Imlie finds new purpose - Page 5

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Thank you for the Gifs and catching up on the thread 🤗. Looks from the spoilers we have an interesting week ahead 😆

Speaking of emotional strength, yesterday’s episode was a clear comparison of the emotional capabilities of Malini and Imilie. Sorry I am bringing didi into the mix but it was so in the face yesterday on how the two ladies manage a crisis.

On one hand we have Imlie who has a strong resolve who would go any lengths to achieve what she intends to do and on the other hand we have someone who runs to her mother for every little thing 🤷‍♀️
We know Imilie has the support from Adi, but even if he didn’t support her fully in this, nothing would have stopped her from what she intended to do. Such a strong independent 19 year old that many especially one that can take lessons from 😆

On a side note, I get back to work after my summer break, will be on top of all the posts as much as possible🤗.

Oh looks like hum sabke timings aur clash karne waale hain for discussions😆.....No worries, pop in whenever you can🤗......hum hain raahi pyar ke, phir milenge chalte chalte😆

@bold: Very true about the contrast in emotional strength levels of Didi and Imlie......but more than that, I was struck by another thing.....

The saas-bahu relationship at its core is forged over the connection two women share with one man.....one is his mother, the other is his wife......the two most important women in his life......how that relationship is balanced and nurtured tells you a lot about the women involved.....

I've always gotten the sense that for Malini, Aparna is only to be viewed as Aditya ki Maa.....all this "Maa, Maa" jaap she does is completely superficial.....she doesn't really consider Aparna to be a mother to herself....Aparna is just an entity to her that helps connect MALINI to Aditya......Malini's entire mindset has always been about what can help connect me to Aditya.....whether it's through his family, whether it's through cooking fancy dishes.....that is how she perceives all these things and people......isliye all this breathy "Maa yeh, Maa woh" drama she does is just another way to keep a hold over Aditya.....cuz Aparna is Aditya's mom......her and Malini don't share any independent relationship beyond that on any genuine level......Malini is like a doll to Aparna that she would like to sajaao and show off😆.....and for Malini, Aparna is how she can keep a link to Adi.

Imlie is the total opposite.....from day one, she considered Aparna to be like her own mom regardless of the link to Adi.....she didn't consider Aparna her own mom cuz she was Adi's mom....she just did that on her own one on one level with Aparna.....jab aap rishta dil se jodte ho rather than treating it like a means to an end, or a ladder to climb over someone, that is when it is actually genuine......Imlie has never considered Aparna to be a MEANS to get to Adi.....she has considered Aparna someone to love and respect on her own ability.....irony yeh hai that the bahu goes around calling Aparna "Maa" never really considered her Maa while Imlie still calls her Chhoti Kaaki but has always treated her like her own mother.....apni Amma ke level kar darjaa diya hai Imlie ne Aparna ko shuru se.

Even that line where Imlie was talking about how bahu woh hoti hai jo is baat ko value kare that the woman who gave birth to her life partner is to be given the highest of regards equal to her own mother.....so for her, Aparna isn't just a link to Adi.....for her, Aparna deserves that high regard for giving her the blessings of her life partner.....she's venerating Aparna rather than treating her to a means to an end.....yehi farak hota hai between people who treat relationships like transactions and people who apnaao someone dil se just out of the love in their heart - not to nikaalo koi matlab.

Remains to be seen if Aparna ever understands this.....ki bas "Maa" bolte rehne se koi Maa jaisa darjaa nahin de deta aapko......aur asli bahu wala pyar kaisa hota hai beyond her superficial visions of doll jaisi bahu😆

Originally posted by: Josupra

On a lighter note, Imelia ne patni ka haq dikhaya aur nikaldiya Adi ko apne kone se.. he would have regretted going after Didi and giving the time for Imlie to think 😂

LOL I doubt it really registered for Adi that he's in the doghouse over wasting his time going after Loser Didi. 😆

Waise bhi now it looks like this whole shifting to the kona was just a temporary thing for drama since they never showed any scene of Adi-Imlie actually spending time there together in terms of cohabiting....that is why they've moved Adi back to his room using the excuse of Imlie being upset over family waale facing humiliation......lol

Baaki toh focus now is on Imlie winning over T family ka love again.....toh us sab mein waise kone waale scenes waise bhi kya dikhaane the😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: +1.....I'm liking this for the same reason......Imlie's emotional strength is being allowed to come through rather than her just sitting around being upset over logon ke harsh words.

