Precap and didi - Page 3

Originally posted by: S_n_t

How many times Aadi has clearly conveyed HE DOES NOT LOVE MALINI, whether it’s letting her go without a word after sindoor drama, or conveniently accepting her KC lie, literally saying ’aap hamri patni nahi hai’, agreeing for divorce in seconds (also indirect indications of him prioritising anything and everything over Malini before Imlie) what more is needed to understand that this man does not want me. what person with even a tiny little self respect would go after a man who made it absolutely clear that he does not love you.
After all of this this woman gets excited thinking he could have called her. I toh feel she knows she has feelings but needed KC’s pointing out to admit, so that she can stay mahan in her own eyes like ‘ohh really I still have feelings, mujhe toh pata hi nahi tha’😑

If writers are doing it deliberately I don’t know what they are getting out of it for story and show, but M character has reached beyond pathetic.

Oh the writers are doing it deliberately to show her character as drama. If she gets sorted then she cannot create drama in Adilie's lives is what they think. They refuse to give her any redemption qualities and she was too one toned from the beginning to warrant any kind of arc. So yes, she is supposed to be like this to pump in unnecessary drama and conflicts, coz they do not know how to manage her character in a sensible and mature fashion.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Oh the writers are doing it deliberately to show her character as drama. If she gets sorted then she cannot create drama in Adilie's lives is what they think. They refuse to give her any redemption qualities and she was too one toned from the beginning to warrant any kind of arc. So yes, she is supposed to be like this to pump in unnecessary drama and conflicts, coz they do not know how to manage her character in a sensible and mature fashion.

Hmm, that’s only to be expected from ITV. My minimum expectation is don’t disturb beauty of Aadilie, baki sab zhel lenge.

Malini is the epitome of hypocrisy..she is the combo of her parents and took worst things out of them . She was always like this and she will be like this till the end . AC is a vile woman but always said whatever she believes . No sugar coating unlike M.

She never tried to actually stop her mom whenever she insults Adi aur his family or Imlie because she too believe in that thinking of her mother. She is the princess and people around her have to make her happy only . They are her slaves only

She doesn't feel any real connection/ bahen prem with Imlie . Imlie is a naukrani for her always. Even she felt shame/ disgusted when she realized/ learned that Adi fell for Imlie ..like how can Adi fall in love with Imlie !!

Day by day M turning to pathetic . One side she is using KC and hoping Adi will return to her . Self respect to hai hi nahi isme..I feel she still thinking KC angle make Adi jealous and she might get him back.

Originally posted by: tanurocks

Didi ka problem kya hai?? How rudely she speaks to adi and imlie in precap . When she said she is leaving aditya I thought finally a dignified behavior.she is going again and bashing them as if she is still his wife and living in T house . First she says she will give right to imlie now she is taunting for the same.

Malini 🤣🤣

I just could not stop laughing the way Malini took credit of sacrificing her husband for her sister. Lol

She kept ranting that Imlie only talks. But does not leave

But on the contrary it is Imlie who has left a few times but it. Was Adi who got her back 😆

Where as Malini was or still is hanging on the last straw of hope that she will get Adi to herself 🤣

As expected the most unwanted person. Will know the truth (ANU) to blow it out of. Proportion 🤣

Good for Imlie 🤣Her entry into the tripathis household as the bahu will be with FIREWORKS 💥 from ANU 🤣

Wow, I actually cannot believe that people are mad at Malini. I am a huge Imli fan, but Malini's outburst today was totally justified. Imli has never been fully committed to staying away from Aditya, and I don't blame her for that fully, because she is young and she is married to Aditya. Despite asking him to stay with Malini, she kept that emotional connection with him, which was basically emotional cheating.

But Imli doesn't want to feel guilty about the things she has, so she wants to force Malini to be happy. That's her rationale for making Malini stay at the Tripathis'. Granted, Malini is older and more mature, so she should not have agreed. But for Imli, it is her selfishness that is at play here, and you can't justify her because she is an adult. Malini's frustration is completely justified. Imli toh baate bahut karti hain, lekin usse sab cheeze mil jaate hain. Malini was betrayed by not only Aditya, but also by her father. They both lied to her. She must feel so alone. Her outburst is so justified!

