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Posted: 4 years ago
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AFAIK from KD, it is his momentary flare up seeing them together in his bedroom. If you look at aftermath, he didn’t take it as cheating because he knows she can’t lie or cheat. He wants her to stop seeing her friends. So based on the aftermath response, I think he doesn’t mean what he meant about characterless word. But he did talk too much rubbish to hurt her. 😔


Let’s wait for the dialogues here. It is all his jealousy and fears. Nothing against sai anywhere but the words are terribly wrong when he blasted out.

Sai also says it would have been ok if they are alone. they would have fight it out. But the presence of pakhi ant AJ made it worse for her! 😢

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

AFAIK from KD, it is his momentary flare up seeing them together in his bedroom. If you look at aftermath, he didn’t take it as cheating because he knows she can’t lie or cheat. He wants her to stop seeing her friends. So based on the aftermath response, I think he doesn’t mean what he meant about characterless word. But he did talk too much rubbish to hurt her. 😔


Let’s wait for the dialogues here. It is all his jealousy and fears. Nothing against sai anywhere but the words are terribly wrong when he blasted out.

Sai also says it would have been ok if they are alone. they would have fight it out. But the presence of pakhi ant AJ made it worse for her! 😢

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

AFAIK from KD, it is his momentary flare up seeing them together in his bedroom. If you look at aftermath, he didn’t take it as cheating because he knows she can’t lie or cheat. He wants her to stop seeing her friends. So based on the aftermath response, I think he doesn’t mean what he meant about characterless word. But he did talk too much rubbish to hurt her. 😔


Let’s wait for the dialogues here. It is all his jealousy and fears. Nothing against sai anywhere but the words are terribly wrong when he blasted out.

Sai also says it would have been ok if they are alone. they would have fight it out. But the presence of pakhi ant AJ made it worse for her! 😢

Yes, we should just wait and then discuss 🤣

I myself keep saying that but then I can't help myself and start analyzing...

Anyways, what you have said about KD is pretty similarly to how I feel about the situation from what we have seen so far...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

AFAIK from KD, it is his momentary flare up seeing them together in his bedroom. If you look at aftermath, he didn’t take it as cheating because he knows she can’t lie or cheat. He wants her to stop seeing her friends. So based on the aftermath response, I think he doesn’t mean what he meant about characterless word. But he did talk too much rubbish to hurt her. 😔


Let’s wait for the dialogues here. It is all his jealousy and fears. Nothing against sai anywhere but the words are terribly wrong when he blasted out.

Sai also says it would have been ok if they are alone. they would have fight it out. But the presence of pakhi ant AJ made it worse for her! 😢

But damage is done. We will wait for the scene yes and we know that this is only his insecurity. He loves Sai n is afraid to lose her or think that Sai could like some other guy. Ya all fair

But point is aise kaun react karta hai. Why do they show Sairat behave so ott, and especially Virat. At least Sai is shown to be childish/immature toh its not against her character but Virat is a calm, collected guy..so how come he goes bonkers

Matlab first the handholding, then Sai making devi ELOPE, not getting police involved even when pulkit is kidnapped, then Virat throwing her out of the house n now this. Why does itv make everything so OTT and cringe worthy.

The way he stormed up looks like he is running to put out a fire- so much urgency. 🙄

the way he has stormed up n what he is saying in precap is enough to suggest that this is definitely an over reaction. Hes raging like a bull - he looks so upset as if he saw her having sex with him or something. I can understand him being pissed off to see/hear of ajinkya visiting Sai, that too in their bedroom. But aise - charging up to the room is a too much. What does he think they are doing upstairs that he has decided to storm up there like this. And the way he was yelling- who let him go up there. He is acting as if there has been some crime, or curfew violation or evidence tampering or something. Irritation, annoyance is fine but this degree of rage- is looking ridiculous. Infact it looks even more ridiculous because he wasn't caught off guard. Its not like he walked in unaware and suddenly saw some dude in the bedroom with his wife. He was already told that ajinkya was visiting his wife by 3 people- bk, ninad n pp. So what does he think they are doing in bedroom when people are aware of them being together. Does he think they are going to make out there when there are people downstairs....i dont get it. This is the problem with blind copy paste. People do lose rationality in gussa but not to this degree.

