Dusri aurat and delusions

No seriously ! This is a serious question...

Why do all didiyan/dusri aurats of SP as of now but generally too the parallel leads always have the delusions that they are the only thing in the show and only they matter ? Only their characters are progressing and unke bina dunia ka kaam ruk jaayega..

And let me clarify here this is not a bashing topic but simply out of curiosity as I keep seeing these days on main page how only the dusri aurats are being featured and are on PR exercise high and then they all think that they deserve Oscar's for their performances ..( no I am not making this shit up if you do look over the articles you will know)

Why is it so hard for these people to accept their flaws? Literally all these women are under some sort of delusion ke inke bina shows band ho jaayenge and yeh koi maseehahs hain of some sorts when they are such disgraceful dharti pe.bhoj characters I In their shows. Opposite of anything progressive Kahin rotiyan kaun banayega pe laadai.. kahin sari and pendant pe ladaai, kahin main akeli bechaari dukhon ki maari na maayka na sasural wali "sensible" auratein... etc.. again not making this stuff up.. .. it is extremely hilarious to see these "progressive jananiyan" spew stuff like am progressive caz I wear western clothes so am not backwards and my sasural allows me too.. uhhh and clearly you don't seee the problem here right"allows" and then kapdon se kaun progressive aur regressive hota hai..? 🤪

Ya the fact ke am progressive caz I work and do ghar ka kaam ahh 90% of working women do that and don't have luxuries of having someone cover for them and they have to do it all alone aaj se nahi hamesha se.. I am sure we have seen it with our mothers too they have also raised us alongside too 🤷‍♀️ how does progressiveness relate to it? If anything it just shows how actually the regressive practices are common even now in ways we don't actually realize caz it is so ingrained now ke aurat hi kaam karegi so even if we seee that we don't point it out ke apna kaam khud karo sab.. 🤷‍♀️ .it is the social conditioning and patriarchy in many way but why does that gets hailed as progressive when it is the expectation.. I guess progressive would be I work and we share the burden but nope.. yeh didiyon ko lagta hai ke bas fancy Dress is progress.

Aur if they get one heavy rone done wale scenes yeh khud bhaith ke essays likhne lagte hai apni performances pe 🤣 I find that the funniest and desperate ke attention maang rahe hain bheek main.. if you are good people will appreciate and tell you but yeh khud apni tareefein karti hain and always seeking for validation ke humko bolte raho agar hum saans bhi lein toh progressive hai

How is a woman who is clinging to her ex husband who actually doesn't even happen to be husband in first place seeking attention being a fraud and liar and wanting only and only pandering and hail didi ke naare progressive? A woman who can't even break free on her own and do the tinniest bit for herself despite being hailed as the most"sensible" and mature progressive. She needs either adi, her dad and now kc too...but most of all adi as her 24x7 caregiver...this is a woman who is healthy who has resources but she cannot even manage a room on her own ...uhhhh she is not at all helpless even if she left in hurry ... there have been worse situations for imlie and she has managed on her own despite being so young and totally helpless on her own without needing any man to come to her rescue.. least of all Aditya.. if he did reach there it had been out of coincidence only otherwise she has handled har kuch alone from human traffickers gunde mawaali to fraud riksha drivers and lootere in sabzi mandi or finding her accommodation tak on her own.. traveled on her own bina money.. now let's not forget ke yes imlie has monetary issues too or well thay unlike this lady who earns her own money but can't do a thing on her own heck apni ek waqt ki roti tak nahi provide kar sakti but she claims she is progressive.. rofl while says imlie is regressive.. may I ask why? Just caz she isn't doing fancy dress or applying 10 kilos of makeup and fluttering her fake ass eyelashes.? 🤣

So ghoom phir ke sau baaton ki ek baat ke yeh didiyan hi kyon delusion main hain? Har jagah.. ? I do not see main leads even giving interviews forget such delusions.. why only these supporting characters are being given such media exposure for what are they getting bhithaooed on the heads everywhere? Across the channel and why do they want to shove it in our throats ke bas PROGRESS inhe hi pata hai yeh paida hui thi hum progressive hain ka tattoo as a birthmark leke....

Why such distraction is being caused and why do they shy away from accepting character flaws even offscreen in their Iv's or media interactions?. Accepting those won't demean them as actresses in our eyes infact if anything they might earn respect that they know they are playing these characters caz it intrests them and that aside it is a job that they are doing earnestly but they do not support the soch etc.. it won't make them bad people for playing grey characters.. infact playing grey I always have thought is more fun for actors phir inki aisi delusions main kyon rehna hai ke hum sabse ache hain and humare characters are saints and anybody calling them out is a paapi.. why intermix the criticism for characters to the actors .. itna darr kis baat ka hai and agar itne bhi guts nahi hain toh kya faayda woh job karne ka jahan honesty hi na ho.. jahan jhoot bolna pade khud apne aap se roz ke bas main hi main har jagah .. and hum sabse best hai and humare hi characters hain aur koi kuch nahi? That is not honesty.. that is overconfidence and delusion. They can accept the flaws stop making false claims and yet stand by their choices to.play these characters. It is possible agar chahein toh

So kya hai app logon ke paas jawab ke why didis are delusional across board ? Kya hai inko itna sar Chadhata?

