Shivangi Khedkar/Pallavi AT #6 ~ Blooming In Adversity ~ - Page 59

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Okay, crazy idea.

When I have enough resources I am going to file a petition in SC to make it mandatory for the shows to put short disclaimers on air time, where different actors from the show come up and describe whatever toxic is being shown in the show is just an act, and that’s not how real life should be. 😆😆

That's a really good move from your side to create awareness among young girls---and how they just tend to blindly follow the shows

Originally posted by: ReemShah

Your major in psychology helps you understand better how these things work and how much influence it has on younger minds...and this is something which just not shown in ITV or bollywood----it's a trend in the entertainment industry--the macho or as you said alpha ML and the shy timid FL or more like submissive who will readily do anything, suffer through anything, forgive at a drop of hat ---these were the type of shows and movies in the earlier times and people liked it

good thing the producers decided to unfollow this trend and tried to create an equality between male and female but Alas...majority of the audience still loved the old concept of dominant and submissive and to maintain their show in the long run they started showing the same thing too--misogynist, abusive relationship

it's really disheartening to see young girls idolizing such type of relationship and willingly wanting to be in it--but in all this fairytale wishes of their they forget that the male they are idolizing is a completely different character in real life and all they see is a fiction

In real life, women who are married to the 'dark romantic heros' we see on TV, more often than not, end up battered or dead.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Arrey, intrusion kya 🤗 Always welcome to jump in, there are no private talks here.

I'm glad you remember that phase too. It disturbed me greatly.

It's leaps and bounds better now, there is no comparison.

And thanks a lot🤗

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yeppp I hope so too

He needs to see that Raghav won't let him be alive if he knew what all he said to pallavi 😡

Yes Raghav should know about it. How badly he talks and behaves with her😡

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

In real life, women who are married to the 'dark romantic heros' we see on TV, more often than not, end up battered or dead.

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Exactly and that's why u see most fandoms are crazy

A lot of teenage girls who are exposed to these shows and make it their life lessons and expect the same in reality .

They think way too emotionally about a lot of things and that's why it's important to be making shows which have better messages .

I dunno if anyone here has watched sasural genda phool

There suhana becomes an actress and keep crying and bearing violence in show

Seeing that her niece starts copying it at home and suhana gets shocked seeing how her show is affecting and structuring a small girl and decides to actually change what is being potrayed .

but the shows with better messages either go off air or they start following the same concept as other shows

i havent watched the show but will definitely search for it

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Same I felt so tooo ❤️

6yrs back there were hardly few people in a fandom who were okay now it's a much better place

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I swear, not making it up. That was it for me, couldn't stick around.

I saw a Raghvi FF in wattpad where Raghav sexually assaulted Pallavi. I was so shocked and irritated to see how writer made it a small issue just because Raghav regretted doing it.

I am new to IF and all. And this is the only forum I visit. So I don't have any idea about things most of you have pinpointed.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

In real life, women who are married to the 'dark romantic heros' we see on TV, more often than not, end up battered or dead.

and also not to forget that somewhere in the middle of the show the ML turns into a better person for some duration or FL changes his personality but in reality nothing of this sort happens.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

The immj example is sick! Haven’t watched it though. I guess there are so many things being shown on different shows which need accountability.

@bold: I will make myself familiar with this. Sounds awesome though 👏

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AY587oz-5Rs&t=187s