Of chaos, trust and jeepers creepers - Page 4

He trusts her, but he should have found a better way. This way he looks like the culprit. What did he think he'd tell her when she finds out? Did he think at all? He can't even tell her about the 7 day challenge coz he thinks that she wont believe. It's sad to see Raghav speechless and misunderstood but he's creating this for himself.

As for mahanta, yup, SP things

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

I agree with most of the stuff you said. Specially your views about Raghav are impeccable. Except somewhere I feel keeping the tracker in her bag was a protective measure than doubting her. I think he believes she might be in danger related to Mandaar. In his vicinity. So maybe thats why there was a tracker. I don't think it has anything to do with trust.

But that we'll come to know in the next day's episode right? Idk... was it said somewhere that he didn't trust her or did we all just assume it. I would be highly insulted if my husband keeps a tracker in my purse when I go for a party with my office colleagues but idt i'll mind it if I am going somewhere alone with a certified creep.

And Pallavi not being able to see Mandar is a creep is just BS. Its typical avala naari behaviour, too righteous too good for the world type which Star Plus loves to cook its FL's into. She can't exist in real life. Na ah! Too diabetic!

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Thank you!!

You know I truly think that they are still so inexperienced and in the very beginning of their marriage, they have come across a humongous problem. They're both faltering but Raghav has a certain leverage because he knows Mandar is evil. Pallavi doesn't. Why can't he be her eyes if she's failing to see this? And this is definitely not by putting trackers. Gosh, who does this. If my husband put a tracker in my purse without my information, even if it was not for me but for whatever reason, I'd give him a good hearing. Raghav, my boy, you need to up your game!

I just think that in marriage, when one partner falls, the other one has your back. If Pallavi can't see the truth, RR should be her eyes. In a mature way. Raghav spoke of his fears only once, but he did not elaborate. He needs to speak the truth, as it. Pallavi will believe him. He thinks she won't but give it a shot. Pallavi loves Raghav and not Mandar. She trusts Raghav more. So why is holding back?

Then, challenging Mandar - Really? This is your wife and not a competition for winning. When he gave her the ring and they shared a precious moment, was it all planned to get back at Mandar? When he organized the photoshoot and got her the bangles, was it only so that he can remove the ones Mandar gave? See Raghav is bringing Mandar into their moments and he needs to stop otherwise even the genuine moments will seem like a plan to get back at Mandar. As a woman, if you find out that your hubby is romancing you so that he can show another man that you two are close, it hurts, feels like being cheated. While I say that they're both at fault, one needs to hold the reins and it must be Raghav.

I agree with you totally here. Since day 1 of this track, I have been saying that Raghav will have to step up this time. Pallavi’s judgement is clouded because she feels obliged to the Deshmukh family. She’s uncomfortable and yet hesitant to voice it out. Here Raghav needs to step up, for them, to safeguard their marriage. And that safeguarding only needs him telling pallavi what all is going on. Ideally, he needs to show Pallavi the right way to deal with this twisted situation. I have yet no reasons to say that Pallavi won’t believe him if he lets her know. She believed him over himself when he asserted that he left a man to die on the road. And the said man being mandaar only. Even there she didn’t let the said emotions for Deshmukhs to take over her trust in him!

Again, absolutely agree on the tracker thing. Raghav putting it in her bag without her knowledge would only make her feel like he doesn’t trust her enough. That he’s doubting her of cheating? on him with Mandaar. It gives exactly that impression and that’s so hurtful, especially after all the faith Pallavi has put in their relationship time and again.

About Raghav and Mandaar not giving enough importance to her individuality - again 💯. No expectations from M because he’s a creep. But Raghav should realise that she’s not an object to accept a challenge on. She’s a real person. Also she deserves to know the whole truth about it from Raghav, because this is about her! And I guess with Raghav not letting her know his discomfort and rather being all smiles when she asks him if she can visit Mandaar- it only and only makes Pallavi less hesitant to visit him, because her husband is on the same page with her, what harm it can cause? So a much much better way is Raghav telling her straight forwardly that he doesn’t like it , rather than pretending to be absolutely fine with it to her and stalking her behind her back!

Why Raghav is failing to do the right thing? - you have rightly pointed out about him not feeling worthy enough. He’s not afraid of what Mandaar can do, he’s rather insecure what if he turns out to be the better person in Pallavi’s eyes. This we saw in their conversation they had in the kitchen, Raghav bounced back as Pallavi told her that she would still love him only.

