Imlie finds new purpose - Page 7

Whenever KC truth comes out, I want Adi to ask why she lied to him. She did not make up KC story after Adi told her about Imlie and she wanted to sacrifice Adi for her sister. She first lied to manipulate Adi to tell the truth. Whatever may be the reason who can say such a big lie. But would the writers call up on that. May be not, they always want to prop up didi’s nahaaya. All her scenes are not yawn worthy

Originally posted by: Josupra

Whenever KC truth comes out, I want Adi to ask why she lied to him. She did not make up KC story after Adi told her about Imlie and she wanted to sacrifice Adi for her sister. She first lied to manipulate Adi to tell the truth. Whatever may be the reason who can say such a big lie. But would the writers call up on that. May be not, they always want to prop up didi’s nahaaya. All her scenes are not yawn worthy

Absolutely! She talked about having someone else in her life right after the suicide drama - she didn’t know that imlie was his first wife then. But in order to keep propping her up, they are conveniently going to forget that part😆

Originally posted by: Josupra

Whenever KC truth comes out, I want Adi to ask why she lied to him. She did not make up KC story after Adi told her about Imlie and she wanted to sacrifice Adi for her sister. She first lied to manipulate Adi to tell the truth. Whatever may be the reason who can say such a big lie. But would the writers call up on that. May be not, they always want to prop up didi’s nahaaya. All her scenes are not yawn worthy

LOL even if Adi asks her, it's not like he will get a dhang ka response😆.....it's going to be similar to the way he questioned her about why she tried to commit suicide....he will ask her if she's trying to punish him and then point out that what she did was wrong, period.....but all she will give him in response is silence and grudge filled looks😆......

It's quite likely ki KC truth ko they will bring out at such a point when Didi is trying to commit suicide again or she's ill in some way....lol so as to maximize her sympathy potential and use koi kuch bol na sake since she is in "fragile" state yet again.

And if indeed Adi manages to ask her directly ki why did she lie and just make up a fake boyfriend out of thin air, Didi will definitely spin the whole thing into a maha bechaargi session about how heartbroken she was and didn't know how to deal with the "pain" of not getting her love, isliye jhoota BF banaa diya aur phir phass gayi cuz everyone started believing it😆......lol I fully expect the makers to whitewash the timeline of her KC lie and how it evolved......Adi will just oscillate between shock and guilt trip over learning that truth ki oh no, bechaari Malini akeli reh gayi while I got to reunite with Imlie......they will try to make him feel at some point like he ruined Malini ki life.....that is where the guilt trip will be forced on him.....Malini's lies will all be whitewashed as always.....guaranteed😆

*Edit: Oh and I also fully expect Didi to go on the offensive and say to Adi ki if you could lie to me about something, so what if I lied too? Big deal😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Btw did you guys notice ki GM mispronounced "mannatein" as "MINNATEIN" in that cheerleader wala scene?😆.....Hindi mein thoda jhol karte rehte hain yeh from time to time😆

These two words mean totally different things.....lol....MINNAT karna is to PLEAD with someone.....MANNAT is like a prayer😆.....Imlie was giving him a reference ki use lagega SM ne uski MANNAT puri kar di......but Adi was like, "I know better than to come between you and your MINNATEIN"😆

Yes I did notice and went bhai kya bol gaya too imlie means mannat and tu Minnatein bol raha hai it was a big mix up but khair

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Yes I did notice and went bhai kya bol gaya too iklie means mannat and tu Minnatein bol raha hai it was a big mix up but khair

Third PD track tak toh isko "mannat" yaad tha.....lol woh diye waale scene mein toh kitni baar bola mannat mannat😆.....lekin ab lagta hai bhool gaya kaise bolna hai😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh come on 😆….AS IF they can ever even begin to even remotely be in that range as Adi-Imlie 😆…..

And frankly the writers are not even interested in showing any genuine connect with this side pair of Kunmun. Didi ke saath waise bhi who can really connect. Itni shallow superficiality mein kahaan se aayega connect? 🤷‍♀️…..this is why AM were hell superficial too 😆…..Didi ko genuine connect banaane aate hote toh this would be a different story 😆…..all she wants is ji huzoori and worshiping in the name of “connect” 😆

Hahah what!! Them being in adi imlie zone...kya joke chal raha hai..mujhe toh isi liye aur bhi hassi aati hai ke people chadhao them so much when they are like worse then IB wale extras too totally ..inko parallel leads kehna is like insult of parallel leads . Even woh naukron wali jodi in EDKV 2 were far better and had solid chemsitry and likes them so much than these 2 .

