Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #20| Fragile Like A Bomb - Page 19

Ab kya ho gaya? Why u guys mad? Pallavi getting bashed again..?? Beta abhi to shuruat hai. Today's episode is gonna give them more arsenal. I saw a BTS in which a person was lying on the bed in RR bedroom and another guy had a mangalsutra in his hand.. if that's a Mandhar Pallavi scene, tab to ho gya.

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

I really want to. I mean i have alot to say specially after today's episode and the assumptions on the precap but i think it will only create unnecessary drama and divide the fandom more which we clearly cannot afford right now.

Pls make one to just explain how its unfair to judge her reactions.

Mandy and Pallavi was in good terms before his death right? They didn't break up so its not fair to judge her by her reactions to Raghav v/s Mandy.

Not to forget Mandy didn't cross a line yet with Pallavi

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Mostly people compare Pallavi's reaction to Raghav v/s D fam and now Mandy

But they fails to remember that D's are her family and Raghav was an outsider. 😆

Do we treat family and strangers same way?

No right so how was Pallavi supposed to react to Raghav's bullying in intial episodes??

Not to forget Raghav and Pallavi's first meeting He burned her raw material so you think she will make a good opinion about him.

You guys write so well. Can you please please make a post about it in MF?

There's quite a lot to discuss in the main forum. If the negativity needs to cease, we need to give a dose of Pallavi positivity everyday.

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

https://www.instagram.com/p/CR4KLeWCpZr/?utm_medium=copy_link

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Originally posted by: Inese_20

Guys check out the post Abi has made(jisne bhi nhi dekha abhi tk) on Pallu and show some love.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/mehndi-hai-rachne-wali/5240337/once-a-queen-always-a-queen

Abi, you have made me post my biggest post 😃

And also:

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Har kissi ka content consumption ka style alag-alag hai. I get super invested in characters- Pallavi, specifically, I find very compelling, so I can dig deep into her. Most of us here have such a style of watching- it makes it more fun for us to watch. But not everyone enjoys digging so deep, and I guess a lot of people do enjoy watching oopar oopar se. Which is fine, it's entertainment, we should all watch in the way that gives us most joy. And har kissi ko apna opinion hold karne aur express karne ka right hai. I do wish some of these opinions were less hateful though, that's what's been bothering me this week. Jee bhar ke criticise kar lo, but the stuff this week has been far beyond that.

Agree - if something is not going correct criticise it by all means but don't bash characters based on your assumptions. Pallavi has always been shown as a very compassionate person from the beginning - she gets the garbage collector boy in one of the very first episodes and does first aid to him. She gave blood to Jaya without even disclosing her identity. Raghav ka toh puchho mat - she helped him during the Lion track even when she was in police custody in the morning of that day. And here Mandar is her Aayi's long lost son. How come she will not be compassionate to him?

Jab Raghav ki baat thi then everyone wanted Pallavi to nurse him, make him feel better what not. Ab Mandar Hain toh they want her to be distant. That is hypocrisy.

I don't have problem with Pallu being considerate - I have problem with Mandar's creepiness which has zero regard for Pallavi's Marzi and consent.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

Pls make one to just explain how its unfair to judge her reactions.

Mandy and Pallavi was in good terms before his death right? They didn't break up so its not fair to judge her by her reactions to Raghav v/s Mandy.

Not to forget Mandy didn't cross a line yet with Pallavi

If this still gets to greater heights then I'll surely post something on it tomorrow. I am just waiting for the bangles scene to go out so that they know that they were wrong and shouldn't have trusted Mandaar's words.

Trying to keep my calm because i might get a bit bitchy 😂😂

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Har kissi ka content consumption ka style alag-alag hai. I get super invested in characters- Pallavi, specifically, I find very compelling, so I can dig deep into her. Most of us here have such a style of watching- it makes it more fun for us to watch. But not everyone enjoys digging so deep, and I guess a lot of people do enjoy watching oopar oopar se. Which is fine, it's entertainment, we should all watch in the way that gives us most joy. And har kissi ko apna opinion hold karne aur express karne ka right hai. I do wish some of these opinions were less hateful though, that's what's been bothering me this week. Jee bhar ke criticise kar lo, but the stuff this week has been far beyond that.

That's exactly my point.

They have a surface knowledge and when they argue with that, hatred sparks up.

We cannot argue with them, but we can bring our perspectives in the discussion. There are many people who are feeling new to this point of view. We need to keep some Pallavi discussion on MF to help people think.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Har kissi ka content consumption ka style alag-alag hai. I get super invested in characters- Pallavi, specifically, I find very compelling, so I can dig deep into her. Most of us here have such a style of watching- it makes it more fun for us to watch. But not everyone enjoys digging so deep, and I guess a lot of people do enjoy watching oopar oopar se. Which is fine, it's entertainment, we should all watch in the way that gives us most joy. And har kissi ko apna opinion hold karne aur express karne ka right hai. I do wish some of these opinions were less hateful though, that's what's been bothering me this week. Jee bhar ke criticise kar lo, but the stuff this week has been far beyond that.

this is why i say you are one of the sweetest person i have come across.. You don't indulge in mud slinging because you believe in their right to hold an opinion, i don't indulge in one because i cannot fathom their opinion and also because i am lazy, i will give up mid post! 🤣

Originally posted by: PSharada

Agree - if something is not going correct criticise it by all means but don't bash characters based on your assumptions. Pallavi has always been shown as a very compassionate person from the beginning - she gets the garbage collector boy in one of the very first episodes and does first aid to him. She gave blood to Jaya without even disclosing her identity. Raghav ka toh puchho mat - she helped him during the Lion track even when she was in police custody in the morning of that day. And here Mandar is her Aayi's long lost son. How come she will not be compassionate to him?

Jab Raghav ki baat thi then everyone wanted Pallavi to nurse him, make him feel better what not. Ab Mandar Hain toh they want her to be distant. That is hypocrisy.

I don't have problem with Pallu being considerate - I have problem with Mandar's creepiness which has zero regard for Pallavi's Marzi and consent.

👏👏Exactly this Sharda❤️

She is compassionate to everyone from day one. Helping people in need comes naturally to her.

She helped that little boy on street, donating blood to amma, helping beggars and old age home people.

When Raghav was injured in lion track she helped him. Before unbuttoning his shirt she said " focus Pallavi " why because her mind was telling her its wrong but her heart was saying its right thing to do ❤️

Same way before feeding Mandy Doctor's words echoed in her mind. They didn't know what happened to Mandy in last 2 years but that Doctor did. So she agreed to it. Even though she was uncomfortable doing it