Delusions ke mahal jab toote hai. DT Note page 15 - Page 6

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Posted: 4 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

Didi ne Pagdandiya beech mai aane ke liye roya dha.🤣 I can't get over that till now.😆

Apne hisab se rang badalti girgit. Tabhi she wanted to show herself to be more mahaan than Imlie by saying she will give her the rights she never got and then conveniently forgot. Then Meethi ko dekhkar yaad aaya, aur muh chupa ke bhaag gayi. Ab she has the gall to tell Imlie that bhagna is not a solution. Matlab kisi ek baat par bhi has she ever stuck one. One?


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Posted: 4 years ago
#52

There is a way to look at every situation in life. Malini never cheated Aditya she got cheated. One can't overnight forget a person. No matter how hard she tries to show imli and ADI she moved on with KC. Her hurt surfaces because healing takes time.

What's this ? Her inner venom spiwed on imli .... what this ? Imli ADI fans always to look it in such way.


Malini is so brave that she didn't want to make things difficult for adi imli so narrated fake story but deep down she loves ADI. It's like the broken dream. She and ADI fell in love fought against families got married and then suddenly he felt that was nothing. So no matter how she explains herself imli ADI are together deep she wishes her for adi and that is bound to happen till she heals herself.


Imli always saying I can't do this with Malini while she used to stay in same house imagining ADI being intimate with her. She could have stayed at hostel but she comes here stays under same roof and say Malini didi Ka Ka hui ....


If one can understand imli s emotions then it's not difficult to understand other characters.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#53

Or probably are regular viewers of the show... even closet enjoy watching it... Par dont want to go against popular opinion!

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Posted: 4 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: _Seera_

I liked the way Aditya told her.. mom doesn’t know.. u know why did u come .. I was like SAVAGE!!! 🤪

pata nahi bhayee konsa paani pite hai.. sab delusional hai.. Tripathi’s apni jagah pe.. Malini apni jagah pe.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@bold exactly my feelings, I was like ab toh samjh ja.


T’s have selective filters in their brains and ears too for today’s drama, she was shouting but none bothered.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shiner

There is a way to look at every situation in life. Malini never cheated Aditya she got cheated. One can't overnight forget a person. No matter how hard she tries to show imli and ADI she moved on with KC. Her hurt surfaces because healing takes time.

What's this ? Her inner venom spiwed on imli .... what this ? Imli ADI fans always to look it in such way.


Malini is so brave that she didn't want to make things difficult for adi imli so narrated fake story but deep down she loves ADI. It's like the broken dream. She and ADI fell in love fought against families got married and then suddenly he felt that was nothing. So no matter how she explains herself imli ADI are together deep she wishes her for adi and that is bound to happen till she heals herself.


Imli always saying I can't do this with Malini while she used to stay in same house imagining ADI being intimate with her. She could have stayed at hostel but she comes here stays under same roof and say Malini didi Ka Ka hui ....


If one can understand imli s emotions then it's not difficult to understand other characters.

Aadi never fell in love with her and not even she ! They always say it as friendship .She has now started cheating her soon to be ex husband as well and her own sister .She cried buckets to give back haq to her behen in Pd but can't even disclose her identity to Mithi and escaped the unwanted situation like a coward.Can't she face the situation and disclose her real identity? She called Imlie as 'mistress' and Aadi having ema but technically she is doing it .She is hugging that man and crying whenever she is getting rejected just for convenience's sake . She didn't sacrifice anything, she had to leave her husband because he wanted it.She is jealous ,that's it.She is delusional as well .She is a real Anu2.0 version with some reformulation.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Shiner

There is a way to look at every situation in life. Malini never cheated Aditya she got cheated. One can't overnight forget a person. No matter how hard she tries to show imli and ADI she moved on with KC. Her hurt surfaces because healing takes time.

What's this ? Her inner venom spiwed on imli .... what this ? Imli ADI fans always to look it in such way.


