Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli
No seriously ! This is a serious question...
Why do all didiyan/dusri aurats of SP as of now but generally too the parallel leads always have the delusions that they are the only thing in the show and only they matter ? Only their characters are progressing and unke bina dunia ka kaam ruk jaayega..
And let me clarify here this is not a bashing topic but simply out of curiosity as I keep seeing these days on main page how only the dusri aurats are being featured and are on PR exercise high and then they all think that they deserve Oscar's for their performances ..( no I am not making this shit up if you do look over the articles you will know)
Why is it so hard for these people to accept their flaws? Literally all these women are under some sort of delusion ke inke bina shows band ho jaayenge and yeh koi maseehahs hain of some sorts when they are such disgraceful dharti pe.bhoj characters I In their shows. Opposite of anything progressive Kahin rotiyan kaun banayega pe laadai.. kahin sari and pendant pe ladaai, kahin main akeli bechaari dukhon ki maari na maayka na sasural wali "sensible" auratein... etc.. again not making this stuff up.. .. it is extremely hilarious to see these "progressive jananiyan" spew stuff like am progressive caz I wear western clothes so am not backwards and my sasural allows me too.. uhhh and clearly you don't seee the problem here right"allows" and then kapdon se kaun progressive aur regressive hota hai..? 🤪
Ya the fact ke am progressive caz I work and do ghar ka kaam ahh 90% of working women do that and don't have luxuries of having someone cover for them and they have to do it all alone aaj se nahi hamesha se.. I am sure we have seen it with our mothers too they have also raised us alongside too 🤷♀️ how does progressiveness relate to it? If anything it just shows how actually the regressive practices are common even now in ways we don't actually realize caz it is so ingrained now ke aurat hi kaam karegi so even if we seee that we don't point it out ke apna kaam khud karo sab.. 🤷♀️ .it is the social conditioning and patriarchy in many way but why does that gets hailed as progressive when it is the expectation.. I guess progressive would be I work and we share the burden but nope.. yeh didiyon ko lagta hai ke bas fancy Dress is progress.
Aur if they get one heavy rone done wale scenes yeh khud bhaith ke essays likhne lagte hai apni performances pe 🤣 I find that the funniest and desperate ke attention maang rahe hain bheek main.. if you are good people will appreciate and tell you but yeh khud apni tareefein karti hain and always seeking for validation ke humko bolte raho agar hum saans bhi lein toh progressive hai
How is a woman who is clinging to her ex husband who actually doesn't even happen to be husband in first place seeking attention being a fraud and liar and wanting only and only pandering and hail didi ke naare progressive? A woman who can't even break free on her own and do the tinniest bit for herself despite being hailed as the most"sensible" and mature progressive. She needs either adi, her dad and now kc too...but most of all adi as her 24x7 caregiver...this is a woman who is healthy who has resources but she cannot even manage a room on her own ...uhhhh she is not at all helpless even if she left in hurry ... there have been worse situations for imlie and she has managed on her own despite being so young and totally helpless on her own without needing any man to come to her rescue.. least of all Aditya.. if he did reach there it had been out of coincidence only otherwise she has handled har kuch alone from human traffickers gunde mawaali to fraud riksha drivers and lootere in sabzi mandi or finding her accommodation tak on her own.. traveled on her own bina money.. now let's not forget ke yes imlie has monetary issues too or well thay unlike this lady who earns her own money but can't do a thing on her own heck apni ek waqt ki roti tak nahi provide kar sakti but she claims she is progressive.. rofl while says imlie is regressive.. may I ask why? Just caz she isn't doing fancy dress or applying 10 kilos of makeup and fluttering her fake ass eyelashes.? 🤣
So ghoom phir ke sau baaton ki ek baat ke yeh didiyan hi kyon delusion main hain? Har jagah.. ? I do not see main leads even giving interviews forget such delusions.. why only these extras are being given such media exposure for what are they getting bhithaooed on the heads everywhere? Across the channel and why do they want to shove it in our throats ke bas PROGRESS inhe hi pata hai yeh paida hui thi hum progressive hain ka tattoo as a birthmark leke....
Why such distraction is being caused and why do they shy away from accepting character flaws even offscreen in their Iv's or media interactions?. Accepting those won't demean them as actresses in our eyes infact if anything they might earn respect that they know they are playing these characters caz it intrests them and that aside it is a job that they are doing earnestly but they do not support the soch etc.. it won't make them bad people for playing grey characters.. infact playing grey I always have thought is more fun for actors phir inki aisi delusions main kyon rehna hai ke hum sabse ache hain and humare characters are saints and anybody calling them out is a paapi.. why intermix the criticism for characters to the actors .. itna darr kis baat ka hai and agar itne bhi guts nahi hain toh kya faayda woh job karne ka jahan honesty hi na ho.. jahan jhoot bolna pade khud apne aap se roz ke bas main hi main har jagah .. and hum sabse best hai and humare hi characters hain aur koi kuch nahi? That is not honesty.. that is overconfidence and delusion. They can accept the flaws stop making false claims and yet stand by their choices to.play these characters. It is possible agar chahein toh
So kya hai app logon ke paas jawab ke why didis are delusional across board ? Kya hai inko itna sar Chadhata?
Cannot understand what this topic is about actually
Are you talking about the character or the actress playing it?
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