Episode spoiler - 14 June 2021 - Page 12

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Sach mein, khoon khaulne laga hai, seeing all the slapping in this show.

Pallavi, I think, isn't used to these kind of blow ups. Deshmukhs are extremely passive aggressive and underhanded in their anger and frustration- all while maintaining the facade of a happy family. Yahaan sab volcanoes, kabhi bhi phat jaayenge.

I'm glad she stayed sane. Raghav and Kirti said some hurtful things, but she took it in stride and maintained her composture. I just hope she doesn't jump into the thick of it. She doesn't have enough context of their family history or dynamics, and it'll just end badly for her.

I am not sure what's better: the passive aggressive behavior or these volcanic eruptions. Personally, I prefer the latter because there's honesty and you know who stands where. She's the calming factor in their lives for sure, but needs to stay away from the molten lava as much as possible. I want her to support but not take the lead and try to help like typical FLs, otherwise everyone will end up blaming her when things to south.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Thanks for the translation.. pretty close to what I had guessed..

Pallavi was absolutely right in not telling about Keerthi Sunny to Raghav.. it was not her place to tell ..especially knowing how the equation between brother and sister is.. But I get where Raghav's anger is coming from...She is only person he has ever opened upto, confiding in her the most deepest and darkest parts of his life..so he expects her to be open to him about everything.. But at the same time I also feel, he will understand why Pallavi didn't tell him about Keerthi and Sunny.. Right now everyone's emotions and temper are running high..Pallavi just got caught in the crossfire..

He will understand her, he always does. Right now everyone is angry and Pallavi is really confused seeing the Raos in all their anger and glory. So far she's been dealing with them individually but having all three of them at loggerheads is something she'll have to watch out for.

I think what she tells him in the precap will also make him more sensitive to the fact that she has been carrying scars of her own for years and he needs to be careful not to hurt her feelings. Being brash and taking a RR rough approach might really make things worse for her instead of helping.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I get what you mean. Wasted potential, and whatever most of us got attached to has been between the lines.

I can only speak for myself, but I liked their unconditional support. They never once asked her about the abortion. Siddhesh blew up at Vijay for his callousness at the sangeet, which in my head is still one of the most unforgivable things Vijay has done. She could have died that night, while he was on his ego trip. They saw through the Deshmukhs, and repeatedly tried to get her to see sense. And considering the way she was treated by every other person at that time, it felt like they were a bit of an oasis of love, understanding and rationality. And then we found out he basically raised her (and raised her well!), so a lot of fondness comes from that.

That being said, completely understand your view on it. It's not been explored onscreen at all, but with the tidbits we do know, I guess a lot of us have filled in the blanks.

I totally agree with the above. Siddhesh impressed me when he appeared and even when Pallavi talked about him raising her. That was a huge deal. I loved the fact that as a brother he never forced Pallavi to leave the Ds but when she said she wanted to, he didn't question her and packed his belongings right away to support her. When she chose to go back he supported her. It's a great contrast to Raghav as a brother.

I am really hoping when the lockdown situation improves that they'll bring him back because it's a key piece to Pallavi's past. Siddesh could be a good influence on Raghav because of how sorted he seems.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, I'm glad they argued in the bedroom. Anyway, it's usually Raghav who calls Pallavi out for doing tamasha in public. 😆

Also glad he asked her first if she knew, without making assumptions. Might seem like a small thing but it's a big deal 'cause it shows he's learning from his past mistakes. He still needs to get better at listening, especially when the other person is trying to explain their side, instead of saying he doesn't want to hear any explanations. Pallavi understands his reaction but he can't take it for granted that he'll continue doing this with her and that she'll be fine with it every single time. Anyway, this is part of their growth as a couple.

I think his anger is more with himself for continuing to dream of a future with her and this incident was more of a bubble-bursting moment for him, where he realizes that the terms of their marriage are still hanging over them. Angst to hoga hi. He brought it upon himself to an extent but you can see that he's afraid to trust that anything good can happen to him, that he can actually have a new form of happiness through Pallavi.

