I feel it’s a stupid idea - Page 5

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I beg u pardon he clearly said umeed rakhna he never said husbandly love ki umeed mat rakhna . It we understood what he meant by umeed mat rakhna.

Aisa koi rule nhi ki roommate ko aapko birthday wish karna hi hoga ya apki nataunkiyo mein aapka saath dena hi hoga .

Sai always do what she feel like without giving a damn about virat & his feelings , why can't same rule apply on virat . Why rules r different for sai & virat ?

Virat ki marzi vo nhi wish karna chahta tha nhi kiya , ye usne sai se seekha hai , vo baat alag hai sai surprise nhi shock deti hai.

@bold: He clearly said though I have given u vachans but mujhse aur koi umeed nahi rakhna. He said this to Sai on wedding day. So, it was clear to Sai and audience that Sai is not suppose to expect anything husbandly from Virat. If that is not true then please explain what kind of umeed can a groom say to a bride on the wedding day.

@italics: Rules toh kisi par bhi apply nahi hote unless it is company rules, traffic rules or laws etc. It is just basic manners that if you come to know that it is someone's birthday, you wish them. Nahi kiya toh aafat nahi aa jayegi but kardiya toh samne waale ko khushi mil jaayegi.

Anyway, ur question was why Sai expected bday wishes from Virat when she always say that Virat said umeed mat rakhna. I just replied saying bday wishes doesn't come under 'umeed mat rakhna' because the umeed which Virat hinted and the umeed which Sai understood was about the husband and wife expectations from each other.

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

I LOVEEEE THIS FORUM. The unity of the feminists in the forum is genuinely shocking to see and almost makes me speechless. The fact that a guy was planning a birthday surprise for someone and is still being bashed for it honestly comes off as a rude surprise but i am frankly disappointed i didnt see this coming considering how sai's faults are brushed under the carpet and virat's faults are scrutinised under a microscope.

Everyone saying how stupid the idea was should maybe take a broader approach and think it through virat's perspective instead of putting a personal lens to everything?

Its virat's first time celebrating a birthday with his "deal" wife and they both arent at the point in the relationship where they can know of each other's preferences and like or dislikes. So virat being stuck at a fancy party like what her aaba did for her makes sense since that is the only part he knows that she will love.

Sai expecting virat to wish her at midnight was obviously an expectation as a wife or someone "special" in his life. No one in their right mind expects to be wished by a roommate that isnt close to them to wish them at midnight on their birthday.

Regarding how virat "ignored" when sai was crying looking at her aaba's photo, we as audience had access to sai's internal monologue and knew that felt left out but for all we know virat could have simply thought that she was missing her aaba on her special day as he and aai had already mentioned in the previous episode. And what better way to make her not miss him than doing exactly what he did for sai?

And at last this is a personal choice. Everyone who is of the opinion that virat wanted to be "mahaan" by doing this for sai should very well know that he is being the villain for the three elders of the house and also his so called "lover" vahini by convincing them for sai's bday party.

Also i dont see why this is even a discussion. If sai likes what virat does then this is none of our business. Virat could have wished sai in one line with a stoic face without a gift or cake and we would still have no business calling the idea or what he did stupid if sai likes it. And if she doesnt well then virat will have to do better the next year.

Nice post 👍

Aapko sach mein lagta hai is forum pe jo hota hai vo feminism ke andar aata bhi hai I doubt feminism ye hota hai , here no one is feminist to be very true .

Originally posted by: deepzz

@bold: He clearly said though I have given u vachans but mujhse aur koi umeed nahi rakhna. He said this to Sai on wedding day. So, it was clear to Sai and audience that Sai is not suppose to expect anything husbandly from Virat. If that is not true then please explain what kind of umeed can a groom say to a bride on the wedding day.

@italics: Rules toh kisi par bhi apply nahi hote unless it is company rules, traffic rules or laws etc. It is just basic manners that if you come to know that it is someone's birthday, you wish them. Nahi kiya toh aafat nahi aa jayegi but kardiya toh samne waale ko khushi mil jaayegi.

Anyway, ur question was why Sai expected bday wishes from Virat when she always say that Virat said umeed mat rakhna. I just replied saying bday wishes doesn't come under 'umeed mat rakhna' because the umeed which Virat hinted and the umeed which Sai understood was about the husband and wife expectations from each other.

Amazing post

Bold cracked me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Nice post 👍

Aapko sach mein lagta hai is forum pe jo hota hai vo feminism ke andar aata bhi hai I doubt feminism ye hota hai , here no one is feminist to be very true .