Rather than being hung up on the label of a bahu competition, it's worth looking beyond that for the larger point this track is trying to make vis a vis a window into how society ke log think/behave. Many of us may find it OTT but it's not that much of an exaggeration in the realm of housewives ke society waale groups.....the random kitty party games and competitions.....all this falls under that only I guess. And a person like Aparna would definitely have wished to have the thrill of participating once she actually gets a bahu😆......we have to understand that jin logon ki lives simple hoti hai, woh in sab cheezon mein hi apna thrill and happiness dhundte hain......the IDEA of a bahu, the IDEA of having someone to participate in a competition with.....I think that is what is being tackled here......Aparna's perception of what constitutes the right bahu.....competition toh bas bahaana hai. For Aparna, it's been a dream and for Imlie it's becoming the means to bring a smile on Aparna's face.....that's all.....no one's worth is really going to be decided by this competition. Imlie also knows that and hardly hinges her worth on winning this......for her, worth comes from bringing happiness to your loved ones....that is all she wants. She feels that Aparna has ended up crying so much because of her.....the truth revelation has caused hurt regardless of whether Imlie didn't mean to hurt anyone.....so that is what Imlie wants to make up for.

Bahu toh Imlie already hai......lol I like that that part is beyond question now regardless of people not being happy about it......and best bahu is just one title in the superficial games of the society.....Imlie ka stance is ki game hi sahi, if it brings a smile on Aparna's face, it's worth it for her.

I esp like it how they are not making it about a title but the emotion behind it.. the simple joy winning a stupid game can bring too and how it binds people.. imlie doesn't give a damn about a stupid trophy neither does aparna from what I feel but it was just a simple bonding time that thrill for her to take pride in bahu ki tareef just get to be saas woh thodi dear ke liye flaunts and laugh over it caz we all know aparna ain't typical saas otherwise but just woh thodi time ki khushi woh shared joy was what she probably had wanted out of it too just pure fun and entertainment caz none of this actually proves anything.. as we got to see from both adi and imlie ka pov ke this sab is too fickle and too lame but it does gives entertainment and happiness so worth a try for that..

I like how they are not fixating on winning the title but are showing ke just the joy such things extract are worth more then the lameness and for that it should be given a chance caz again objectively speaking who actually gets a chance to spend time with their saas or rishtefaars as such and it was rather shown in the show again too with the prachi bahu and how fickle it is so much for her being called best bahu but ghanta respect or kindness she actually had for her saas even after imlie told her ke you should respect your saas she only made a face and went whatever sadly aaj kal bohat logon ki soch aisi hai..ke ghanta respect nahi hai and they take their in laws as mehh koi nahi why go far even didi had the same thought process ke bas pati hi hai sasural to meek minions hain mere jo come in package deal and are beneath me..no matter they haven't ever wronged her. But aaj kal yehi soch prevailing hai I have seen it from my own eyes in real too specific demands ke ladka bas akela ho behan bhai bhi na hon and parents bhi na hi hon toh acha hai.. and agar hain bhi so humne toh na rehna saath even before shaadi .. toh jab aise hi kisi ko sirf todne ke goal se jaoge toh ghanta rishtein nibheinge yeh soch hi galat hai

Originally posted by: Lodestar

You know I am feeling optimistic about the KC truth being revealed soon😆. I know meri chop hone ke chances are like 99% but I have 1% hope that it will be revealed before the divorce if KC doesn't go back to being Didi's legal representative.

But all of it depends on KC not playing Didi's fake BF anymore. Agar he does that then no chance it will be revealed. But if he sticks to his guns then chance hai.

Adi-Imlie will at least ask KC why he is not Didi's lawyer anymore & he can tell them the truth. But I don't trust KC . He may still try & protect Didi ki mahanta image even though he is angry at her indecisiveness. Let's see what the writers show. But if the KC truth reveal does happen then we might finally get the ultimatum part of the long ago promo come into play.

