Originally posted by: milkcakejamun
Dev is such an interesting and unique character. He's shown to be "soft" and "caring" to Raavi, but he seems to forget the importance of apologies. I know he can do it. He apologized to Rishita very quickly... but with Raavi... he is still waiting.
I wonder if he grew up noticing the unspoken barrier between him and Raavi (caused by Shiva). Perhaps he knew nothing good can come of their interactions, especially if Shiva was around, or perhaps he didn't want to get close to someone Shiva hated, but tried to be as diplomatic as possible--hence the "soft" and "caring" attitude towards her.
Interesting take! I think Dev, in his heart, knows that he has wronged Raavi, and many times, Shiva has taken him on a guilt trip too.
Maybe, currently, he is in an awkward state as Raavi was about to share with him had not Rishita happened was a relationship which is a sexual, emotional and societal bond.
It can be too much for a man to handle, knowing that now the same woman is his brother's wife and his brother knows what his wife must have felt for Dev at one point in time. It's highly complicated as an emotion. Very similar to what Shiva must have felt looking at that gift.
Of course, PS universe won't explore that as you know , Dev is wiped out of Raavi’s memory