You know what is funnier didi keeps saying who would understand me better than you KC you know it all and etc etc and I just laugh ke how? How does she expect him to.know her understand her and all jaane oya hain yeh dono ek dusre ke baare main? Isko bhi aise hi bol degi baad main ke bas aisie hi 7 saal guzzar liye toh dhoka ho gaya the pattern is same she probably did the same with adi and kept going we match in everything rofl jab asal main ghanta jaante thay.. makers have been so lazy with this stupid KC character and not that I care a damn .. but like who is he what he actually is? Sab tokenism chal.raha hai and people are trying to find depth tlin them rofl 🤣 and by that I mean.all the billion fanpages on IG for them and he himself acting as if he is koi bada Arthouse cinema ka sabse bada hero pata nahi kya jab like chavvani jitni aukat nahi hai

So kar lein jinta marzi koshsih I am with you both ke yeh sirf ek bhaddha mazaak.hi raheinge yeh dono they have legit nothing to connect too koi substance hai hi nahi and not like anybody cares to add any actual.meaning but sure didi are welcome to think they are koi heer ranjha

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Third PD track tak toh isko "mannat" yaad tha.....lol woh diye waale scene mein toh kitni baar bola mannat mannat😆.....lekin ab lagta hai bhool gaya kaise bolna hai😆

Uske baad bhi bola hai.. guess slip hi gaya and nobody bothered to check ke kha keh raha hai I was vaguely reminded of samajh nahi pad raha 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Yes, I got the same sense from Aparna's reactions in these scenes too.....Imlie has the same value system as her at her core in terms of putting the family above everything else.....you could see both Aparna and Radha again getting grudgingly impressed by Imlie's thought process in terms of how she views relationships😆.....kaise woh rishton ka maan rakhna jaanti hai and know how to fight for her family's honor.

But they still can't accept the PACKAGING those values are coming in.....lol....that is their mental roadblock.....Aparna ke liye bahu ki actual samajh of rishte is last on the list of expectations....before all of that, she wants a bahu that LOOKS the part of bahu....saji/sawri in sari, bade khaandaan waali that she can display to society......it's again all about appearances and how even otherwise well intentioned people succumb to the desire of wanting a pretty face beside them to display to the world.....lol.....Aparna ke liye it's like a "nice to have" if Malini also had an understanding of rishte like that.....but it's not a deal breaker......lol while in Imlie's case, Aparna can clearly see that Imlie understands rishton ki gehraai but she is unacceptable to Aparna since she comes in rough packaging and looks like a "naukraani". Different "acceptable" standards for different people based on the social class they come from. Harsh truth of this world.

It's definitely interesting that Aparna had different expectations from her own bahu rather than the ones she probably herself grew up with vis a vis how she was with her saas.....btw that makes me wonder - Tripathis ke Mummy-Papa bhi kabhi dikhaayenge? lol Aparna ne bhi kabhi best bahu competition jeeta kya?😛🤣

The other lingering issue for Aparna I feel is that even as she can see that Imlie has all those values of a good bahu in terms of managing ghar ke rishte with samajhdaari, she still also holds Imlie responsible for bringing all this humiliation upon them publicly with the revelation that she is Adi's wife.......this is similar to the way Adi could also see Imlie's goodness all along but resented her for being a reminder of the humiliation he experienced through the forced wedding even though it was never her fault. So Aparna will continue to do the same.....even if she sees Imlie's goodness, she will still keep holding the grudge that Imlie has caused them to feel humiliated in society.

I was also finding it funny when Aparna was complaining to Pankaj that Adi ne ek baar bhi nahin socha ki hum pe kya beetegi in society if he reveals Imlie to be his wife like this😆.....arey Aparna ji, aapko KYA pata ki KITNI der se yeh debate chalaa hai between Adi-Imlie about what will happen when everyone learns the truth....you have NO IDEA what all they have struggled with in terms of feeling the weight of these consequences.....lol but koi baat nahin....aap apna hurt sambhaalo abhi ke liye😆