ROFL Lodestar ji, I love your determination to hold on to this KC truth reveal theory😆.....it's very cute how you try to look for breadcrumbs about this despite Didi and KC ke daily flip flops😆

@bold: Yes, all depends on that.....if he continues to go along with playing her fake BF toh phir toh kuch nahin reveal hona😆.....and something tells me he will continue to go along with it cuz Didi jaayegi iske paas phir se make up karne ke liye😆.....or even if she doesn't, this guy has a serious soft corner for her damsel in distress ways......toh maarega pucca phir se flip to give her kandha😆.....as you said, he always gives in to protect her mahaanta image related propping up.....just like he was quite willing to go along with random hug when she chipkoed to him at Nishvi ki shaadi😆

LMAO you still think ULTIMATUM wala promo has a chance? 🤣.....arey yaar woh gaadi bahut peechhe chhoot gayi hai.....bhool jaao use....ekdum random promo tha woh which was never meant to happen exactly......story is on a different track now.

My hunch is that KC will flip soon again and Didi will ask for his help in trying to get over Adi😆.....the window of possibility for KC truth reveal depends on whether or not the divorce manages to happen in the next two weeks.....if not, then yes, the longer the divorce drags on, then KC truth reveal ka bhi chance hai since makers like to keep showing some truth reveal every two weeks off late😆.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

If I didn't know better, I'd wonder if Didi did this deliberately to sic her mom onto Adi-Imlie again🤔

We are expected to believe that the woman who has literally seen her mom go and ATTACK Adi-Imlie EVERY SINGLE TIME over the excuse of in logon ne meri beti ko rulaya.....if she goes and cries in front of that mom, what exactly does Malini think will happen? 😕.....she very well knows......aaraam se tili lagaa ke side pe hojaati hai.....then baad mein once her Mom has completed yet another round of maligning Adi-Imlie, then Didi aa jaati hai apne token "Oh I had no idea Mom will do all this" dialogues maarne

Arre loser has the excuse na ke mainn toh raaste se jaa rahi thi..as always not her fault her mom saw her in raasta and she then put on a show main kya karoon.. yeh toh kabhi uch nahi karti sab apne aap ho jaata hai with this chunni kaaki..inka paap likhne wala farishta was never assigned to sit on her shoulder by uppar wala. Caz again devis do not make mistakes ever in life. Isn't it amazing she ain't even supposed to be called out on kuch bhi like kuch bhi minor bhi nahi..

Lol hilarious ke promises were so.one sided and sirf asi pe hi thi zimmedari unko nibhane ki usme bhi as always iska koi contribution toh kabhi expected hi nahi tha rofl

Originally posted by: AreYaar

not able to tag you Sandy, both of you said it so nicely about Malini as a bahu vs Imlie as a bahu.
Malini is a always just a show piece for Aparna, mere honhaar bete ki nazuk si patni and just like her bahu checked everything on paper, Aparna also wanted to be the best saas, so she always gave priority to bahu over beta. For Malini, Aparna is just a means to make Adi do things that she can’t make him agree to do. There is no real bond at one to one level between the two women. Aparna couldn’t even ask Malini to do basic chores at home without pleading her.. ‘Devi ji aap yeh karne ki kasht kar sakhti hai’.. for Malini it has always been Adi ki parivaar, Adi ki maa, Adi ka ghar bit for Imlie it has always been mera parivaar, meri maa, mera ghar.

Imlie built all her relationships with everyone at one to one level, not just with Tripathi’s but every single one, be it Sundar or Pallavi before wedding and we can all see sundar and Pallavi as her biggest supporters now. Pankaj Tripathi is upset right now because his wife is upset, otherwise, he by himself didn’t object much to Adi and Imlie, because he knows Imlie and how much she thinks about family. Aparna is upset right now because her wish for a show piece bahu is not reality anymore. When it comes to her own self, Aparna knows that as a bahu it is her job to make sure her family respect should be upheld but bahu should be someone who keeps the family together, but she didn’t had some the expectations from her own bahu, she only wanted someone who is praised by the society. Imlie kind of hit of that perspective couple of times already in today’s episode without realizing. First when she said, the same women passed comments that Aparna hit a jackpot when Adi was marrying Malini and now commenting that Aparna’s daughter in-law is poor, so no matter what these women just don’t have any work other than poke their nose at others personal things. You can see Aparna wiping her tears after Imlie reminded her about this and that is when she found her voice back, first to send Imlie inside as though saying, now your work is done you can go inside 😆 and then she shooed off the society ladies. Second, when Imlie said saas is ‘Devi samaan’ because she gave birth to you jeevan saathi. Aparna might have considered her saas the same way. By the end of this competition, irrespective of whether Imlie wins the competition or not, i think Aparna will realize that Imlie is more like her, when it comes to family and will realize the things that are more important in a bahu, which she did not put much thought to till now, in the need to have a bahu that she can show off to everyone.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Oh looks like hum sabke timings aur clash karne waale hain for discussions😆.....No worries, pop in whenever you can🤗......hum hain raahi pyar ke, phir milenge chalte chalte😆

