Precap and didi - Page 4

Originally posted by: tanurocks

She became his wife because imlie gave up her right. React karne ki time already finished.she went to PD and she accepted adilie also. Btw KC angle ko malini lekar ayi. Fault is with aditya not with imlie. He apologized for it. If a man doesn't want you why should a woman go after him. No man is worth a woman's self respect.

Bashing Malini character never made what aditya and imlie did to Malini right. They cheated her ruined her life. 7 years she loved him Even if imlie wanted aditya that much , why played didi didi drama with Imlie. Aditya the chepo used Malini and throw her. What he in every episode said Malini is his friend. This friend can't read what she is going through. They are selfish n Malini don't want to bitterly end her relationship. So she will not become bitter like her mother. She is in hell pain. No one can forget just in click a person loved for 7 years. She have every right to sent famous adlie in jail. That love stopped her otherwise both cheated her. Now imlie is not revealing the truth. That's why everyone thinking Malini is a bad person.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This exactly. I find it remarkable that time and again, Malini’s emotions are propped up as justified while Imlie is not allowed any human emotion. She alone must stay detached from her own husband while Malini is given free reign even to misbehave with anyone in the name of her feeling betrayed. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

Malini has lost the most? Really? Imlie is the one who has been born as an illegitimate child thanks to Malini’s father. Imlie is the one who has struggled literally every day of her life to survive, who went through a traumatic marriage, who didn’t get recognition or love for so long. Yet somehow Imlie is being labeled the fortunate one? Lol all because she is finally getting the love of her own husband? 😆

These extrapolations are the reason I can’t sympathize with Malini. This pressing need so many people seem to have to hype her as the only one who lost everything. Yes, she too has faced misfortune in this story in her own way but she is not the grand victim that everyone insists on making her. Circumstances have rendered bad fortune to all of them in turn. But Adi and Imlie have never begrudged the happiness of others. Their every thought still remains centered around not wanting anyone else to suffer at their cost. It is Malini who constantly begrudges Imlie’s happiness and makes taunts about how Imlie has gotten so much 🙄.

What has Imlie gotten? Just cuz she now has Aditya’s love - the love of her own husband, people want to make it sound like she has all the fortune in the world and they seem to resent her for that little happiness in her life too 🤷‍♀️.

This is the problem imlie lived in poverty so her pain is bigger than Malini. Malini get mother father love but never saw peace between them. Malini waited for aditya 7years. Malini who loved one person most trusted him for 7years and without thinking what young girl like imlie is doing in her matrimonial home give place and respect to her. What they both did. Cheat on her. If imlie wanted and love aditya so much. Why didn't she stopped the marriage. She knew aditya will never accept forced marriage. She made sure in every minute she will made realise aditya how good she is and aditya guilt lead him to her. Aditya who actually used Malini in every way, thrown her out of his life like garbage. Seriously these both character played with Malini character like hell. Malini was never responsible for imlie pain. But on the day of Malini wedding when imlie let Aditya get married to other women. She lost her right on him. Still she played mera pati mera Devta hai. What Malini said is right. You got what you want so please aditya and Imlie stop pretending they are good. They are selfish like hell . Who deserves to live in hell with eachother I only want they will not make Malini suffer mor.like in Bengali version even though Malini tried to move on. Again her second husband play same story with her like aditya. Than she will die in aditya arm. After giving her son to imlie and Aditya. I want in this version Malini happy and settled. I can't give respect to selfish and user character like aditya. Even for second I can make exception for imlie but Aditya is hell selfish character. He is the one who have to suffer like hell.

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Losing or gaining something in life should not dictate how you treat people around you. You cant be vile to any person just because you suffered the bigger loss than the other one. So Malini yelling at/berating Imlie whenever she feels jealous of her cannot ever be justified, even if shes suffered more loss than Imlie.

+1000. Nothing gives you the right to MISBEHAVE with people like that no matter how much you think your loss is bigger or lesser 🤷‍♀️. Infact all this does is take away whatever token dignity you could have managed.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

+1000. Nothing gives you the right to MISBEHAVE with people like that no matter how much you think your loss is bigger or lesser 🤷‍♀️. Infact all this does is take away whatever token dignity you could have managed.

Exactly! I really dont understand why it is so hard to understand! Dealing nicely with people even when you are being wronged makes you the better person. Here even when Imlie was the one whos been ill treated by fate, we have never seen her misbehave with anyone. Adi did, initially, venting his frustrations on Imlie when things didnt go his way, but again atleast he APOLOGISED for his deeds and Malini on the other hand continues her manipulation and ill treatment. She's actually turned the villain the day she started torturing Imlie with her words and actions like her mother.

She could have just left their lives and started a new one and moved on instead of doing that. Does she even know that feelings should be mutual for two people to stay married!? Who does this!? Going to your ex's place to preach on their "new" partner on how to behave and taunt them in that process. Too much to ask from a college professor!?

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Exactly! I really dont understand why it is so hard to understand! Dealing nicely with people even when you are being wronged makes you the better person. Here even when Imlie was the one whos been ill treated by fate, we have never seen her misbehave with anyone. Adi did, initially, venting his frustrations on Imlie when things didnt go his way, but again atleast he APOLOGISED for his deeds and Malini on the other hand continues her manipulation and ill treatment. She's actually turned the villain the day she started torturing Imlie with her words and actions like her mother.

