Originally posted by: Nups_mish
Piu!! ❤️ Lots and lots of love to you!! Thank you for sharing this with me and sorry for the late response! This post is very emotional for me and I wanted to take the time to respond!
Infertility is not a joke! I just want the makers to understand this! Its just not a joke… A few years ago I had an operation to remove a benign ovarian cyst. The doctors told my parents that she should try to bear a child before 30 or else chances are slim! I am 28 right now and its painful for me to go through this over and over on the phone with my parents where they are pleading with me to think of having a baby! I am tired of telling them that its not in my hands and it will happen when its the right time. So when I see such mockery of pregnancy and infertility on shows like these it just makes me dejected, sad, angers and annoys me all at the same time!
This is pathetic and probably the worst the makers can show!
Sorry for venting out and sorry if I got a little personal. But you guys are like family to me and sharing stuff with you makes me feel lighter🤗❤️
Nupur🤗 as you said will definitely happen when the time is right , You are going to have a beautiful baby and you inturn are going to be a wonderful mother. My situation is slightly different. My cycles were giving me problems even before marriage, still my husband and I decided to postpone, atleast wait for 2-3 years. It did get into fertility issues and the problem was me and not my husband as we both got tested, My OB/GYN started me a fertlity drug called Clomid, took it a for a year, nothing worked, he suggested IVF with a specialist. i went for my first visit, she asked me to wait for my next cycle to start the treatment. We waited for 45 days, I never got it and called the fertility specialist, she prescribed me a drug to get my cycle started and promised me it will start in a week. It didn’t happen and by 60th day I got fed, cried one day, couldn’t go to work and called the specialist. She wanted me to go for a blood test for pregnancy as the normal urine test was coming negative. The next day I get a call from that I was pregnant. I cried over the phone, she calmed me down asked me to call back my OB/GYN for an appointment. This all happened on a Friday. I called my husband back and told him this, his joy knew no bounds, but both of us decided to be cautious until we met the OB/GYN and got an ultrasound done. Pregnancy was confirmed by him again, we waited for another 30 days to let our parents know because he kept saying the first trimester was crucial. Eventually things settled and we started sharing the news. I had lot of complications during pregnancy, but was dropped another bombshell that I cannot have another child. My husband and I resigned to the fact and decided to raise our probable only child in the best possible way. My son was born, lot of complications again during delivery but after seeing him for the first time, all that pain, complications went out the window, 2 years later I skipped my cycle one month, called my OB/GYN, he said no way I could be pregnant with the complications I had but still wanted me to take. a pregnancy test before he started any kind of treatment (that’s the protocol). Guess what I was pregnant again, this no treatment, no medicines, no complications and my beautiful daughter was born 9 months later, I wouldn’t trade anything in tje world for these 2 munchkins, they are mine and my husband’s world, In all this my pillar of support has bern my husband, knowing fully well that I was the problem, he forbade me from sharing that information to anyone. Till today, even my mom doesn’t know about it. One other thing that worked in favor of us that we lived in the US far from the prying eyes of relatives. So whatever we went through it is between us and none of others beeswax😆
This is my story, I shared it to reassure you that you will definitely get your turn, the journey and the end result is going to be beautiful❤️
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