Originally posted by: Transference
Dhappa, main bhi aa Gayi! Was swinging between office, siggy making and blah blah! Now, I can gush about the episode!
Before I say anything, I need to give it to Kinshuk today for fantastically portraying the frustration of the head of the family in the Middle Ages trying to don the hat of the father figure, taking the burden of the entire family on his shoulders while dealing with the frustration of being an incapable husband.
There are too many sacrifices that Gautam has done throughout his life!
Hardik pointing out his failure to be a good husband has deepened his grievances.
I don’t understand why would Hardik not be angry? We have seen past instances where Hardik has got angry with Gautam whenever Dhara’s self-respect has been compromised. The same Hardik was as furious as Shiva when he had got to know that Dhara was humiliated by Janardhan Seth!
He had said such mean words to Gautam. It’s ironic that in the 21st century, there is still so much bias against mayke wale speaking in the matters of Sasuraal.
A woman has all the rights to be treated well at her in-laws place, and if it’s not the case, the brother has full right to voice his opinion. What’s with this obsession about Mera Ghar?
Hardik got Dhara married to Gautam without even thinking for a second about his sister! He has full right to scold Gautam!
What kind of archaic values are we teaching? It’s high time that we break the notions of patriarchy, and stop viewing everything from a singular lens.
There is absolutely nothing wrong if Hardik would want to financially help Gautam. They could take it as a loan as you would take it from a bank. And, start paying EMI’s to repay it. Making her asleep in the veranda while getting beds for other people is hilarious. 😆
Also, the best arrangement could have been all the men sleeping outside, and letting the women sleep in the rooms.

Gautam looks so much in trauma!