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Posted: 4 years ago
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I really really disliked this dailogue. It's not what an empowered, progressive Bondita would say.


Sumati was putting medicine on Bond's back where she got her by Anirudh. Sumati said the hands which once protected you have given you this wound.

Bondita responds this isn't a wound, it's the first time he claimed stake on her, put his name on her, marked her.

It was SUCH a stupid dialogue. The concept of being called dibs on, or just being marked is misogynistic and more so in the context where Bondita mentioned it.

I agree I had been waiting for this grown up Bondita track but that doesn't mean writers will forget every sensibility while showing a love story.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I have to disagree regarding the love story.


I don't see any love story yet. We need to remember this is the man who protected her, saved her, educated her, took care of her sacrificing his entire life for her... he was her parent, her family, her best friend, her everything as she grew up.

He gave her the freedom to be educated and the tools to fight injustice in those times.


He is the only truth she knew in her life so far so it isn't surprising she reacted in that manner.


Yes, I do agree the dialogue could have been different. It sounds wrong for people who don't know the history and in the normal sense as well. She didn't need to say he marked his name on her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Rinnie.

I have to disagree regarding the love story.


I don't see any love story yet. We need to remember this is the man who protected her, saved her, educated her, took care of her sacrificing his entire life for her... he was her parent, her family, her best friend, her everything as she grew up.

He gave her the freedom to be educated and the tools to fight injustice in those times.


He is the only truth she knew in her life so far so it isn't surprising she reacted in that manner.


Yes, I do agree the dialogue could have been different. It sounds wrong for people who don't know the history.


Arre I know they are not showing love story yet but they are building on it. The "rishta" that everyone keeps alluding it isn't just friendship and obviously would develop more once the show progresses and I am actually waiting for that track it would be really interesting.


But this dialogue just was awful. They should've worded it better. Rest I'm loving this post leap story.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80


Arre I know they are not showing love story yet but they are building on it. The "rishta" that everyone keeps alluding it isn't just friendship and obviously would develop more once the show progresses and I am actually waiting for that track it would be really interesting.


But this dialogue just was awful. They should've worded it better. Rest I'm loving this post leap story.


Nahi, I agree about the dialogue. It is wrong even in normal sense. Pata nahi kya fukhey likha hai inhone.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Rinnie.


Nahi, I agree about the dialogue. It is wrong even in normal sense. Pata nahi kya fukhey likha hai inhone.


Same, I wish they worded it better so that it showed Anidita's connection. Something like, Sakha babu cannot hurt me etc would've been much better

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80

I really really disliked this dailogue. It's not what an empowered, progressive Bondita would say.


Sumati was putting medicine on Bond's back where she got her by Anirudh. Sumati said the hands which once protected you have given you this wound.

Bondita responds this isn't a wound, it's the first time he claimed stake on her, put his name on her, marked her.

It was SUCH a stupid dialogue. The concept of being called dibs on, or just being marked is misogynistic and more so in the context where Bondita mentioned it.

I agree I had been waiting for this grown up Bondita track but that doesn't mean writers will forget every sensibility while showing a love story.

And to be honest for showing love story and movie dilaogues they are forgetting bon was never like this -they are showing ani is hurting her and she is taking it they are making her mad in love when she is not in love also

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Rinnie.

I have to disagree regarding the love story.


I don't see any love story yet. We need to remember this is the man who protected her, saved her, educated her, took care of her sacrificing his entire life for her... he was her parent, her family, her best friend, her everything as she grew up.

He gave her the freedom to be educated and the tools to fight injustice in those times.


He is the only truth she knew in her life so far so it isn't surprising she reacted in that manner.


Yes, I do agree the dialogue could have been different. It sounds wrong for people who don't know the history and in the normal sense as well. She didn't need to say he marked his name on her.

The Diablo hue and even her emotional dilaogues to ani and all her meetings and even in precap her lying on swing remembering his Harshil words are not what I expected from Bondita

Both are behaving both have relationship for each other

Ani does not even care for bon it is proved but still she wants to meet him ,fulfil love ,doing everything without thinking of self respect and the preleap connection all is lost

See precap it is very hurtful as of koi film chal rahi hai

Bon has to try to get ani talk to her ,bon is trying every kosish and that guy does not care

It feels they are showing a movie - bon has become mad in love

Thai is not what I wanted Altus

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Guneet80


Same, I wish they worded it better so that it showed Anidita's connection. Something like, Sakha babu cannot hurt me etc would've been much better


Exactly!

They could have said something better. Yeh dramatic banane ke chakkar me kuch bhi likh diya.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Katy4566

The Diablo hue and even her emotional dilaogues to ani and all her meetings and even in precap her lying on swing remembering his Harshil words are not what I expected from Bondita

Both are behaving both have relationship for each other

Ani does not even care for bon it is proved but still she wants to meet him ,fulfil love ,doing everything without thinking of self respect and the preleap connection all is lost

See precap it is very hurtful as of koi film chal rahi hai

Bon has to try to get ani talk to her ,bon is trying every kosish and that guy does not care

It feels they are showing a movie - bon has become mad in love

Thai is not what I wanted Altus


Self respect? I don't think she has done anything that bad that she lost her self respect. Abhi tak its just between them. She wants answers, that's all.


Again, I'll say the same thing, he is her family, her world, her bhagwan, her everything. If tomorrow Sumati behaves like Ani, she would run after her too in the same way.

Her world knows no other truth than Anirudh and Sumati.

It's very similar to how we would chase after our parents if they are angry with us. Self respect, pride, ego kuch ata nahi iske samne because they are the ones who gave us this life.

So for that reason, we will try our hardest.

Again,, everyone has their limit.. abhi tak Bondita ka limit aya nahi hai.


Also, just listen to Rishta tera mera... those lyrics define their relationship.

Edited by .Rinnie. - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Katy4566

The Diablo hue and even her emotional dilaogues to ani and all her meetings and even in precap her lying on swing remembering his Harshil words are not what I expected from Bondita

Both are behaving both have relationship for each other

Ani does not even care for bon it is proved but still she wants to meet him ,fulfil love ,doing everything without thinking of self respect and the preleap connection all is lost

See precap it is very hurtful as of koi film chal rahi hai

Bon has to try to get ani talk to her ,bon is trying every kosish and that guy does not care

It feels they are showing a movie - bon has become mad in love

Thai is not what I wanted Altus


Exactly, I expected a Bondita who would come back and her prime motive to be fulfilling the promise she made to her mother before leaving : to fight for women like sumati and their rights. While the longing to see or talk to Ani would be there but that'll be in the background not so in-your-face.

Frankly the grown up Bondita feels like her childhood self shown on redbull 😆

For her now, barrister is only a degree while her prime motive is Ani which is so unjust to the story as well as the characters. The story completely went downhill after thaku ma track.

I mean grown up Bondita is behaving quite so weird, like only dimension is being obsessed with Ani which is beyond disappointing.

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