Originally posted by: pink_doughnut

Wow, I actually cannot believe that people are mad at Malini. I am a huge Imli fan, but Malini's outburst today was totally justified. Imli has never been fully committed to staying away from Aditya, and I don't blame her for that fully, because she is young and she is married to Aditya. Despite asking him to stay with Malini, she kept that emotional connection with him, which was basically emotional cheating.

But Imli doesn't want to feel guilty about the things she has, so she wants to force Malini to be happy. That's her rationale for making Malini stay at the Tripathis'. Granted, Malini is older and more mature, so she should not have agreed. But for Imli, it is her selfishness that is at play here, and you can't justify her because she is an adult. Malini's frustration is completely justified. Imli toh baate bahut karti hain, lekin usse sab cheeze mil jaate hain. Malini was betrayed by not only Aditya, but also by her father. They both lied to her. She must feel so alone. Her outburst is so justified!

Whatever Malini faced, am not telling it's fine or okay but her outburst regarding that at this point is neither justified nor relatable. Her outburst here wasn't about her Dad or Aditya. It was just jealousy and crashing of her delusional dreams here. Her outburst would have been justified at the point she came to learn the truth not now. She has had enough time to process the truth - both the truths of Imlie being Adi's first wife and her little sister. And be it at what point, Imlie should not have been the person this outburst should have been directed at. Her outburst should have been directed at Adi and Dev not at Imlie. She should have confronted her husband when she learnt the truth instead of just badmouthing the woman she called her" little sister" based on just a suspicion. She should have properly confronted both Dev and Adi.

Imlie has abided by her words. It's Adi who has stopped her. Imlie still has the guts to walk away, still has the guts to hold onto her selflessness if needed. It's Adi who has stopped her from that. That's exactly what some member in the forum had said yesterday that Adi's selfishness balances Imlie's selflessness. If somebody hasn't abided by their words, it's Malini. She claimed to love Imlie, get her the rights she deserves but has she done any of it. Has she ever tried to stop her mom except just a mom please? If Malini would have abided by her words, she wouldn't have come here like this. She should have kept her restraint, thought properly. Or just taken Nishant's hint and not gone.

Her outburst at the point is in no way related to what she received from Adi or Dev. And where is she alone? She has atleast a friend in KC with her. She has her parents. She should have opted to speak out the truth if she thought both Adi-Imlie delaying was hampering her life.

I agree with all your points. But the issue is, emotions and feelings are not rational. Just because there has been some time since she found out the truth, it does not mean that she has been able to process whatever she has been feeling. She was wrong in taking it out on Imli, but I can understand it. For example, she could not even properly rage at her dad because of his sickness, so that pent-up frustration is in her. Especially in the context of today's episode. She was brought in to make Adi eat food; she should not have come I agree, but for her to come into the room and see Imli and Adi together, obviously she felt bad. That was exacerbated by the fact that Adi said she should have understood. Like wtf Aditya, just don't say anything. And Malini had walked out. Imli had followed her saying she would leave and all, when everyone knows that was not going to work out.

And Imli, she would not have been coerced by Adi to come back to his life if a part of her did not want to. And while Imli was at the Tripathis', she asked Adi to stay with Malini, but continued to have emotionally intimate moments with him? (The chase sequence in the kitchen, the Sindoor, etc.) Imli has been unfair to Malini, because she did not permit Adi to break the pretense entirely (tho Adi should have done that) but also continued her interactions with Adi. If if it is not selfishness, what is it?

I mean Malini has not been fully faultless either. She was wrong to be angry at Imli before her suicide attempt; her suicide attempt was a form of emotional blackmail; she lying to Adi and making up a story about her extramarital affair is ridiculous, and her hiding the truth from everyone and hearing their taunts... I don't even know what to say. All three main characters have messed up royally; however, Malini has lost the most, so I feel very sorry for her.

Originally posted by: pink_doughnut

I agree with all your points. But the issue is, emotions and feelings are not rational. Just because there has been some time since she found out the truth, it does not mean that she has been able to process whatever she has been feeling. She was wrong in taking it out on Imli, but I can understand it. For example, she could not even properly rage at her dad because of his sickness, so that pent-up frustration is in her. Especially in the context of today's episode. She was brought in to make Adi eat food; she should not have come I agree, but for her to come into the room and see Imli and Adi together, obviously she felt bad. That was exacerbated by the fact that Adi said she should have understood. Like wtf Aditya, just don't say anything. And Malini had walked out. Imli had followed her saying she would leave and all, when everyone knows that was not going to work out.

