his reason to do so calmly but not in front of Mandar when she knows every one is against of their happy little world. Raghav is at fault too of not telling about the challenge but I guess he never in the first place has accepted the challenge seriously but when he saw the bangles on her hand by Mandar that's when he took it seriously...

I am angry with Raghav also as how he behaves calculatively only to ruin Pallavi but not for Mandaar.. hope he ups his game atleast after Mandar wins the challenge

I wonder how Pallavi would behave or react if she was in Raghav place? Imagine Raghav ex wife comes, claims has lost her memory, and start spending time with Raghav, putting on his favorite saree etc? Do anyone think Pallavi would happily allow her husband ex-wife to wear her Vat savitri saree, the saree Raghav selected himself and gifted Pallavi? It's the same for Raghav, for Pallavi,those bangles were meaningless, but for Raghav, it's his right.

I think here Pallavi is being totally ignorant towards Raghav's feeling.They have love and trust in their relationship, but that doesn't mean she takes his feelings for granted, regardless her intentions ard pure.

Thank you!!

You know I truly think that they are still so inexperienced and in the very beginning of their marriage, they have come across a humongous problem. They're both faltering but Raghav has a certain leverage because he knows Mandar is evil. Pallavi doesn't. Why can't he be her eyes if she's failing to see this? And this is definitely not by putting trackers. Gosh, who does this. If my husband put a tracker in my purse without my information, even if it was not for me but for whatever reason, I'd give him a good hearing. Raghav, my boy, you need to up your game!

I just think that in marriage, when one partner falls, the other one has your back. If Pallavi can't see the truth, RR should be her eyes. In a mature way. Raghav spoke of his fears only once, but he did not elaborate. He needs to speak the truth, as it. Pallavi will believe him. He thinks she won't but give it a shot. Pallavi loves Raghav and not Mandar. She trusts Raghav more. So why is holding back?

Then, challenging Mandar - Really? This is your wife and not a competition for winning. When he gave her the ring and they shared a precious moment, was it all planned to get back at Mandar? When he organized the photoshoot and got her the bangles, was it only so that he can remove the ones Mandar gave? See Raghav is bringing Mandar into their moments and he needs to stop otherwise even the genuine moments will seem like a plan to get back at Mandar. As a woman, if you find out that your hubby is romancing you so that he can show another man that you two are close, it hurts, feels like being cheated. While I say that they're both at fault, one needs to hold the reins and it must be Raghav.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Amazing post Kiara 🤗

you have given such a sorted out version for all of us to see. ❤️

Maybe she would react differently, considering that she is quite the sacrificing type 😆

No but on a serious note, yes Raghav is feeling insecure and jealous and it is his right. But reacting like this is only straining things. He has the right to feel this way, but he must take control of things in a mature way. Not by challenging Mandar.

And then, if your spouses ex returns, trying to create a storm, its natural to feel angry, insecure and jealous but you don't add fuel to the fire by throwing challenges at that ex. If your love is strong enough, this ex will not be able to do anything. In this example, she can wear his favorite saree and hover around him but it's your reaction that matters the most. Most of the ex's are trying to irk the present spouse of the person they loved. Don't give them this power over yourself and your partner.

Originally posted by: partner

I wonder how Pallavi would behave or react if she was in Raghav place? Imagine Raghav ex wife comes, claims has lost her memory, and start spending time with Raghav, putting on his favorite saree etc? Do anyone think Pallavi would happily allow her husband ex-wife to wear her Vat savitri saree, the saree Raghav selected himself and gifted Pallavi? It's the same for Raghav, for Pallavi,those bangles were meaningless, but for Raghav, it's his right.

I think here Pallavi is being totally ignorant towards Raghav's feeling.They have love and trust in their relationship, but that doesn't mean she takes his feelings for granted, regardless her intentions ard pure.

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Fair enough, we are all frustrated with Raghav, he is behaving like a teenager who stalks his girlfriend. And angry at Pallavi for being who is is - blind and a pushover. Pallavi has always been blind until she takes the hit and learns from her mistakes. That is why from these two, one must act sensibly, and this time it will not be Pallavi, so naturally, Raghav has to be the one.

Mandar should not even be in the picture, they both give him undue importance. Pallavi is already doing it, now Raghav is also doing that, by adding fuel to the fire.

Right.. both need to learn... Raghav to level up and play mind games with Mandar as he did with Pallavi tricking her sign the documents and Pallavi to see through the reality.. but still I am not convinced with him being called stalker.. i am pissed at him for not telling about Mandar's 7 day challenge only.. as I already told in my first reply that he is actually not trusting Mandar the main reason for putting the tracker. I am strictly no to invade someone's privacy but this is not the case of privacy and there is nothing related to trust here.. it's just he wants to know her where abouts as madam's phone get switched off and she is not even aware of it the whole damn day...What if Mandar switches off the mobile again ??? As said, i am trying to imply real life logics and my personal opinion.. so we can agree to disagree🤗

I get what you're saying from a real life perspective. Just can't place it in this Mandar situation. Lets agree to disagree 😆🤗

I'm loving the debates here.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Right.. both need to learn... Raghav to level up and play mind games with Mandar as he did with Pallavi tricking her sign the documents and Pallavi to see through the reality.. but still I am not convinced with him being called stalker.. i am pissed at him for not telling about Mandar's 7 day challenge only.. as I already told in my first reply that he is actually not trusting Mandar the main reason for putting the tracker. I am strictly no to invade someone's privacy but this is not the case of privacy and there is nothing related to trust here.. it's just he wants to know her where abouts as madam's phone get switched off and she is not even aware of it the whole damn day...What if Mandar switches off the mobile again ??? As said, i am trying to imply real life logics and my personal opinion.. so we can agree to disagree🤗

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Hello forum wasis!