Which makes me say- I don’t think Raghav doesn’t have faith in Pallavi’s love. Raghav has valued pallavi’s choice so much all this while, if even for a fraction of second Raghav doubted that she didn’t love him - we would see an already defeated and broken Raghav who would just let her go. He wouldn’t force her to love him back. He’s only fighting Mandaar because he knows Pallavi loves him as well. The way I see it is he is right now afraid to admit it to Pallavi that he’s insecure. That makes him feel vulnerable and he can’t come to agree to this. Because, like you said, he has had this facade of ‘I am RR’ up for too long that it has become a habit but there is self doubt hidden underneath. Which he can’t come to admit abhi. Maybe he thinks that he will beat Mandaar in his own game and will show him that he did not need to complain to Pallavi for this. Maybe, idk, just trying to make sense of his actions myself.
Also his habit to fight alone, because he’s been that for too long and he doesn’t know that he can tell her and they can be a team!

Pallavi has always been like this, she doesn’t speak up till the last moment. Then one day she would just burst out. She’s clouded by so many things in her mind right now. Maybe by the end of this track she will be able to arrange her thoughts and see Mandaar for what he really is. The thing which makes Pallavi less at fault is the fact that she’s being very honest to Raghav about everything, so we know her heart is at the right place.

Having said all this, a part of me is hugely convinced that Mandaar is playing them both pretty well. He’s using their domaint personality trait against both of them. Raghav’s impulsivity and Pallavi’s kindness. He’s making Pallavi believe that he doesn’t mean to cause trouble in her married life and at the same time letting Raghav know that he very much does. Poking his insecurities, at every step!

They both are getting manipulated and none of them are to be really blamed here. The blame goes only and only on Mandaar.

True ❤️

Major complain of people that she doesn’t deserve Raghav , and she needs redemption track blah blah .. comes from fact that Raghav is hurting . But who’s at fault ?

Pallavi , no, she is sure about her choice and doesn’t shy away from accepting that Raghav is her husband. She has time and again proved with words and actions that Raghav is her husband. But Raghav is himself dwelling on his insecurities and not voicing them out properly to her. How is she supposed to solve it for him ? As character she doesn’t know what all happened behind her back between Mandaar and Raghav.

Pallavi is selfless to point that sometimes it becomes annoying for viewers but she is like that. Otherwise which women forgives man who character assassinated her infront of everyone ? And then forced her to become his trophy wife to please his mother 🤓.

If Raghav tells her about his insecurities and Mandaar’s intentions, she’ll obviously take them into consideration and act accordingly.

She trusts Raghav and thinks he is also fine with Mandaar ki memories wapas lao mission as she clearly informed him about her intentions, why didn’t he voice it out then ? Show her the text ! Tell her about Challenge but nope , he wants to do everything alone though at night of Marathi dinner they agreed to punch problem together , khud hi bhool gaya 😆 . Pallavi did say insecurities will come but he assured her they will talk things out, again didn’t work on it much .

Raghav is lacking in communication and that gave Mandaar advantage, Mandaar is exploiting Pallavi’s goodness as well as Raghav’s insecurities and impulsive nature .

Now that he has broken her trust by tracker , she will be hurt and that will cloud her judgement for sure .

Even in precap she didn’t think it could be Raghav who placed that tracker until Kirti intervened.

Very nice analysis of all the characters.

Though I agree about safety reason for keeping the tracker I feel Raghav has severe trust issues. He should be telling Pallavi about the challenge (which is wrong in itself as the men are treating her like an object to be won) & also his distrust of mandar. Why is he not protesting when she keeps going when mandar calls.

Pallavi is a frustrating character. Too good to be true. She needs to draw a line where mandar is concerned. Also most women have a sixth sense which she has shown with sunny. We can see her being uncomfortable but she’s refusing to act on it. Her aai is uncomfortable then why does she continue with this?

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Exactly what I’m saying that Pallavi is a pushover and I hate that quality of her. She has no responsibility towards the D’s and she still does it which is something Pallavi has always been doing. I recall how we always said that she’s too mahaan. In real life no one does this. But coz she is like this, Raghav needs to be the stronger one here. He has to have her back because she’s weak right now and can’t see all the red signs. Why is he trusting Mandar more than their love, or his love? Who can take away someone from you as if that person is not a living being but a property? In fact, both men here are very inconsiderate about Pallavis individuality. But the way things are shaping up, she may actually go and live with the Ds but she won’t ditch Raghav. I hope so 😆

I agree that she needs to give him that assurance which she’s failing at right now. She says all the right words but her actions differ and more a reason for Raghav to be the more sensible and stronger one here if he has to win this one. Challenging Mandar is so juvenile on his part 😭

No issues I’m sure we can always debate. No need to always agree with everything ❤️

Okay got it ! Sorry if I misunderstood your post.

Completely agree with you here 👍🏼

Yes both the men are lost in their own world and thinking of her as a prise to win in the challenge. In fact Raghav should have slapped Mandy right there and then when he suggested a 7 day challenge. Such a thing should not even be dignified by his silence as shown in the scene.

That's so sweet. Some ppl just start bashing if you disagree with them hence the disclaimer 😆