I am glad you liked the post 😀

I wont comment on the feminists of the forum since it isnt my place to say anything but the subtle misandry is definitely disappointing and a little disturbing.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Nice post 👍

Aapko sach mein lagta hai is forum pe jo hota hai vo feminism ke andar aata bhi hai I doubt feminism ye hota hai , here no one is feminist to be very true .

Shayad, misogynists bahut sare honge phir? Muje nahi pata deva re deva. Lekin 19 year old is shamed and blamed for the abuse here. Toxic husband gets supported. She’s accused of making him act evil. Shayad misogyny hai.

Pata nahi, sabko apana apana vieww hai😌

Originally posted by: deepzz

@bold: He clearly said though I have given u vachans but mujhse aur koi umeed nahi rakhna. He said this to Sai on wedding day. So, it was clear to Sai and audience that Sai is not suppose to expect anything husbandly from Virat. If that is not true then please explain what kind of umeed can a groom say to a bride on the wedding day.

@italics: Rules toh kisi par bhi apply nahi hote unless it is company rules, traffic rules or laws etc. It is just basic manners that if you come to know that it is someone's birthday, you wish them. Nahi kiya toh aafat nahi aa jayegi but kardiya toh samne waale ko khushi mil jaayegi.

Anyway, ur question was why Sai expected bday wishes from Virat when she always say that Virat said umeed mat rakhna. I just replied saying bday wishes doesn't come under 'umeed mat rakhna' because the umeed which Virat hinted and the umeed which Sai understood was about the husband and wife expectations from each other.

Basic manners ki baat na kare to accha coz state topper sai Joshi ke tariff kiye bina mera dil nhi manega phir .😆

Let cut it short end d debate virat ne vo kiya jo vo karna chahta tha , agar usne wish nhi kiya to as u said koi aafat nhi aa gayi . Like sai is not entitled to please virat as per his wish same rule apply on sai even virat is not entitled to please sai as per her wish .

We can agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

We all know the equation between Sairat and what they feel for each other . Sai expecting from Virat to wish her is not wrong and it’s valid expectations and I loved the scene between them but since the discussion is about birthday wishes being a normal expectation then I would like to say no one expects their roommates to wish them at 12.00 sharp nor will they try reminding their roommate multiple times about their birthday. If roommates don’t wish no one will feel left out . Sai’s expectations is of a wife not of a roommate or deal wife .

@ the bday wishes expectation from a roommate depends on the bonding they share. If they are cordial then just a basic bday wish, if they are friendly with each other then cake cutting and bday bumps at 12, if they dislike each other than no wishes.

Sairat are friendly with each other. So, a bday wish at 12 can be expected.

Plus on harini's bday, Sai said even if no one does anything on her bday, Virat sir will do something special for her and for her, only that matters. Virat said, do u even have to ask it. Ofcourse, I will do it. If not me then who else is going to do it.

After knowing this, the least Sai can expect is that he remembers her bday and wish her. She is not expecting a grand gesture or a grand party from him instead just a bday wish.

Party could have been a surprise but starting the day with bday wish would have made her happy.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Basic manners ki baat na kare to accha coz state topper sai Joshi ke tariff kiye bina mera dil nhi manega phir .😆

Let cut it short end d debate virat ne vo kiya jo vo karna chahta tha , agar usne wish nhi kiya to as u said koi aafat nhi aa gayi . Like sai is not entitled to please virat as per his wish same rule apply on sai even virat is not entitled to please sai as per her wish .

We can agree to disagree.

True Virat is not entitled to please Sai but as he said he loves Sai so he is doing things for Sai willingly. Bday wish at 12 could have been one of them but koi nahi if he thought party will be more surprising than wish then it is his thought process. I genuinely hope now he don't sulk when someone else from her college wishes her. 🙏

Yep let's agree to disagree...topic has been stretched like a rubber band🙂

Originally posted by: deepzz

True Virat is not entitled to please Sai but as he said he loves Sai so he is doing things for Sai willingly. Bday wish at 12 could have been one of them but koi nahi if he thought party will be more surprising than wish then it is his thought process. I genuinely hope now he don't sulk when someone else from her college wishes her. 🙏

Yep let's agree to disagree...topic has been stretched like a rubber band🙂

I also hope sai will not rant & sulk again about virakhi after giving up on virat her wifely rights for fulfilling pakhi's dream .

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

I also hope sai will not rant & sulk again about virakhi after giving up on virat her wifely rights for fulfilling pakhi's dream .

I hope Virat won’t sulk at Sai talking normally to her friend & force her to commit suicide when he himself is having a questionable relation with his bhabhi. Who knows he will want to fullfill his bhabhis dreams