Ishq par Zor Nahi - EDT#29 Tujhe Jeevan Ki dor se bandh lia hai - Page 65

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Has anyone read New IF article on Param where he talked about acting? His answer is so deep and philosophical.

"The best part about my work is that in front of camera, you have to be more truthful than you can be in real life. You feel that for a certain period of time, you have to be so truthful and honest about what you feel, and how you want to behave because nobody will judge you. Also, sometimes, you are not you for a period of time and it gives you a sense of not belonging and not having that ego that I am some identity or something. I feel acting, or any art, takes you away from self, and sometimes brings you closer to yourself, so I think it is a very spiritual thing. I feel it is always on the move, you meet people, and you are doing different things. It is a feeling that I am not able to articulate and express, but when you feel it, you feel alive.''

I never thought actign in that light. Mostly we think actign is pretence and what we do in real life is honest and reality. But even in real life, we most of the time hide feelings, opinions and behave as per social norms, be is simple thing like dressign according to occasion even if we don't feel like. But as a character maybe actors needs to show true emotions of that character all the time as characters wont be afraid of judgign them or havign real impact once actor comes out of character.

Ye Param sach me itna mature hai?

I need to think more about these line. Thought provoking for me.

He is or rather I would say, with time, he has grown into a a person with a beautiful perspective toward everything in life.

He definitely wasn't of this kind from the beginning and I guess, that's how it usually is. We evolve with time, so has Param.

Did you grab it from IPZN related IVs that he always carries a book with himself? Not sure about SH days but he used to do that during MKRL days too. He is now into meditation and books and I would like to believe that he really ponders on his spiritual being these days.

All of it together makes him who he is today and I do look up to him because in some way or the other, I just feel connected to him.

PS: I am rambling. Like always. But I know you won't mind. Like always. 😆❤️

Originally posted by: Bucky

I was just about to mention MPM!!❤️That movie is pure love! Never gets old! And the songs uff!

Just the other night I'd been playing Ka Kalena on loop😆

What are your thoughts on ELDG?

OMG, I never thoutgh I woudl find ELDG fan here. The best show ever.

You know, even many of my guys friends/colleagues were crazy about the show. They used to discuss it. I got to know about it from them and then started watchign it. It was such an amazing show. All characters were super fun and so real. And Kuhu's kavitas🤣

Swapnil Joshi is a gem. 🥺💜

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Has anyone read New IF article on Param where he talked about acting? His answer is so deep and philosophical.

"The best part about my work is that in front of camera, you have to be more truthful than you can be in real life. You feel that for a certain period of time, you have to be so truthful and honest about what you feel, and how you want to behave because nobody will judge you. Also, sometimes, you are not you for a period of time and it gives you a sense of not belonging and not having that ego that I am some identity or something. I feel acting, or any art, takes you away from self, and sometimes brings you closer to yourself, so I think it is a very spiritual thing. I feel it is always on the move, you meet people, and you are doing different things. It is a feeling that I am not able to articulate and express, but when you feel it, you feel alive.''

I never thought actign in that light. Mostly we think actign is pretence and what we do in real life is honest and reality. But even in real life, we most of the time hide feelings, opinions and behave as per social norms, be is simple thing like dressign according to occasion even if we don't feel like. But as a character maybe actors needs to show true emotions of that character all the time as characters wont be afraid of judgign them or havign real impact once actor comes out of character.

Ye Param sach me itna mature hai?

I need to think more about these line. Thought provoking for me.

I think in this industry, introverts or people who are generally reserved find acting to be a liberating experience. Didn't Sushant also say something similar about acting?

Red: It's surprising because I've always thought this too, maybe because I'm sort of an introvert in real life. I feel that people who have trouble expressing their emotions and thoughts, or are used to compartmentalizing them find any form of art a means to be whoever they want to be in that moment and do whatever they want to do without being judged because they're 'in character' for that time being--so they could be expressing their own emotions, own pain, own happiness and nobody actually gets to know, so it doesn't make them vulnerable.


This is really deep uff.

I don't crush on actors, don't make me do this Param ya 😆

Originally posted by: rubys07

I agree! Speaking and Listening is still manageable for me but I struggle with reading and writing because it involves grammar and sometimes they don't make much sense to a non-native learner (like French, what on earth is up with La and Le? ) and then also the script.

While I don't like the use of different scripts, it's true that knowledge of the script would improve your knowledge of the language.

Somebody who purely knew Romanised hindi would be more likely to use "mai" for I, but somebody who learnt the language and the script would mostly be using "main"

Le and La are just for masculine and feminine in French na?

But that feature of assigning masculine and feminine to every item is also one found in many Indian languages (the verb changes depending on the gender of the car/train/ whatever thing is being talked about)

Param is meant for great things and he will do great things because he has that clarity about what he truly wants in and from life. ❤️ The clarity that most people lack these days! Including me. Sigh. 😆

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Has anyone read New IF article on Param where he talked about acting? His answer is so deep and philosophical.

"The best part about my work is that in front of camera, you have to be more truthful than you can be in real life. You feel that for a certain period of time, you have to be so truthful and honest about what you feel, and how you want to behave because nobody will judge you. Also, sometimes, you are not you for a period of time and it gives you a sense of not belonging and not having that ego that I am some identity or something. I feel acting, or any art, takes you away from self, and sometimes brings you closer to yourself, so I think it is a very spiritual thing. I feel it is always on the move, you meet people, and you are doing different things. It is a feeling that I am not able to articulate and express, but when you feel it, you feel alive.''

I never thought actign in that light. Mostly we think actign is pretence and what we do in real life is honest and reality. But even in real life, we most of the time hide feelings, opinions and behave as per social norms, be is simple thing like dressign according to occasion even if we don't feel like. But as a character maybe actors needs to show true emotions of that character all the time as characters wont be afraid of being judged or havign real impact once actor comes out of character.

Ye Param sach me itna mature hai?

I need to think more about these line. Thought provoking for me.

I've seen a lot of actors of saying that but really Param gave the best explanation behind the idea/thinking👍🏼

Thought-provoking indeed. To live a sham with the truest conviction. I think we get to observe it even more staunchly when actors have to act as if they're fake acting on screen.

Btw day in and day out, my respect and admiration for him only grows

P.S IF ate up my original lamba post

Originally posted by: rubys07

I have a feeling it's her who Akshita referred to as one of Param's "deewaniyan" on set in one of those resort interview segments (the one where Param said "Haan isko dekhte hi maine mummy ko phone lagaya"😆) because I remember Param responding to her saying ke his deewaniyas are all aunties, no girl. I had suspected that it was either Sarla or Ginni. Then that Rheaan engagement episode BTS where Param spills soda on him, you'll see the Ginni lady noticing that and laughing too when everyone on her table is busy with something else.

Oh Lord, I just realized this show has turned me into a jasoos this is not me uff why do I know these things even 😳😳🤣

So do we have a Parundhati ship too?😶😶😶

I too don't have crush on actors. But, Param's that answer was really crushworthy for me😆. I connected to it as soon as I read and questioned myself " Why din't I think of it before". I am also very introvert in real life and If I had chosen acting as a career I would have felt exactly like this.

Originally posted by: Ocean_of_waves

So do we have a Parundhati ship too?😶😶😶

Why chould Akshita have all the fun?😆 Let Param have multiple ships on the set.

Ek to subah ke vlog me uncle bhi mile jo Param handsome hai siliye pasand karte hai aur "jinke chaalein Param ki thik nahi lag rahi thi"😆 Uske sath bhi ship karte hai Param ko🤣