And Imli, she would not have been coerced by Adi to come back to his life if a part of her did not want to. And while Imli was at the Tripathis', she asked Adi to stay with Malini, but continued to have emotionally intimate moments with him? (The chase sequence in the kitchen, the Sindoor, etc.) Imli has been unfair to Malini, because she did not permit Adi to break the pretense entirely (tho Adi should have done that) but also continued her interactions with Adi. If if it is not selfishness, what is it?

I mean Malini has not been fully faultless either. She was wrong to be angry at Imli before her suicide attempt; her suicide attempt was a form of emotional blackmail; she lying to Adi and making up a story about her extramarital affair is ridiculous, and her hiding the truth from everyone and hearing their taunts... I don't even know what to say. All three main characters have messed up royally; however, Malini has lost the most, so I feel very sorry for her.

Fine that's your opinion. I still don't agree though and that's my personal opinion entirely.

@bold 1 is the answer to @bold 2.

When Malini's emotions, her grief can be looked on in that light why not Imlie's? Emotions and feelings aren't rational - if that can justify Malini's behaviour or why she came running and why she felt bad, why not apply the same to Imlie? Imlie getting emotionally attached to Aditya isn't because she is voluntarily doing it. Connections happen and they are governed by emotions which again see no rationality. She did feel guilty about that dint she, like immediately after. Her character is expected to have all restraints, control herself each time - why? She's as human and has her low moments. If at those times she does seek his support then what's wrong? She's human, she has feelings for him, he is her husband (not considering the other wife, who's marriage is legal etc at the present moment). Yet she is expected to have everything. And terming their connection as something being unfair to Malini is very wrong according to me.

I haven't exactly been able to express what I wanted to say actually but ya hope the point is made.

Originally posted by: Ps143

Fine that's your opinion. I still don't agree though and that's my personal opinion entirely.

@bold 1 is the answer to @bold 2.

When Malini's emotions, her grief can be looked on in that light why not Imlie's? Emotions and feelings aren't rational - if that can justify Malini's behaviour or why she came running and why she felt bad, why not apply the same to Imlie? Imlie getting emotionally attached to Aditya isn't because she is voluntarily doing it. Connections happen and they are governed by emotions which again see no rationality. She did feel guilty about that dint she, like immediately after. Her character is expected to have all restraints, control herself each time - why? She's as human and has her low moments. If at those times she does seek his support then what's wrong? She's human, she has feelings for him, he is her husband (not considering the other wife, who's marriage is legal etc at the present moment). Yet she is expected to have everything. And terming their connection as something being unfair to Malini is very wrong according to me.

I haven't exactly been able to express what I wanted to say actually but ya hope the point is made.

This exactly. I find it remarkable that time and again, Malini’s emotions are propped up as justified while Imlie is not allowed any human emotion. She alone must stay detached from her own husband while Malini is given free reign even to misbehave with anyone in the name of her feeling betrayed. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️.

Malini has lost the most? Really? Imlie is the one who has been born as an illegitimate child thanks to Malini’s father. Imlie is the one who has struggled literally every day of her life to survive, who went through a traumatic marriage, who didn’t get recognition or love for so long. Yet somehow Imlie is being labeled the fortunate one? Lol all because she is finally getting the love of her own husband? 😆

These extrapolations are the reason I can’t sympathize with Malini. This pressing need so many people seem to have to hype her as the only one who lost everything. Yes, she too has faced misfortune in this story in her own way but she is not the grand victim that everyone insists on making her. Circumstances have rendered bad fortune to all of them in turn. But Adi and Imlie have never begrudged the happiness of others. Their every thought still remains centered around not wanting anyone else to suffer at their cost. It is Malini who constantly begrudges Imlie’s happiness and makes taunts about how Imlie has gotten so much 🙄.

What has Imlie gotten? Just cuz she now has Aditya’s love - the love of her own husband, people want to make it sound like she has all the fortune in the world and they seem to resent her for that little happiness in her life too 🤷‍♀️.

Losing or gaining something in life should not dictate how you treat people around you. You cant be vile to any person just because you suffered the bigger loss than the other one. So Malini yelling at/berating Imlie whenever she feels jealous of her cannot ever be justified, even if shes suffered more loss than Imlie.