@bold: Very true about the contrast in emotional strength levels of Didi and Imlie......but more than that, I was struck by another thing.....

The saas-bahu relationship at its core is forged over the connection two women share with one man.....one is his mother, the other is his wife......the two most important women in his life......how that relationship is balanced and nurtured tells you a lot about the women involved.....

I've always gotten the sense that for Malini, Aparna is only to be viewed as Aditya ki Maa.....all this "Maa, Maa" jaap she does is completely superficial.....she doesn't really consider Aparna to be a mother to herself....Aparna is just an entity to her that helps connect MALINI to Aditya......Malini's entire mindset has always been about what can help connect me to Aditya.....whether it's through his family, whether it's through cooking fancy dishes.....that is how she perceives all these things and people......isliye all this breathy "Maa yeh, Maa woh" drama she does is just another way to keep a hold over Aditya.....cuz Aparna is Aditya's mom......her and Malini don't share any independent relationship beyond that on any genuine level......Malini is like a doll to Aparna that she would like to sajaao and show off😆.....and for Malini, Aparna is how she can keep a link to Adi.

Imlie is the total opposite.....from day one, she considered Aparna to be like her own mom regardless of the link to Adi.....she didn't consider Aparna her own mom cuz she was Adi's mom....she just did that on her own one on one level with Aparna.....jab aap rishta dil se jodte ho rather than treating it like a means to an end, or a ladder to climb over someone, that is when it is actually genuine......Imlie has never considered Aparna to be a MEANS to get to Adi.....she has considered Aparna someone to love and respect on her own ability.....irony yeh hai that the bahu goes around calling Aparna "Maa" never really considered her Maa while Imlie still calls her Chhoti Kaaki but has always treated her like her own mother.....apni Amma ke level kar darjaa diya hai Imlie ne Aparna ko shuru se.

Even that line where Imlie was talking about how bahu woh hoti hai jo is baat ko value kare that the woman who gave birth to her life partner is to be given the highest of regards equal to her own mother.....so for her, Aparna isn't just a link to Adi.....for her, Aparna deserves that high regard for giving her the blessings of her life partner.....she's venerating Aparna rather than treating her to a means to an end.....yehi farak hota hai between people who treat relationships like transactions and people who apnaao someone dil se just out of the love in their heart - not to nikaalo koi matlab.

Remains to be seen if Aparna ever understands this.....ki bas "Maa" bolte rehne se koi Maa jaisa darjaa nahin de deta aapko......aur asli bahu wala pyar kaisa hota hai beyond her superficial visions of doll jaisi bahu😆

And that is what I was getting at in my last post too.. aaj kal most girls use this fickle approach ke bas kehne ko maa papa keh do but it never comes genuinly it is still tumharw maa baao which has always been the case for malini even when they were supposedly good..there is a.world of difference is doing khana poori and kisi ko dil se apnana and maa baap maan lena which as you said imlie did hence it never comes down to your maa said that your maa did that it is same of adi Amma is Amma not imlie ki Amma . For imlie aparna is her maa period she respects her on the same level as she respects her mother..as you said the rishta was never formed to use it for her benefit or because well no choice ab toh kehna hi padega even if I Don't want too like miss MC which never felt apna and uppari sa .. I know uncle auntie is weird post shaadi but I say it is still better than fake maa baap atleast it puts things clearly ke maa baap toh nahi banoge aap kabhi bhi and aane wali ka mindset woh hai hi nahi..though sirf kehne pe toh bante nahi hain..but like I personally have zero tolerance for this fakeness toh I would rather just things be straight then yeh dramay like i have zero chill regarding all this. Matt hi bolo behan bhai maa baap for dikhawa ke oh look how much I care how much I am part but actually not putting any effort or care but use it to kabu karo the pati and girls do that waise chasni main doobi hongi but the moment the same maa baap go to other room start the bitching🤷‍♀️..

