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Originally posted by: kooki07

not only the action of the thieves also how she behaves with Shiva is it justified and why no one could see how mami willingly shows him the kansan and try to provoke him ,she did the same yesterday again why the everyone from the family except Suman tries to turn the blind eye on that and the danda pair was ready to beat him and insult him infront of those people who already hate him even his wife how is she going to respect him and mr Ddev had forgotten every thing what he had done ,he was the one who left Ravi in the mandap ?i think it is right time that Suman have to take the charge of the things .

Yeah. The behavior of the Pandyas towards maami is problematic. They just turn a blind eye to whatever she does. Unfortunately she's an ITV vamp so there's nothing we can do about it 😆

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I have a completely tangential take on this. I feel this issue could have been taken by Suman instead is Shiva.

Let’s keep all the blame game aside. Suman gave her brother the Kangans, not as a gift, but as a sort of loan to get duplicates made. The situations changed and a whole lot of mess happened in between, so the kangan was mostly forgotten.

Now Shiva has brought it up. And as mentioned in the above posts, Suman also feels for the kangans. Why has it become Shiva’s fight and obsession? Why is Suman even keeping quiet. Maami has time and again pointed out to Shiva that “when you mom has no issue with it, why are you asking?”.

Ok so now let’s go into hypotheticals. If I was in Suman’s place, I would have told Shiva to stand down “I love you for never giving up this, I understand your pain, but these are my Kangans, so I want you to step back and let me deal with this.”

I would have then called Maama and questioned him- “I gave you the Kangans with the understanding that you will give it back to me. It is now your responsibility to return it to me. I give you an hours time to convince Prafulla and return it to me. This issue can be put to rest completely from here on.

If you do not return it to me, I will resort to putting a civil case on you. I can prove the Kangans are mine(*assuming she has some receipts since Darsana had it made for her). We can settle this matter in court. Even if I lose money, I am willing to fight it out, because this is now affecting my son and his married life. You figure out if you really have money to spare for fighting with me in court. Also, if we go the court way, then we cannot have our relation back. This is the end of it. So discuss with your wife and figure out what you want.”

This in my mind would be the best way to resolve the Kangan kaand. Whole Shiva’s feelings and intentions are noble and pure, I simply feel this is not his battle to fight 🤷‍♀️

Well said! They should involve the police and settle this court. But unfortunately, suman doesn't want to publicize this matter, and the reason she hasn't been asking her brother for it is apparently coz she doesn't want to strain her relationship with him, which is so ridiculous 🤪

So such a logical resolution of things can't be expected from PS 😆

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I have a completely tangential take on this. I feel this issue could have been taken by Suman instead is Shiva.

Let’s keep all the blame game aside. Suman gave her brother the Kangans, not as a gift, but as a sort of loan to get duplicates made. The situations changed and a whole lot of mess happened in between, so the kangan was mostly forgotten.

Now Shiva has brought it up. And as mentioned in the above posts, Suman also feels for the kangans. Why has it become Shiva’s fight and obsession? Why is Suman even keeping quiet. Maami has time and again pointed out to Shiva that “when you mom has no issue with it, why are you asking?”.

Ok so now let’s go into hypotheticals. If I was in Suman’s place, I would have told Shiva to stand down “I love you for never giving up this, I understand your pain, but these are my Kangans, so I want you to step back and let me deal with this.”

I would have then called Maama and questioned him- “I gave you the Kangans with the understanding that you will give it back to me. It is now your responsibility to return it to me. I give you an hours time to convince Prafulla and return it to me. This issue can be put to rest completely from here on.

If you do not return it to me, I will resort to putting a civil case on you. I can prove the Kangans are mine(*assuming she has some receipts since Darsana had it made for her). We can settle this matter in court. Even if I lose money, I am willing to fight it out, because this is now affecting my son and his married life. You figure out if you really have money to spare for fighting with me in court. Also, if we go the court way, then we cannot have our relation back. This is the end of it. So discuss with your wife and figure out what you want.”

This in my mind would be the best way to resolve the Kangan kaand. Whole Shiva’s feelings and intentions are noble and pure, I simply feel this is not his battle to fight 🤷‍♀️

@bold: This would have been the most logical solution indeed. But ITV and it's stupid idea of not involving police and lawyers for saving the family's grace rather some mahaan inmate of the house becoming one is something the real world will never get.

And yes Suman sitting quietly through the entire fiasco was unexpected even after knowing how hot-headed Shiva is and the extent to which he can go.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

I have a completely tangential take on this. I feel this issue could have been taken by Suman instead is Shiva.

Let’s keep all the blame game aside. Suman gave her brother the Kangans, not as a gift, but as a sort of loan to get duplicates made. The situations changed and a whole lot of mess happened in between, so the kangan was mostly forgotten.

Now Shiva has brought it up. And as mentioned in the above posts, Suman also feels for the kangans. Why has it become Shiva’s fight and obsession? Why is Suman even keeping quiet. Maami has time and again pointed out to Shiva that “when you mom has no issue with it, why are you asking?”.

Ok so now let’s go into hypotheticals. If I was in Suman’s place, I would have told Shiva to stand down “I love you for never giving up this, I understand your pain, but these are my Kangans, so I want you to step back and let me deal with this.”

I would have then called Maama and questioned him- “I gave you the Kangans with the understanding that you will give it back to me. It is now your responsibility to return it to me. I give you an hours time to convince Prafulla and return it to me. This issue can be put to rest completely from here on.

If you do not return it to me, I will resort to putting a civil case on you. I can prove the Kangans are mine(*assuming she has some receipts since Darsana had it made for her). We can settle this matter in court. Even if I lose money, I am willing to fight it out, because this is now affecting my son and his married life. You figure out if you really have money to spare for fighting with me in court. Also, if we go the court way, then we cannot have our relation back. This is the end of it. So discuss with your wife and figure out what you want.”

This in my mind would be the best way to resolve the Kangan kaand. Whole Shiva’s feelings and intentions are noble and pure, I simply feel this is not his battle to fight 🤷‍♀️

That's the most logical, sensible solution of this problem.

But Pandya family, and CVs, both have time and again proven, ki unme itni soojh-boojh nahi hai 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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