The fact that Pallavi was wide-eyed and unable to respond shows that not only was she caught off-guard but it's also in line with her not expressing her deep emotions very often. The precap scene should be the starting point of that. He never really knows how she feels. Despite everything she went through, she never really let out her inner thoughts and emotions proactively, it was always in reaction to something Raghav said or did. The maar daalo scene was a response to his visit to the Ds, the talk about Mandaar was when he tried to stop her leaving, and even the precap is in response to him doing Sanki's bidding. Perhaps her drawing the line and telling him to stop, while showing him for the first time that she's holding a lot within her, is what will make him cautious. We know that he is impulsive by nature, and so is she, but because he feels strongly for people and cares about them, that emotion will be the biggest enabler to getting him to curb his tendency to act without thinking about consequences.

@bold-Honestly I didnt read too much into his anger.. felt like a typical husband wife fight over a domestic issue. He was angry and feeling helpless about the whole situation because he knows the matter is far from settled and hitting Keerthi may just have made things worse. Pallavi took the brunt of it all, being the wife and his confidante. Its not like her telling him,would have changed the way he acted..he would've still snooped and dealt with Sunny and Keerthi the same way he did.. Pallavi stood by him when no one else did and he knows he can trust her with anything and over anyone..Im very sure that when things cool down, he will understand her position..

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

@blue, best way to close the feet wash topic and Aaayi now should handover her mangalsutra for her son Raghav and walk out with him...that would be classic slap on everyone.

Yeh to bohot hi badiya hoga, a first or rarity on ITV?

I am really missing Nikhil in all this.

Originally posted by: Vivirti_Suvian2

Exactly my point how stupid is this aur upar se BWA she mess up hee own daughter wedding and wants to take revenge because she caught up once again by Raghav

Yaar Pallu ki relative hai warna Raghav din me taare dikha deta 🤣🤣

But this proves that laaton ke bhoot, baaton se nahin maante, in BWA's case. Aur bachao usko jail se.

Originally posted by: Vivirti_Suvian2

It's indeed fact about RaghVi marriage but the way Raghav expressed his heart out to Pallavi I loved it and we can't blame Raghav for saying this that's what he feels at that time 😭😭 and what I like about Raghav he never live in illusion he know reality

@bold exactly, I love this about him. I think this realization is what makes him go back to talk to Sanki even after Pallavi took him out of there last time.

Originally posted by: ReemShah

Other than Pallavi being in a delusion about D-family, the leads of the show along with Farhad and Krishna are the only ones who are practical and realistic---and don't build sapnon ka mahal in their brains only to be broken later---another one of the reasons why MHRW is different

I feel sad for him too---no one wants to be in any relation with him--Amma does not want her son and Kirti her brother and Pallavi is now in conflict with her feelings

@bold feeling unwanted by Keerti and Amma - he's used to it by now, but with Pallavi he started to hope a little based on how she's been behaving with him. Now he feels it was all just a pipe dream and he crashed back onto earth with a loud thud.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But this proves that laaton ke bhoot, baaton se nahin maante, in BWA's case. Aur bachao usko jail se.

And that idiot mansi did she forgot this all crap started because of her mother sister only that whole pregnancy kaand and that stupid character BWA she ruined her daughter's marriage and blames RaghVi yaar real life me if I saw someone na aise aaina dikha deti "What goes around comes around" boye bij babool ke aam kaha se ( I forgot what exact word feel samjhlo 🤣🤣 )

Originally posted by: Shri_12

I have not watched the episode but seeing spoilers I want to add certain things.

1. There is parallel between Aai-Pallavi and Amma-Kirti. During RaghVi marriage, aai told Pallavi that latter should have confided in her, but Pallavi didn't because aai wasn't stable enough. Same goes for Amma. Amma thinks that Kirti should have told her but she didn't had that stability and confidance that Kirti needed.

2. Kirti feels suffocated. I feel her there. Her life is controlled by actions of others, be it Raghav or Amma. All she wants a stable family with her personal freedom.

3. Raghav does not become a caring a brother, just because he paid her fees. He needs to do more first being expressing his love in a better, healthier manner.

4. Live-in isn't a wrong choice. However it needs proper planning, especially with financial aspect. In fact a short live-in before marriage can save people from marrying wrong/incomaptible partners. The only thing is the people have wrong perspective about live-ins. They think its only for physical relationships, which is so wrong.

5. Amma needs to buckle up, big time

Completely agree, especially on point #3. I have been saying this for a while now, that we don't see Raghav having normal conversations with Keerti or Amma, spending normal time with them. Just like he's building his relationship with Pallavi from scratch, he needs to do the same with the other ladies in his family. They won't make the first move so he has to.

As for #5 I can write a whole essay on this topic. 😆