Writers in delusion about NAYI SOCH - Page 3

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Star Plus' nayi soch means,

1. Women should have a career only after fulfilling their "real" responsibilities which is housework

2. If your husband cheats, don't report him to law, instead, set an example by uniting him with his mistress.

3. Elders can be hella mentally abusive but should be tolerated because they are elders.

4. Support your bahu, but not by compromising on your son's comfort. Applies to Vanraj as well as Paritosh.

5. If you hire a maid, you are proving yourself to be spoilt, inefficient and not-a-good-wife

Couldn't agree more.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

All Baa had to do was wait till Kinjal's work-pressure reduced so that she could get better at learning cooking, or get a maid hired.

Comparing Anupamaa's cooking to Kinjal's is downright stupid. And why exactly is Anupamaa comparing Leela's scolding with a boss' scolding?

Someone please educate her that the boss can be sued for unlawful harrasment of an employee. Bosses can no longer treat employees, especially female, as their personal punching bag, to vent frustrations even if the employee is not at fault, atleast in reputed companies.

And the way employees tolerate a scolding many times to avoid escalations, but also crack when the pressure is too much to bear, the exact same way Kinjal did.

She tolerated it till Leela didn't stop cribbing even when Kinjal informed her that she was on a work call.

Moreover why cooking is limited to only daughter in law of house why not the sons.

Why not teach your son and grandson to learn some cooking or prefect cooking like Anupama does.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

So true ...

I am one.those argumentative peeps.

I have done so many epic arguments ..some of them successful some of them not so. My idea of the argument is atleast listen to my side, if you decide not to act upon it it's fine.

If I take any decision it is usually backed by facts and list of pros and cons . My grandma used to often say sarcastically say I can argue my way out of a situation and sometimes the other person will just give up because they cannot continue to argue with me

In arguemets I am usually calm cold and logical even when I am super angry.

It usually takes a lot to push me to go below the belt

I rarely get back and taunts unless that person has pushed to to a point where I have to push back to survive

@bold : same here. If I take any decision, it is usually backed on facts, pros and cons.

In my maayka, my grandmother is too much stubborn when it comes to following menstruation rules. My mother and aunt always followed such rules of my grandmother.

Fortunately, in my sasural nobody believes or follows menstruation rules and all.

At the age of around 15-16, I started to oppose such customs in the house and we had some serious arguments whenever i had visited to my home from hostel because I can’t buy the line “ Bade jo bole woh sahi, bade jo kare woh sahi”.

Sometimes oldies are so stubborn with their ideology that they can easily insult us in front of everyone even though their knowledge is based on superstition and false religious facts.

That is the main reason I believe in give respect and take respect because Indian society is full of hypocrisy where respect is only belongs to elders. If you put your point calmly across then also we have to listen, how can you do argument with elder?? Sometimes tone is just useless excuse to shut younger’s mouth and divert entire matter in the direction of elders and their respect.

Even my nanima was very particular about menstruation rules which finally my mama convinced her with help of her bro finally when I was 16 due to my arguments. My dadaji was very particular that such things will not happen in his house and was very particular. One small thing though was there we were excused from heavy chores if we feel tired during those days.

So yea sometimes arguments help🙈..