Originally posted by: Shristhi2002
So, I was thinking of this post since morning. So, this is my pov and let's say seeing it the character's way as a general human being. Let's just try to see it their way.
This is not a for or against post, nor defending a character post, just my views of what I felt . Kindly share your views, as this is not entitled or forced upon to follow and agree🤗❤
A BIT LONG POST.
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Okay, so today's episode in general as we all agree made literally a lot of splits in opinions, and it is unlike. Cuz, each character has left multiple opinions in majority of audience.
Cuz, seeing today's episode, Virat and Sai were one team, and Pakhi on the opposite end,but this hasn't been left with only two sides,those being one where SAIRAT can be right and other where Pakhi can be right. But here, multiple things have formed regarding the characters. So, just putting down at what I felt. Hope it resolves somethings at why a character might have been that way. Just seeing their way and emitional stuff and all. Hope I am able to do justice.
First, three things were felt the most odd or let's say formed most opinions:
1. Virat holding Pakhi's hand
2. Sai's silence
3. Pakhi being right or wrong in all
So, let's begin with
1. Virat holding Pakhi's hand
One, we all at some point, even though we love any character to moon or even the universe and back, there is some point where we feel, arre yaar, why did he do this? He/she wasn't supposed to do this. This is wrong, ethically, morally, or according to his/her character. Kya yaar? This is natural to happen. Cuz, we all have a set of things which we have understood seeking that particular character and we have an image created about them. So when we feel and Unknowingly compare those actions to that character sketch, we feel upset or we feel they are wrong. And it's natural, cuz we were never expecting that from them. But, somewhere, sorry if this point makes a bit odd feeling in you all, but we are a bit selfish as well. Cuz, at the end of the day, fictional though, they are humans. And all humans are humans cuz they have a set of emotions, set of people for whom they can risk everything for. Even their name and personality. And they are right and wrong at some point of time.
So looking at Virat's way of approach today, morally, holding a woman's hand that way and seeing how we know Virat , he was wrong. Cuz, that is not him according to us. But for a moment let's just see Virat as a human being. He was in rage. And that is why Neil himself made this point yesterday, he was not angry, he was raged. And I was stating earlier as well, rage and anger are different, yes, both make a person equally blind, both are not healthy, both make the brain clouded ,but reactions are a bit different. Anger makes a person scary, but he still sees somehow that who is he/she dealing with, but rage makes a person ferocious, he / she doesn't realise who he or she is at the receiving end, he only registers what is right and wrong once and gets into action. And it is wrong, but this happens everyday in general. I am not stating physical aspect of harm, but a person who is in rage does become hurtful to others unknowingly. That was the case, we have seen his anger earlier as well, his emotional mess, and this time the same happened. Now, let me place this in another way, not defending Virat, but seeing the most positive aspect here was for just a moment, if we forget that it was Pakhi on the receiving end or any woman in general, this was the first time Virat was a mess and raged not with Sai, but for Sai. He couldn't tolerate something or someone doing this to his wife, to a part of his heart and his life. And loved ones bring out best and worst in us. And this is what happened with Virat as well. His worst version came out for Sai's sake, and he is human, he tends to feel these. Yes ,the action was wrong, or it might seem exaggerated, but he was raged . And he is human, all humans have some good and also bad in them. All have morals, but sometimes they are kept aside as well. That is a human, he/she is pure, but doesn't mean there can't be contamination at all. Dust on pure gold is also impurity itself. Whether it has creeped inside or not.
Now, let's get to the next one...