Is post mein ib gifs kaam awaat hai , bhavnaaon ko aur bhi express karne ke liye. Lovely post fary and happy friday😆

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Is post mein ib gifs kaam awaat hai , bhavnaaon ko aur bhi express karne ke liye. Lovely post fary and happy friday😆

Sorry behan gifs dhoondne ka time nahi tha.. humka jawab chahiye 😆 I just got seriously curious aisa kya brief dia jaata hai ke akkal sudh bhudh band ho jaati hai inki😆

I honestly have no clue. Speaking only about this show because I’m not watching anything else

In the beginning when I read interviews or saw something I thought they were ok, just doing regular PR for the show they were in. But over time when they started cloaking weakness with progressiveness I began to wonder if it was some sort of insecurity speaking since they are not being considered the main lead or strong despite being given ample screen time. And maybe that insecurity just takes them down a rabbit hole of wanting to constantly praise themselves or take whatever praise comes their way in any form and blast it out on the loudspeaker to everyone. But I honestly have no clue why they refuse to say it as it is - that the character they are doing is on a one dimensional trajectory 🤷🏻‍♀️

I think it is the effect of SM based popularity.

Everybody has their own fan club & fanbots nowadays who chadhao actors on chane ka jhaad. So what if they are not doing so great acting wise or their character is just plain dumb😆. When you get fans who tell you that even your breathing is some great acting than of course it goes to the actors head😆. Very few actors are able to handle sudden popularity with aplomb. 90% of them start thinking that they are some next level actors & try to justify their characters even if they are not justifiable to keep their fanbase happy.😵

This blind worshipping by fans on SM makes them believe that their characters have achieved more than the scope that was given to them & are iconic or better than even the main leads. When in actuality they are playing one dimensional characters whose only role is to cling on to the ML & keep being a third wheel in the main leads relationship.🤣

But all of this is temporary until the serial lasts. Except for a few die hard fans all the other fanbots move on to their next fav characters & these actors get left behind. Then they try to stay in relevance even 5 years later on the same characters bachi kuchi popularity😆. And they get type cast to play the same kind of characters.

There have been hardly few side characters who actually reached greater popularity or same popularity as the main leads. I can remember only Komolika & Mr. Bajaj on top of my head. Plus these actors are actually good actors😆.

I agree with both MB and lodestars reply to NM . From what I have noticed in the interviews - the explanation of why she chose the third wheel role in the story always comes through- so she goes above and beyond to explain why the role was chosen and sugar coats it with all the progressive crap. Interestingly though, her character attempting suicide is never addressed- only the fact that she chose to divorce Adi is discussed and sometimes the sister angle and so the whole divorce thing is used to glorify her character. So a sense of insecurity does seem to come into play in these interviews.

Any sensible person can clearly see who is the more progressive here 😆. The TRP audience have clearly given the indication of what they think but we still get an interview almost every day on this so called progression - not sure why this PR stunt is needed.

Agree on the social media aspect too- I do not watch any other SP shows but I trust you when you say the third wheel characters are glorified unnecessarily there too ha ha

These actors must have a lot of free time in their hands to give interviews like every day 😆😆and remind everyone they are also part of the story lol.

I have been having this question for quite sometime myself. When I watch the interviews of our show or even the ones you mentioned Fary, I had the same doubts. The funny part is that even the interviewer is asking questions like - your character is shown to hve such beautiful growth and you have not been made a vamp, what do you think? I was like, what growth, what progression. Just because she has not been portrayed as a typical camp does not make her character progressive. Giving token bhashana is not progressive, neither is pulling someone down just to show you are better. Taking the example of our serial, everytime I watch either an interview or read her tippanis on the character, I really wonder of we are watching the same show.