How have you been? I've been away for a few days, and finally watched the epis of 3 days. What I takeaway from the current track from the characters is as follows:-

1. Raghav - My dearest character ❤️ - This is a man who is smart beyond his age, but only when it comes to his business. When it comes to love and affection, he falters big time. Thinking of why he behaves the way he does i.e. insecure and a non trusting husband, though his words beg to differ, I have concluded that Raghav has some serious self worth issues. He may say he is Raghav Rao, he loves himself etc but this man has lived a lonely life where he probably made peace with the fact that is he indeed unlovable. He weaved his arrogance and bad ass image as a coping mechanism. Then comes Pallavi, who claims to love him, and she does. But does he feel worthy of her love? Not yet. Insecurities often creep into a relationship when there is a general lack of trust, not in your partner, but in yourself. Raghav doesn't believe himself to be someone who can be loved and this is where things get complicated because he still thinks that Pallavi may leave him for a better man and he is aware that Pallavi respected Mandar. He trusts Mandar's words more than Pallavi's love. He has a long long long way to go. His words have finally come to bite his ass from the day he stopped her from leaving to Kolhapur. He asked her if she will also deny her ex husband a second chance.

They've both confessed of their undying love, but they have to prove it. Raghav claims to trust her, he has to prove it and this is definitely not by keeping a tracking device in her bag. Raghav, dude, really?

2. Pallavi - A young woman who believes in the goodness of everyone has found herself sandwiched between her love and her sense of justice and responsibility. While I believe that she has NO responsibility whatsoever to Mandar and his family, this young woman has taken it upon herself to make sure he gets better? Why? Is it due to her past relationship with Mandar or is it that she still has some feelings of respect for him? I think none of this. It's because she inherently has this streak of being a sacrificial goat by portraying her greatness. I've said it before and I say it again, Pallavi is too good for this world, too naive for a cruel society and too upright to see that she's becoming a pushover. I feel sorry for her because she's so genuine, that the people around her don't really deserve her. Including Raghav sometimes. She finds Mandar to be creepy too, I don't know why she cant act on her instincts as she did with other people, is she waiting for something extreme to happen before the lioness in her explodes? Pallavi is known to explode when something drastic happens, so I still have hopes that she will set Mandar in his place as she did Raghav.

3. Mandar - He is an imposter. He is creepy and he is here with a mission - To destroy Raghav. Does he truly feel for Pallavi the way he claims to? I doubt it.

Concluding this, Raghav is more at fault here than Pallavi because he does not have faith in his own love, and he has no faith in Pallavi's love. What Pallavi is doing is out of her sense of responsibility, She has no doubts about her love for Raghav, it's rock solid. Raghav's insecurity is making the situation worse for both of them. If he could be a bit more mature by supporting her stance, albeit a skewed one, then things would look so much different for both of them. If he could show more faith in their love than in Mandar's words, then there would be no fear. If Mandar says that in 7 days, Pallavi will be with him, what makes him believe this to be written on stone? Is it Mandar's love? Hell no. Is it Pallavi's loyalty? No. Is it his insecurity stemming from his lack of self worth? Yes. In the end, no one can take anyone away from you if they truly belong to you. This is a test for lovers all over the world. Instead of acting up, it's better to let trust and love take it's course. If right now Raghav just sits back and relaxes, it will be better than him going around sending photos of him and Pallavi to Mandar, or tracking Pallavi and Mandar etc. Pallavi is not a doll for someone to make her his wife in 7 days.

I'm loving this track. I'm loving the insecurities because it would have been really hard for me to believe that in a few months, they've come to trust each other as they claim to. The real journey of trust always starts in dire circumstances and Raghav is already failing, as expected 😆

I'm also loving all the scenes between Raghav and Pallavi and my fav one is the one where he decks her up. I was dying to see him do this ever since the reception day because then he did it out of hate and I wanted to see a scene where he does it out of love. And he did. Such a beautiful scene, with beautiful heartfelt shots. The end one being my fav after both of them get overwhelmed and just have a meaningful head touch. It's so much like how a lion and lioness often show affection, by brushing their heads together.

About the hate and negativity for Pallavi.........so misplaced.

About the hate for Mandar - Okay, we all hate him.

About the frustration for Raghav - Yep, he's failing to be her support system, unlike Pallavi who stood by him in his terrible days. He needs to step up and be her support system otherwise things are going to slip out of his hands.

About the hate for the track......I don't know, its a personal choice. I'm loving it because this is the test of time for this young couple. Without this track, what would they have shown?

Parting words

"Real trust is between people who don't seek any validation of the truth and it is not for feeble minds for it's sheer strength lies in your personal capacity of restraint, endurance and your love, up and above anyone else's words and actions.

I agree with most of the stuff you said. Specially your views about Raghav are impeccable. Except somewhere I feel keeping the tracker in her bag was a protective measure than doubting her. I think he believes she might be in danger related to Mandaar. In his vicinity. So maybe thats why there was a tracker. I don't think it has anything to do with trust.

But that we'll come to know in the next day's episode right? Idk... was it said somewhere that he didn't trust her or did we all just assume it. I would be highly insulted if my husband keeps a tracker in my purse when I go for a party with my office colleagues but idt i'll mind it if I am going somewhere alone with a certified creep.

And Pallavi not being able to see Mandar is a creep is just BS. Its typical avala naari behaviour, too righteous too good for the world type which Star Plus loves to cook its FL's into. She can't exist in real life. Na ah! Too diabetic!