I feel it’s a stupid idea - Page 4

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Sai has ranted virat's condition many times virat said mujhe koi umeed mat rakhna , to vo kyu umeed rakh rahi Virat infact virat is not even her friend forget roommate.

When Sai rants that Virat said mujhe koi umeed mat rakhna, the context is no to have any expectations regarding a husband's love. Yeh Virat ke kehne ka matlab tha aur yahi matlab Sai ne samjha hai.

Good morning/ evening wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne...cough karte waqt water dene ki umeed nahi rakna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne.. similarly birthday par bday wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna nahi bola tha virat ne..

Regarding friends and roommate, friend manna ya na manna depends on people but room share ho raha hai toh roommates hi kehlate hai usme maana ya na maane waali baat nahi hoti hai.

You can be roommates with someone and still not be friends.

Originally posted by: deepzz

When Sai rants that Virat said mujhe koi umeed mat rakhna, the context is no to have any expectations regarding a husband's love. Yeh Virat ke kehne ka matlab tha aur yahi matlab Sai ne samjha hai.

Good morning/ evening wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne...cough karte waqt water dene ki umeed nahi rakna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne.. similarly birthday par bday wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna nahi bola tha virat ne..

Regarding friends and roommate, friend manna ya na manna depends on people but room share ho raha hai toh roommates hi kehlate hai usme maana ya na maane waali baat nahi hoti hai.

You can be roommates with someone and still not be friends.

@bold this elaboration cracked me up 😀

@blue spot on 👏

Originally posted by: deepzz

When Sai rants that Virat said mujhe koi umeed mat rakhna, the context is no to have any expectations regarding a husband's love. Yeh Virat ke kehne ka matlab tha aur yahi matlab Sai ne samjha hai.

Good morning/ evening wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne...cough karte waqt water dene ki umeed nahi rakna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne.. similarly birthday par bday wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna nahi bola tha virat ne..

Regarding friends and roommate, friend manna ya na manna depends on people but room share ho raha hai toh roommates hi kehlate hai usme maana ya na maane waali baat nahi hoti hai.

You can be roommates with someone and still not be friends.

Originally posted by: deepzz

When Sai rants that Virat said mujhe koi umeed mat rakhna, the context is no to have any expectations regarding a husband's love. Yeh Virat ke kehne ka matlab tha aur yahi matlab Sai ne samjha hai.

Good morning/ evening wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne...cough karte waqt water dene ki umeed nahi rakna aisa nahi bola tha virat ne.. similarly birthday par bday wish karne ki umeed mat rakhna nahi bola tha virat ne..

Regarding friends and roommate, friend manna ya na manna depends on people but room share ho raha hai toh roommates hi kehlate hai usme maana ya na maane waali baat nahi hoti hai.

You can be roommates with someone and still not be friends.

I beg u pardon he clearly said umeed rakhna he never said husbandly love ki umeed mat rakhna . It we understood what he meant by umeed mat rakhna.

Aisa koi rule nhi ki roommate ko aapko birthday wish karna hi hoga ya apki nataunkiyo mein aapka saath dena hi hoga .

Sai always do what she feel like without giving a damn about virat & his feelings , why can't same rule apply on virat . Why rules r different for sai & virat ?

Virat ki marzi vo nhi wish karna chahta tha nhi kiya , ye usne sai se seekha hai , vo baat alag hai sai surprise nhi shock deti hai.

Sai always do what she feel like without giving a damn about virat & his feelings , why can't same rule apply on virat . Why rules r different for sai & virat ?

😂😂😂😂😂

But he is doing it already. He is still romancing/ giving mixed signals to bhabhi cum ex. He blasts at Sai for talking normally to his friend. Why rules r different for Sai and Virat. He can be a two timer. But she can’t talk normally? Why why? Sahi baat kaha apne😂😂😂😂

Douchebag Virat won’t understand. He does everything without giving a damn about Sai like domestic violence, manhandling. Sai ne aisa jya kiya? Deva re deva

Virat ki marzi vo nhi wish karna chahta tha nhi kiya , ye usne sai se seekha hai , vo baat alag hai sai surprise nhi shock deti hai.

Kya baat kar rahi ho? Shock toh Virat dete hai. Like domestic violence, manhandling

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YALGAAR HO !!!🤣

Jokes apart, I will get back to it when I see the episode!

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

We all know the equation between Sairat and what they feel for each other . Sai expecting from Virat to wish her is not wrong and it’s valid expectations and I loved the scene between them but since the discussion is about birthday wishes being a normal expectation then I would like to say no one expects their roommates to wish them at 12.00 sharp nor will they try reminding their roommate multiple times about their birthday. If roommates don’t wish no one will feel left out . Sai’s expectations is of a wife not of a roommate or deal wife .

One expects a man who claims to love to wish her. Sai’s expectations is of wife, sahi kaha. Lekin kya kare he is behind bhabhi. Virat should decide what he want

I LOVEEEE THIS FORUM. The unity of the feminists in the forum is genuinely shocking to see and almost makes me speechless. The fact that a guy was planning a birthday surprise for someone and is still being bashed for it honestly comes off as a rude surprise but i am frankly disappointed i didnt see this coming considering how sai's faults are brushed under the carpet and virat's faults are scrutinised under a microscope.

Everyone saying how stupid the idea was should maybe take a broader approach and think it through virat's perspective instead of putting a personal lens to everything?

Its virat's first time celebrating a birthday with his "deal" wife and they both arent at the point in the relationship where they can know of each other's preferences and like or dislikes. So virat being stuck at a fancy party like what her aaba did for her makes sense since that is the only part he knows that she will love.

Sai expecting virat to wish her at midnight was obviously an expectation as a wife or someone "special" in his life. No one in their right mind expects to be wished by a roommate that isnt close to them to wish them at midnight on their birthday.

Regarding how virat "ignored" when sai was crying looking at her aaba's photo, we as audience had access to sai's internal monologue and knew that felt left out but for all we know virat could have simply thought that she was missing her aaba on her special day as he and aai had already mentioned in the previous episode. And what better way to make her not miss him than doing exactly what he did for sai?

And at last this is a personal choice. Everyone who is of the opinion that virat wanted to be "mahaan" by doing this for sai should very well know that he is being the villain for the three elders of the house and also his so called "lover" vahini by convincing them for sai's bday party.

Also i dont see why this is even a discussion. If sai likes what virat does then this is none of our business. Virat could have wished sai in one line with a stoic face without a gift or cake and we would still have no business calling the idea or what he did stupid if sai likes it. And if she doesnt well then virat will have to do better the next year.

Honestly I have not seen the episode to comment on it without any bias.. I did read Neerja's post to understand what happened with Sai..I think it would have been better if he wished her would not have let the day go by, but I think that would be fine when Sai realises what he has done for her. He has tried to make the day as special as it can get for her.. Respecting his efforts and his emotions there, its fine that we understand that when Sai realises what he has done, including the fact that he requested his ghar ke bade to attend, she would be vert happy , infact would jump in exhilaration.. However the day at college would be difficult for my dew drop. Her Virat Sir however at times is a real sweetheart, along with being Kharoos Jasoos , you see..

It was a dumb move. Had I been in her place I would have gotten angry. Its her 1st bday after aabas demise, she will be hurt. Sai was lonely. She needed a hug and a wish. Virat could have wished at 12 and did a surprise party later. Him prioritizing the party is stupid. I am appreciative of his efforts but Sai was crying holding her abbs pic. Couldn't he understand her feelings? Aise party ka fayda kya hai