I liked what Lodestar said. SM plays a big role in the image these people project in front of their fans. One of the silliest statement I heard was that she tells off her fanbase of going and bashing other characters and praising her in the process. Funny part is that it is required for people to be told off because they want Adini ss endgame, and we will not allow that.😆

Jokes aside, this is a very dangerous stunt that is being done to continue to have these actors presence justified by the fans and bash any constructive critisism that they might get on the story progression and characterization. 🤦‍♀️🤷

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I honestly have no clue. Speaking only about this show because I’m not watching anything else

In the beginning when I read interviews or saw something I thought they were ok, just doing regular PR for the show they were in. But over time when they started cloaking weakness with progressiveness I began to wonder if it was some sort of insecurity speaking since they are not being considered the main lead or strong despite being given ample screen time. And maybe that insecurity just takes them down a rabbit hole of wanting to constantly praise themselves or take whatever praise comes their way in any form and blast it out on the loudspeaker to everyone. But I honestly have no clue why they refuse to say it as it is - that the character they are doing is on a one dimensional trajectory 🤷🏻‍♀️

I guess you are right ke insecurities aa hi jaati hai ke stereotype na ho jaayein toh phir hype kiye jao ke hum bas Kamaal hai hum and hum hi hum hai.. but kyon homge stereotype agar self awareness rakhein m. This is such a temporary field and the success is even more aani jaani you blinj and you are replaced toh why paalo delusions and live in an alternate universe and not accept the temporary nature of it as it will only help moving on and accept more different kind of roles and open up the opportunities ke haan ek practical point of view hai can do and play different things iss tarah blind defense se khud ko aur hi box main out in karte hain lol IMO

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

I agree with both MB and lodestars reply to NM . From what I have noticed in the interviews - the explanation of why she chose the third wheel role in the story always comes through- so she goes above and beyond to explain why the role was chosen and sugar coats it with all the progressive crap. Interestingly though, her character attempting suicide is never addressed- only the fact that she chose to divorce Adi is discussed and sometimes the sister angle and so the whole divorce thing is used to glorify her character. So a sense of insecurity does seem to come into play in these interviews.

Any sensible person can clearly see who is the more progressive here 😆. The TRP audience have clearly given the indication of what they think but we still get an interview almost every day on this so called progression - not sure why this PR stunt is needed.

Agree on the social media aspect too- I do not watch any other SP shows but I trust you when you say the third wheel characters are glorified unnecessarily there too ha ha

These actors must have a lot of free time in their hands to give interviews like every day 😆😆and remind everyone they are also part of the story lol.

I swear I wonder that too ke kya har wat phone pe hi rehte hain IV's dene kitna need to lift themselves up ke ab 24x 7 bas wohi repeat cd play Kari jao 😆 and word why the coward acts of hers aren't addreesssss why her absolute rudeness is not addressed why her lack of perception and u derstanding is addressed why can't the lack if friendship or any genuine bond addressed but nope one gotta do buttering ke mujhe le lia show main mujhpe ehsaan kar dia ke main itni Jamaal hoon ke mere ilawa kisi ko le hi nahi sakte thay that sense if entitlement prevailing even offscreen ke maine bhitha ke rakha intezaar main.. again honey this field is temporary you blink and you are replaced ek ki jagah 100 bhaithe hote hain replace karne ke liye. Might as well humble yourself down and bring some.self awareness and accept ke you are different then your character and calling out your character je flawd does not reflect on you

Originally posted by: Lodestar

I think it is the effect of SM based popularity.

Everybody has their own fan club & fanbots nowadays who chadhao actors on chane ka jhaad. So what if they are not doing so great acting wise or their character is just plain dumb😆. When you get fans who tell you that even your breathing is some great acting than of course it goes to the actors head😆. Very few actors are able to handle sudden popularity with aplomb. 90% of them start thinking that they are some next level actors & try to justify their characters even if they are not justifiable to keep their fanbase happy.😵

This blind worshipping by fans on SM makes them believe that their characters have achieved more than the scope that was given to them & are iconic or better than even the main leads. When in actuality they are playing one dimensional characters whose only role is to cling on to the ML & keep being a third wheel in the main leads relationship.🤣

But all of this is temporary until the serial lasts. Except for a few die hard fans all the other fanbots move on to their next fav characters & these actors get left behind. Then they try to stay in relevance even 5 years later on the same characters bachi kuchi popularity😆. And they get type cast to play the same kind of characters.

There have been hardly few side characters who actually reached greater popularity or same popularity as the main leads. I can remember only Komolika & Mr. Bajaj on top of my head. Plus these actors are actually good actors😆.

WORD ke one seems a dime a dozen vamps and yeah eventually everyone wants to be iconic like a komolika and Bajaj who 2 decades later too have their supremacy and were such Icons.. but wih hota nahi hai cas it needs one to have awareness and acceptance and also writing and actual acting chops to support the Gray..

You are right SM is the one to blame and the blind defencds and protection squads.. not everyone pointing out a flaw is calling out the actor .. even though aaj kal these actors lack basic talent to pull these shades too and basic skills bhi nahi hain but still agar criticism is coming for the character take it as that and if it is on acting then improve why nit see that but only see fake pandering.. which is like the norm...why is politely telling someone that they are not able to pull the shades.. but nahi the norm is har galti ko aur 500x sar chadhao ke kahin bura na lag jaaye .. matlab I an sorry but majority 8f it sounds so fake and just plain ass buttering it doesn't even feel like genuine praises but just blind ego issue