Bold1 : the intresting bit is packaging can be modified but thought process cannot.. Aparna's wants to dhalo imlie in her mould plz.go ahead do the grooming as per your wishes as it is you have been doing it with sajaooing even imlie since the time she came and including her as your beti nikalooing your chaavs you may have as a mummy for a daughter..as in to get her special outfits etc.. again brings me back to the khaas dress she got made for imlie just 2 days back..or the way she haq se lagaooed imelia daant and tried to correct her everytime she felt imlie did something wrong ya jo bhi... the nurturing aspect has been part of their dynamic something that never has been setup.in her and malini as Jo also mentioned again je devi ji se toh paani ka glass maangte huye bhi minnat karni padti thi..toh kaisa bond.. aparna can do all she wants not like imlie is refusing to adapt to her ways or ever has unlike golden bahu but she cannot put the sanskaar the thought process and mould malini caz that Train has gone.. it is too late for that and dusra malini has never showed any inclination to learn at all as we have discussed so many times and had always been katti hui from the family ke mera toh kuch lena dena hai nahi 😆 about beauty completely My own opinion imlie is far more beautiful even on the outside as a person her beauty I find very attractive and a charm that pulls me in lovely features and smile then the doll they had ek dum.check list wali jisme features toh saare order pe dalwa liye but actually lacks a personality or pull or charm and just comes across and extremely plastic and one can tell Made on order jisme soul daalna bhool gaye hence looking even more plastic doll

Bold 2 hahaha I guess someday aparna ji will get the enlightenment then she will regret ke how she misunderstood but until then she will keep holding poor adi responsible.. aparna ji isi behas main 8 mahine nikal gaye in show and 4 mahine in real🤣🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh WORD.....I loved that dialogue too.....simple and straightforward cutting to the heart of the matter....it's very easy to say it's not your problem how people want to think but if your family is living in that same samaaj, it does become a collective problem that has to be addressed in some form since it impacts your family.

See again, it's noteworthy in Imlie's stance ki she isn't saying ki apni zindagi jeena chhod do cuz samaaj tumhein galat samajhta hai.....she's not saying stop living your truth cuz samaaj considers you wrong.....she's saying ki you can't just dismiss everything in a wholesale manner.....you have to find a way to tackle this ugliness and still make your way......establish yourself on your own terms. That is what she is doing yet again.....log use naukraani bolna bhi chaahein toh she's like bolte raho.....main apne aap ko apne terms pe bahu establish karke dikhaaungi.....this is about claiming your identity....the world will keep trying to reduce to a label - kabhi naukraani, kabhi bahurani.....but at the end of the day, Imlie ke liye yeh RISHTA hai....she wants to claim and respect the rishta that she hasn't gotten to openly claim despite it being her right all this while. And she's doing it by facing the problem in her own way.

Adi gave her gyaan for so long na ki you can't run away from your problems? lol so now she's found out which problem she wants to tackle.....he won't stop her from making any efforts as long as she isn't hiding away duniya se darr ke.....this is just another way of Imlie showing that she isn't backing down from fighting for their relationship but she will focus the battle via fighting for family ka self-respect and bringing back their happiness......

Exactly 💯 what imlie is doing or is trying to.put across is both thought processss can Co exist.. farak nahi padta caa truly farak nahinoadta ke cheap log kya sochein but inko line pe laana bhi zaroori hai caz aap galat nahi ho inki soch galat hai and she is getting the opportunity now so she will take it. She is going to the root of it ke who ate they to anyway give her a medal or pass the judgement whether she is worthy or no it is not samaj ka call whatsoever if anything that is between her and her family walaas if anyone can approve or disapprove it is her immediate family and even they do not have the right to write her off just caz she comes from a poor background they are also no one to question her worth.. with this she is just getting to the root of the problem..caz she is imlie and she can .. this is about her truth and her claiming identity as you rightfully said.. and she will go and fight for it.. caz ab toh baat apni hai and jab yeh dosron ke liye backing nain itni energy daal sakti hai toh apne liye kyon nahi

Originally posted by: tellyme

ohh didi has completely blown me off.. The way she cries and the person she selects is so apt.. She very well knows her mother and how capable she is for harming Imlie .. Iske aage kya he kehne.. Iska kaam ho bhi jayega aur badnaam iske Mom hogi... And stop it Mom bolke she will become saint as wellwell. . Feels like banging my head with her and put some reality in her brain.. But kya faida.. She is not able to digest the truth and fight with anyone who tries to show her the mirror.. Like she did with KC..

She is also not a good daughter as a good daughter will try to not say anything to her mother who she knows will do something and become bad in front of others.. But isse kya... Yeh to phir se saint banke nikal legi...

No problem.. I will try to focus on Imliya ke kartab this week and ignore Didis greatness

Didi is a human personification if kisi aur ke kandhe pe rakh ke bandook chalana she has done this since the beginning of time 😆