Originally posted by: Josupra

(I didn’t get a chance to go thru all the posts, so apologize if I am repeating some of the points that you may have already discussed)

Our powerful Imelia is back with a bang and I am loving it. In addition to our powerful Imelia, we can also feel a lightness in Adi-Imlie scenes, the lightness that saying truth brings in. It reminded me of the morning after Adilie scene after the sindoor drama, when Adi says he is earning to be back to the Aditya who always said truth and gave support only to the truth, his wish came completely true after he said his truth before even the ‘samaaj’ and as he said then, there is some turbulence but he strongly believes that time will resolve all the issues, provided they both stay together.

Imlie gave the saath Adi asked for, even if she was uncomfortable going into the party, but she had had enough after witnessing the humiliation of her family by neighbors, she is a fierce protector, she fights for everyone except for her. Adi fought for her till now, but she is now asking him to take a pause and that she can fight the battle from here on ‘poore dil se’

On a lighter note, Imelia ne patni ka haq dikhaya aur nikaldiya Adi ko apne kone se.. he would have regretted going after Didi and giving the time for Imlie to think 😂

I do want to add to this that I specifically liked imlie saying ke problem toh hai na mera tumhara unka nahi it is a collective problem and we gotta solve it.. itni choti si baat but the way the apanapan and whole team feel came ke parents alag thodi hain. And it being their problem makes it theirs too ...and they should not focus on kiska problem hai but if they can troubleshoot it then that's it

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I doubt it really registered for Adi that he's in the doghouse over wasting his time going after Loser Didi. 😆

Waise bhi now it looks like this whole shifting to the kona was just a temporary thing for drama since they never showed any scene of Adi-Imlie actually spending time there together in terms of cohabiting....that is why they've moved Adi back to his room using the excuse of Imlie being upset over family waale facing humiliation......lol

Baaki toh focus now is on Imlie winning over T family ka love again.....toh us sab mein waise kone waale scenes waise bhi kya dikhaane the😆

Sigh missed opportunity 😆 oh well kabhi aur sahi umeed pe duniya kaayam hai😆 but I did kinda enjoy imlie being Get out ..simply caz of this reason I would go with it that she was pissed ke didi ke peeche bhaga it gives me sukoon ke he got punished for that jaise bhi twisted way main 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

ROFL Lodestar ji, I love your determination to hold on to this KC truth reveal theory😆.....it's very cute how you try to look for breadcrumbs about this despite Didi and KC ke daily flip flops😆

@bold: Yes, all depends on that.....if he continues to go along with playing her fake BF toh phir toh kuch nahin reveal hona😆.....and something tells me he will continue to go along with it cuz Didi jaayegi iske paas phir se make up karne ke liye😆.....or even if she doesn't, this guy has a serious soft corner for her damsel in distress ways......toh maarega pucca phir se flip to give her kandha😆.....as you said, he always gives in to protect her mahaanta image related propping up.....just like he was quite willing to go along with random hug when she chipkoed to him at Nishvi ki shaadi😆

LMAO you still think ULTIMATUM wala promo has a chance? 🤣.....arey yaar woh gaadi bahut peechhe chhoot gayi hai.....bhool jaao use....ekdum random promo tha woh which was never meant to happen exactly......story is on a different track now.

My hunch is that KC will flip soon again and Didi will ask for his help in trying to get over Adi😆.....the window of possibility for KC truth reveal depends on whether or not the divorce manages to happen in the next two weeks.....if not, then yes, the longer the divorce drags on, then KC truth reveal ka bhi chance hai since makers like to keep showing some truth reveal every two weeks off late😆.

Rofl ultimatum yahan ka raam charittar manus promo ho gaya hai😆😎😈 bas gaya in bermuda 😆

Arre kC ke paas simple excuse hai ke the conflict of interest hai and he thought to back off due to personal equations with devi ji bacha lega yeh didi ko..caz he sees how "HARD" she has been trying you see only chomu has that khaas nazar