Edited by Nja91 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

But damage is done. We will wait for the scene yes and we know that this is only his insecurity. He loves Sai n is afraid to lose her or think that Sai could like some other guy. Ya all fair

But point is aise kaun react karta hai. Why do they show Sairat behave so ott, and especially Virat. At least Sai is shown to be childish/immature toh its not against her character but Virat is a calm, collected guy..so how come he goes bonkers

Matlab first the handholding, then Sai making devi ELOPE, not getting police involved even when pulkit is kidnapped, then Virat throwing her out of the house n now this. Why does itv make everything so OTT and cringe worthy.

The way he stormed up looks like he is running to put out a fire- so much urgency. 🙄

the way he has stormed up n what he is saying in precap is enough to suggest that this is definitely an over reaction. Hes raging like a bull - he looks so upset as if he saw her having sex with him or something. I can understand him being pissed off to see/hear of ajinkya visiting Sai, that too in their bedroom. But aise - charging up to the room is a too much. What does he think they are doing upstairs that he has decided to storm up there like this. And the way he was yelling- who let him go up there. He is acting as if there has been some crime, or curfew violation or evidence tampering or something. Irritation, annoyance is fine but this degree of rage- is looking ridiculous. Infact it looks even more ridiculous because he wasn't caught off guard. Its not like he walked in unaware and suddenly saw some dude in the bedroom with his wife. He was already told that ajinkya was visiting his wife by 3 people- bk, ninad n pp. So what does he think they are doing in bedroom when people are aware of them being together. Does he think they are going to make out there when there are people downstairs....i dont get it. This is the problem with blind copy paste. People do lose rationality in gussa but not to this degree.

I think the problem is that the makers have tried to show us that Virat is a calm, collected guy and they project that image time and time again. Maybe that is also a copy-pasting of Rono side-effect. But, the truth is that Virat is calm until he's not. As much as he says that he thinks before he speaks, he has absolutely no control over his emotions. We have seen this same thing happen, especially when it comes to Sai, over and over again.

Also I am laughing so hard right now at your bull comment 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Wait a minute in the segment we saw she was getting out of the room. May be she went out to say sorry to Ajinkya and later actual drama will take place. Then Sai may take the drastic step 🤢

Kuch bhi Ho suicide nehi hona chahye 😒

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

AFAIK from KD, it is his momentary flare up seeing them together in his bedroom. If you look at aftermath, he didn’t take it as cheating because he knows she can’t lie or cheat. He wants her to stop seeing her friends. So based on the aftermath response, I think he doesn’t mean what he meant about characterless word. But he did talk too much rubbish to hurt her. 😔


Let’s wait for the dialogues here. It is all his jealousy and fears. Nothing against sai anywhere but the words are terribly wrong when he blasted out.

Sai also says it would have been ok if they are alone. they would have fight it out. But the presence of pakhi ant AJ made it worse for her! 😢

Hopefully they bring this out like you explained , it is difficult to see Virat like they showed in the precap.


Precap and sbs has made everyone alive on the forum again😂 else weekend is pretty much deserted. Yes we need to wait and deep dive after the episode airs

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tptwi

I think the problem is that the makers have tried to show us that Virat is a calm, collected guy and they project that image time and time again. Maybe that is also a copy-pasting of Rono side-effect. But, the truth is that Virat is calm until he's not. As much as he says that he thinks before he speaks, he has absolutely no control over his emotions. We have seen this same thing happen, especially when it comes to Sai, over and over again.

Also I am laughing so hard right now at your bull comment 🤣

@bold Exactlyyyy. From whatever I could decipher from Rono's expressions which is very difficult to decipher he was never shown as caring as Virat. Virat is so gentle and caring towards Sai it melts my heart 🥺 so copy pasting Rono's actions and reactions is a bad idea🤦.