Malini is so brave that she didn't want to make things difficult for adi imli so narrated fake story but deep down she loves ADI. It's like the broken dream. She and ADI fell in love fought against families got married and then suddenly he felt that was nothing. So no matter how she explains herself imli ADI are together deep she wishes her for adi and that is bound to happen till she heals herself.


Imli always saying I can't do this with Malini while she used to stay in same house imagining ADI being intimate with her. She could have stayed at hostel but she comes here stays under same roof and say Malini didi Ka Ka hui ....


If one can understand imli s emotions then it's not difficult to understand other characters.


I totally agree to your point. That there are different perspectives to one situation.

Here is what I base mine on.

Malini and Aditya were in a "relationship" and i will use quote-unquote for the simple reason that Aditya always says Malini was his best friend and he does not understand the concept of love.

Malini was in love with Aditya. The marriage should not have happened, but happened nonetheless. It was Aditya's fault. No two opinions there. But why did he get married? Malini was told the truth by Aditya and ended up fainting. Was there a cross-check/digging deeper which happened from Malini? No. It did not.

I think it was that she was so in love with him that she fears losing him. Same like how Adi feels about Imlie now. How can we find fault with Malini's feelings if we cannot find fault with Aditya's?

But then, take a step back. Did Aditya scream/rant/misbehave/behave rudely with anybody at all? other than Imlie that is?

Even with Malini, it was more a reaction to the situation when they had their fights during the sindoor drama etc.

Baaki ke waqt, he kept to himself, turned silent. Even with Imlie...

Now Malini in her feeling of loss, is taking it all out on Imlie, without realising the illogicalness of the whole thing, as well as the innocence of Imlie into account.


Let us break it down even further:

- Malini alludes that she left Aditya and also fought with her dad for Imlie - the way she says this is "I did so much for you... what are you doing instead?" - How was Imlie to know that Malini fought with her dad and what for? Kisine usko bataya? Also, Aditya ne Malini ko choda... sahi galat abhi nahi baat karte hain... par usko twist karke apna ego satisfy karna hain... karo... yeh human reaction hain.

- Tum delhi se door chali kyun nahi jaati? - Why should Imlie go anywhere at all? and who is Malini to say this? We can use the same argument Malini did during the Sindoor drama and say "Hum ek waqt pe behan the... " behan ho, to behan ki bhalayi ke baare main socho na?

- Imlie coming to stay at the Tripathi's. Why did she come down? She refused Aditya in the bus station. As also Badke kaka. In fact, she refused to listen to badke kaka. Aditya followed her to the hostel and threatened literally to leave his family and come stay with her wherever she is. That made her think of Malini, hence she agreed to come back, with a caveat that Malini should be taken care of.


Iss sab main, kahin pe bhi mujhe Imlie ki galati nahi dikhti. haan.. Malini ko waqt lagega ... bhulne main... par woh khud ke liye hi mushkilen paida kar rahi hain. She needs to make a clean break. Without this, nothing is possible.


Aditya ka ek sawal aaj ka kaafi tha... "Gharwale nahi jaante ki Imlie hamari patni hain... aap to jaanti hain na... aapko samajhna chahiye tha"

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Posted: 4 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: Shiner

There is a way to look at every situation in life. Malini never cheated Aditya she got cheated. One can't overnight forget a person. No matter how hard she tries to show imli and ADI she moved on with KC. Her hurt surfaces because healing takes time.

What's this ? Her inner venom spiwed on imli .... what this ? Imli ADI fans always to look it in such way.


Malini is so brave that she didn't want to make things difficult for adi imli so narrated fake story but deep down she loves ADI. It's like the broken dream. She and ADI fell in love fought against families got married and then suddenly he felt that was nothing. So no matter how she explains herself imli ADI are together deep she wishes her for adi and that is bound to happen till she heals herself.


Imli always saying I can't do this with Malini while she used to stay in same house imagining ADI being intimate with her. She could have stayed at hostel but she comes here stays under same roof and say Malini didi Ka Ka hui ....


If one can understand imli s emotions then it's not difficult to understand other characters.