2. Sai's silence
Why didn't Sai speak up the truth ? A question of a lifetime this has become. Was she right? Maybe morally no. Or as I again said, there is a representation of the character which is tattooed in our brains. And one such thing is, let storm come or let volcano erupt, Sai cannot lie, cuz truth means Sai, Sai means truth. And this is not something that I am stating about world, including me feels the same. Sai has a strong base of morals which literally cannot shake even though there is any thing worse. But, again, we ourselves are being judgemental here. Again, Sai also a fictional character, is a human being at the end of the day. Isn't she supposed to be a bit wrong. A bit normal. She is 20 for lord sake. She doesn't deserve this turmoil or mess. I am 19.5 myself, and the mistakes I have done are far more worse than this point, and I bet we all would have at some point. This is not a cover up for some of her actions, which sometimes even I am against. But, she is allowed to explore all set of emotions. Cuz, she is supposed to learn. Why should anyone expect that Sai should be right always. She can be wrong as well. And Sai was always protected by her aaba, she was exposed to wrong only during Jagtab track, where still she was standing with right. But here, Sai has been exposed to a lot if emotions, not just good or bad like was the case with her aaba. But, here she sees bad, she sees grey, manipulation, control, power, ego etc. And this is lot, and she is learning.
So, today seeing a point, Sai was wrong in being mum, okay right. But, did Sai deserve that injury on her head as well. That too on her birthday. No right. Yes, it was an accident, yes, this might not be intentional, but at some point, Sai, or let's say anyone in ber place would have felt, what wrong did she do that she got a injury in return? She just was expecting Pakhi to join . I told yesterday as well, I am not a fan of how Sai wanted to join Pakhi, cuz my point is clear, don't offer or force happiness to those people who are not willing to accept it even though offered. But, she is Sai, she still went and offered Pakhi to be a part of her happiness. She just expected her to join, and fairly, a human is not wrong in keeping some expectations and some hope. Right. Cuz, hope is positivity after all. So, yes accidentally as well, but Sai didn't deserve that injury for keeping some hope from Pakhi. Then Sai's mistake doesnt begin from being mum, but from keeping hope itself. So, obviously, she felt hurt emotionally with the kind of response she received from Pakhi. And every time Sai need not be the understanding one. She also feels hurt, and none of us can say that Sai stayed mum deliberately cuz she wanted to hurt Pakhi back. But, her silence somewhere also laces her hurt. Cuz, see the words, " a gift from Pakhi's end " she recited at that point. So, even in simple language, it does mean that when Sai went to invite Pakhi for her birthday, out of hope, in order to also make Pakhi a part of happiness, she recieved an injury as denial from Pakhi, a gift in return for her care. So, if we see this way, isn't it natural that Sai might have felt for a moment, that she already offered good will and happiness in the form of invite and Pakhi refused, why should she try now when obviously we all would realise that Pakhi will retort. I feel even if Sai had spoken, the output wouldn't have been much different at all. So, she opted to stay mum, why should she be always right. It's just karma that dealt with Pakhi as well. Cuz, Sai behaved like a hurt child, cuz she is at the end of the day.
And now, the mahaan....
3. Pakhi being right or wrong in all
This might sound biased a bit, or maybe I am. Dont know. But, Pakhi cannot be sympathised by me even after all this. Cuz, here's a thing, I don't blame her at all for the unintentional push. It was accident. But what happened before and after, are not at all justified.
Look, clearly somewhere she has she has stored this unknown negative emotions in her for Sai, that she is losing touch with her compassion. Yes, the way she was put here might be wrong, but there is something called behavior sometimes which matters. If she did it Unintentionally, then behave like one. She seemed in splits. I am not saying, get a kit, tend to her injuries, but she could have handled it like the situation itself. An unintentional mistake- that is the case right. Then handle like one. Unintentionally as well, she did commit a mistake right, so why not a sorry to begin with. Sorry, it was not my intention - won't this be enough. If uttering these simple words is also difficult, than how much negative emotions does she carry for that young girl. She begins quarrelling and blaming again. And how did she feel when she was at the receiving end? Horrible right. And this is what she does everyday. And as I said, not just earlier, a few moments ago as well, a human was offering her happiness, and she refuses it. Why? There are people, in real or fake, but do have concern about her. And all she cares is being selfish. Why? Move on. Or she will stay hurt and keep hurting others.
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This turned out long😆
And sorry of I sound wrong or too much at some places, but this is what I felt as human being. Easy for us to say, but they are also humans who feel.
And I somewhere feel this was there to victimise Pakhi and made our dear Sairat as bali ke bakre for this purpose, but let it be, or this will be even longer🤣
Do share your opinions. ❤️
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