@red what an irony naa 😂😂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold Exactlyyyy. From whatever I could decipher from Rono's expressions which is very difficult to decipher he was never shown as caring as Virat. Virat is so gentle and caring towards Sai it melts my heart 🥺 so copy pasting Rono's actions and reactions is a bad idea🤦.


@red what an irony naa 😂😂


Yes, exactly. From what I could tell from KD, Rono as never this in love with Emon, even after the confession. Here, it is clear without Virat saying even a single word how much he loves Sai. But, with a love that strong that is uncertain, insecurities are bound to explode out of fears of loss. That is why, I might be in the minority, but I can understand Virat's actions no matter how unacceptable his words may be. I am not justifying, but unfortunately this type of irrationality is innately human...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rdigest

I am actually comparing his thoughts to his words and actions. Thought and words are inter related, especially in this case since he had these thoughts for a few days now since he first heard her talking over the phone. He has been probing her since then about him and Everytime Sai clarified he is just a friend. He even questioned himself why he is always thinking about AJ.


Coming to saying things in the heat of the moment which you don't mean , yes absolutely, people do say things in the heat of the moment which they might not really mean to. But saying things and accusing your wife by asking 'what were you doing in our room with AJ' can these 2 be compared?


Yes he definitely loses control on his emotions when it is related to Sai , be it when she got hurt or when he saw them together in the precap. I would have thought it was just plain emotions if he accidentally walked into them and misunderstood , but here he clearly blew up just by knowing AJ was in the room with sai and sprinted upstairs. Why would he run like that in anger if he trusted her, what is the reason other than confronting her?


I am waiting to hear what he says to sais question on Monday.

@bold I again think that is also because he lost control over himself. We have to wait to see when he asks that. It is wrong anyway.

I was shocked looking at his reaction when he came to know that Ajinkya was with Sai in their room. The way he ran to the room was too much.

@bold He has been an emotional wreck ever since he heard that Sai is close to Ajinkya after the college festival. He didn’t like what he heard from Sai and everything that has been happening ever since that night started to make him feel more insecured even if they were nothing. He just couldn’t tolerate Ajinkya sharing the stage with Sai after the dance ended. I wonder what his reaction would have been if he had not got lost in his own dreams when they were dancing on the stage. He must have been fighting with his own emotions in the past few days too I think which comes out everytime he hears about Ajinkya from Sai. This shows his tolerance level actually. He ran to his room since he couldn’t bear the thought that Ajinkya had come home to meet Sai. What bothered him the most even after the birthday party was if Ajinkya was trying to surprise Sai trying to make her happy as a boy does it for the girl whom he has interest in.

He is worried if that guy has feelings for Sai and if Sai might also end up reciprocating his feelings. The guy is as old as her, is in the same class as her, studying medicine and that is all adding up to his insecurities. He doesn’t understand that Sai not reciprocating his feelings is due to his own doing.

So as I was saying he probably think that Ajinkya has feelings for Sai or interest in her and that is why he tried to surprise her on the birthday and has also come home, gone to his room to check on her since she wasn’t feeling well. These people didn’t tell him that he had come home to share notes with her but instead had said that her friend has come to see her or something if I remember it right. So, to him it looked like Ajinkya was taking more than needed interest or care in Sai. I think he runs not able to tolerate the feeling that Ajinkya has come home to check on Sai. He is not just insecured, is also too possessive. And the scene played in front of him, which might have looked wrong due to his own imagination would have made him lose his senses.

None of these are to justify him or defend him, I will bash him after the episode, may be even more than you all 🤣🤣.

I have just tried to understand his emotions and what might have driven him to act this horribly. It cannot be an excuse especially when he doesn’t learn to control his emotions or actions driven by those emotions. That is why many of us feel that he needs to learn to control it.

I started typing in this reply but got busy with something else and saved it in drafts.

Edited by laksh - 4 years ago

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