My issue with Malini's character has always been that she refuses to take a stand for herself. If she is hurting, acknowledge it and take the required help for it. Accept that you still love him and confront him and accept whatever answer you get. If she is to heal herself, she needs distance. But rather she allows herself to be a part of an environment which only builds into her delusions rather than solve it. If I am to respect her as a character, she has to do actions to earn that respect, which she has not. I will give you one example.

Few days back she went all the way to PD to find the truth about her father, berated an innocent woman to tell her the truth under the pretext of a lie, promised that woman that she will get her daughter justice, came back to Delhi saying that she will get her sister her father's name and after her father got an attack, completely stepped back. That would have still been digestible if she had actually done something about it once her father became better and wanted to himself tell the truth. Then also she did not bother for it. During the wedding, she ran away from the T house without informing anyone because she was scared to face Meethi, because then Meethi will come to know that she lied to get Imlie's father's name.

Today when Imlie tells her that she is her sister, rather than be happy about it, she berates her and tries to jatao the favours she apparently did for Imlie by "sharing her father" & "leaving her husband". First of, Imlie has not asked for Dev to be her father, in fact she refuses to even acknowledge him as her father, so no sharing there (AC told her what Imlie said, so she was in no MU that Imlie has accepted Dev). As for leaving her husband, well even in today's episode she has not "left" him and still has feelings for him, so don't know where that statement makes sense either.

The above mentioned is just one example related to today's episode. Her entire rant today was so hypocritical that I can go on for pages. She barged into Adi's room w/o knocking, despite knowing that she no longer lives there. Even if he is sick & alone, he would have atleast called out for her to enter. This is the same woman who had berated Imlie saying that she should learn to have manners and knock before entering a closed room.

I again say, Malini is flawed, I understand. Each of the 3 characters are flawed. That is the whole USP of the story. My problem with her character is that she refuses to pick a side an own it. She is not sweet, neither does she want to accept that she is like her mother. She just wants to coast along and flip whenever it suits her which makes it very difficult as a viewer to root for her in any way.

I am not going to give you any rebuttal on the Imlie bit, coz your statement is absurd. Imlie was at a hostel and came back because Adi threatened that he will move in if she does not come with him. She left for PD when she thought that he had moved on with Malini. So Imlie has always been clear with her stance. She genuinely wants to come out of this mess without hurting anyone. But that is not possible and today she saw the consequences of her actions through Adi & Malini's reactions. So Imlie is also flawed. The issue is her stance is clear, while Malini refuses to do so.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: abhita

Or probably are regular viewers of the show... even closet enjoy watching it... Par dont want to go against popular opinion!

Ho bhi sakta hai. I did not think of it in that way😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: S_n_t

@bold exactly my feelings, I was like ab toh samjh ja.


T’s have selective filters in their brains and ears too for today’s drama, she was shouting but none bothered.

Humare T family ko ghar mein aise cheezein sunayi nahi deti. Sirf jab Imlie ko "I Love You" bolna hota hai ya Adi Imlie ko propose kare, tabhi pairs mein nahi toh pack mein dhamakna padhta hai.

Waise word on Adi's savage comeback. Zor ka jhatka kya dheere se mara humare BS ne😆.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I’m still not able to comprehend , Adi just gave her a lecture and then she goes and talks to Malini … tht I cannot do all this …wht was she expecting out of Malini on tht statement …

Malini also was provoking her that she should leave and she can only talk … and then how mahaan she is that she broke her marriage and fought with her dad so much that he landed in hospital 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m like she broke her marriage for Imlie ? On one call from Apu she came running to Adi .. where is Imlie in it? She had left the house well before she knew they were sisters …and Imlie is also in delusion tht Malini left so that Imlie can live happy with her husband … which is not true



All I can say is “C” dna is delusional..


I loved Adi’s role today … I just hope Amma doesn’t give her any advice and doesn’t support her in her Malini’s life settlement …


Edited by Dreamer007 - 4 years ago

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