She could have just left their lives and started a new one and moved on instead of doing that. Does she even know that feelings should be mutual for two people to stay married!? Who does this!? Going to your ex's place to preach on their "new" partner on how to behave and taunt them in that process. Too much to ask from a college professor!?

@bold: You’ve asked the million dollar question indeed 😆. Does Malini even understand this BASIC point that feelings need to be MUTUAL for a relationship to work? She’s rampaging around like an entitled victim conveniently sidestepping the fact that Adi-Imlie’s feelings are not only MUTUAL, they are also married first…..so why is she hanging around their lives preaching to them about their relationship that too in such a misbehaving way? 🤷‍♀️

She seems totally unable to comprehend what a genuinely mutual relationship looks like since she spent 7 years in a delusional token/formality relationship with Adi which she thinks was some grand love 🙄. What seems to fundamentally grate on her is the stark truth of the depth of the connection between Adi-Imlie…AdI is madly in love with Imlie and he didn’t even display 0.1% of this for Malini ever. She can’t accept that truth 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: You’ve asked the million dollar question indeed 😆. Does Malini even understand this BASIC point that feelings need to be MUTUAL for a relationship to work? She’s rampaging around like an entitled victim conveniently sidestepping the fact that Adi-Imlie’s feelings are not only MUTUAL, they are also married first…..so why is she hanging around their lives preaching to them about their relationship that too in such a misbehaving way? 🤷‍♀️

She seems totally unable to comprehend what a genuinely mutual relationship looks like since she spent 7 years in a delusional token/formality relationship with Adi which she thinks was some grand love 🙄. What seems to fundamentally grate on her is the stark truth of the depth of the connection between Adi-Imlie…AdI is madly in love with Imlie and he didn’t even display 0.1% of this for Malini ever. She can’t accept that truth 🤷‍♀️

If shes not gonna mend her ways, then well...God save that Kunal guy😅

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

If shes not gonna mend her ways, then well...God save that Kunal guy😅

He knows exactly what he’s signing up for if he still wants to moon after her even after knowing the whole mess of her life and seeing her obsession with Adi 🤷‍♀️😂

Some guys are just drawn to damsels in distress by default. KC seems one of those types. While Adi is genuinely drawn to strength and independence….that is why destiny ultimately drew him to Imlie. Malini just puts on the image of independence but she’s actually a damsel in distress who always wants a man to lean on 🤷‍♀️.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

He knows exactly what he’s signing up for if he still wants to moon after her even after knowing the whole mess of her life and seeing her obsession with Adi 🤷‍♀️😂

Some guys are just drawn to damsels in distress by default. KC seems one of those types. While Adi is genuinely drawn to strength and independence….that is why destiny ultimately drew him to Imlie. Malini just puts on the image of independence but she’s actually a damsel in distress who always wants a man to lean on 🤷‍♀️.

+1000 @bold!

They are both so strong, independent and righteous to a fault and that's what has attracted them towards each other despite stark visible differences between them. This reminds me of Adi's argument about life partners should be able to challenge each other and learn from each other. Their basic nature of fighting for the weak & unprivileged (compared to them in the situation) makes them similar at the core despite them being different on the surface. It's not about choosing the same shoes or shirt, but the choices you make in your life that impact others.

Ah! only if the so called "professor" could even acknowledge this...forget about understanding...it's beyond her capacity!

This serial made me laugh 😂👍👍👍👍. Iam over of it. Malini must have sent jail aditya for making her second wife. Even what aditya did is crime under so many Ipc sections. Imlie will also have serve jail term for deceiving Malini with Aditya about their marriage. But she let them go because of love . Which I find not good. She is real victim here and going through deep psychological trauma. Aditya for a minute didn't able to cope up with fact imlie left him. People expect from malini just in click she forgot 7 years of her life plus her fake marriage. Just because aditya imlie moved on we are ignoring Malini pain bashing her reactions. She lost everything litterly n she is trying but that call call out her love. Ek din mein unka pyaar khatam hota hai jo aditya ki tarah logo ko istemal karte hai. Malini is a sensitive girl

See, nobody is vouching for Adi having married Malini. He should have annulled his marriage with Imlie or come clean with Malini before doing so. (He did try, Malini fell unconscious, and she didnt probe out of her insecurities.. but thats another thing.)

The whole point is that when he realised he had never loved Malini and fell in love with his actual wife, he exposed the truth to Malini and apologised to her, expecting her to understand that they will never work out.

So what do you do learning that your marriage had been dysfunctional all this time, when your husband broke the truth about having married another girl before you? Either you walk out of their lives completely, (because people stay in marriages when they know that their love is reciprocated by their partners) or you go to court for the injustice you have faced.

But what did Malini do? She kept lying about having another affair in her life just because she cant take the rejection, kept on belittling Imlie whenever she got the chance while masquerading as her elder sister, swearing to follow her mother's path to torture Imlie just because she thought Imlie and Aditya were in love, and hard core manipulation. All out of an attempt to "earn back" Aditya's love when he clearly stated that its not possible many times!

Playing the victim card and getting away with the mean things you say and do is how villains are born. See, its your approach to life and people around you that dictates what a person you truly are. Its not the extend of suffering you had gone through. Period!