Rakhi and her concerns - Page 2

I do not get this new Rakhi angle....like most characters Anupama she has also been given split personalities. It's like they forget what personality they have given her frlm episode to episode...I do not get her trying to be on Kavya's good side because she has never really cared about what anyone in the family thought....if she didn't try to keep Vanraj and Baa sweet when they clearly controlled the family and took every opportunity to put the family down why is she so bothered by Kavya...does she think Kavya has more chance of dictatting to Kinjal than Baa and Vanraj? If she was that worried about all that then would it not have made sense to keep Anu sweet when she was still the MIL cause she is clearly the weak link and Kinjal would have had no issues at home since Anupama fixer of all things would have made sure that she did all the work.

I mean they way she has deducted that Kavya can cause waves in the family which will affect Kinjal is the same way she should have deducted that Anu saint as she is the best way for Kinjal to stay in that family and have a cake and eat it to....If Rakhi had not rocked the boat and gone out of her way to expose the affair. Anu would be cluless doing all the donkey work happily while Kinjal could pick and choose when to help out.

But forget all that adding Rakhi to the mix now is just unnecessary masala sincr Kinjal has time and time again shown that she can stand up for herself heck she went against her own mother and marries Paritosh...if she can handle Rakhi she can defo handle Kavya.

Originally posted by: CaNaBa

I do not get this new Rakhi angle....like most characters Anupama she has also been given split personalities. It's like they forget what personality they have given her frlm episode to episode...I do not get her trying to be on Kavya's good side because she has never really cared about what anyone in the family thought....if she didn't try to keep Vanraj and Baa sweet when they clearly controlled the family and took every opportunity to put the family down why is she so bothered by Kavya...does she think Kavya has more chance of dictatting to Kinjal than Baa and Vanraj? If she was that worried about all that then would it not have made sense to keep Anu sweet when she was still the MIL cause she is clearly the weak link and Kinjal would have had no issues at home since Anupama fixer of all things would have made sure that she did all the work.

I mean they way she has deducted that Kavya can cause waves in the family which will affect Kinjal is the same way she should have deducted that Anu saint as she is the best way for Kinjal to stay in that family and have a cake and eat it to....If Rakhi had not rocked the boat and gone out of her way to expose the affair. Anu would be cluless doing all the donkey work happily while Kinjal could pick and choose when to help out.

But forget all that adding Rakhi to the mix now is just unnecessary masala sincr Kinjal has time and time again shown that she can stand up for herself heck she went against her own mother and marries Paritosh...if she can handle Rakhi she can defo handle Kavya.

Bold much true: Rakhi is loved by the audience...But now what she will add to the show is the question. Means only there for entertainment purpose is not done. Rakhi is only for Kinjal. If Kinjal was a vamp, then Rakhi could have been there but here Kinjal is good. So its an unnecessary Masala

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Bold much true: Rakhi is loved by the audience...But now what she will add to the show is the question. Means only there for entertainment purpose is not done. Rakhi is only for Kinjal. If Kinjal was a vamp, then Rakhi could have been there but here Kinjal is good. So its an unnecessary Masala

They can enhance rakhi’s role by showing her anupama’s task master kum friend . Rakhi can be great ally to anupama and the banter between them can increase TRP too.

In shaddi mubarak, preeti and her samdhan kusum’s banter was treat to watch . Writers should watch that 2 characters closely to utilise rakhi’s potential nicely.

They are wasting rakhi’s potential by making her kavya’s ally 🤢no head no tail 🤢

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

They can enhance rakhi’s role by showing her anupama’s task master kum friend . Rakhi can be great ally to anupama and the banter between them can increase TRP too.

In shaddi mubarak, preeti and her samdhan kusum’s banter was treat to watch . Writers should watch that 2 characters closely to utilise rakhi’s potential nicely.

They are wasting rakhi’s potential by making her kavya’s ally 🤢no head no tail 🤢

Oh I loved Preeti and Kusum's relation. They were like BFF's. I would love to see that bonding between Rakhi and Anupamaa. Infact after the pakhi kidnap track, it would have been easier to take Rakhi's character in that direction. Don't know what CV's are smoking. I mean which mom will like her daughter to befriend a woman who is she knows is evil and revengeful and can see how everyone in shah house insults Kavya and still thinks Kavya has upperhand. Rakhi is been shown totally dumb.

Infact she should be happy, if kavya throws toshu and kinjal out, didn't she always wanted them to seperate from Shah's right.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Tania I am staying in Ahmedabad...But my joint family is in Mehsana...We have a cook who cooks for 50 people everyday. We are sweet merchants, so everyday ladies are in the kitchen and men too. And saying No in a joint family is very difficult thing. We cant say no easily. Its a stereotype but this is a reality. There are lot of tantrums and all. So sometimes I feel Khud Kaam Kar Lo

Your whole post is true...Bang on

I come from a conservative family. Not so modern thinking you can also think it that way. But Rakhi's interference everytime is not tolerable. If Rakhi would have interrupted in my house, then it is a strict no...

Rakhi had all the rights to protect Kinjal before engagement but after marriage its Ghar ka Mamla. In real life the impact of what a mother says is more on daughter. The impact is greater than MIL's words. In real life no one is like Kinjal. Kinjal has a sense of right and wrong. But every DIL in real life is more attached to mother rather MIL. What if Kinjal was like Kavya and she will burn the whole home.

Rakhi doesn't want her child to do household work that's true. Nobody wanna be anupama at the end of the day. But u r working dont you do some work. Everyone has to do. I am also doing even though I am a daughter. In my home we work together. Kitchen is with us. Cleaning is with me. Gardening is with my father. Sweeping the compound is with brother. My Bhabhi is working but she is in the kitchen and other household chores like Kapde sukhana only. Rest will be handled by someone else. We have servants but only for Jhaadu Pochha

Kinjal is a sensible child. To do any work be it office or home interest is necessary. She worked with interest and thats what necessary. She is not doing work because she has to because she wants to. The family members need to learn division of work.

Beautiful post . Hats off to you for handling life so well ...

coming to show - what they show about rakhi is reality ... many families have progressed and moved forward .. in anupamas case she herself regrets having been a doormat and she realized it only when Vanraj went out to have an affair .

Coming to kinjal and rakhi - rakhi is obviously seeing what kind of people the shahs are - it natural for her to think they will hurt her daughters life ... the shahs are capable and the only sensible lady of the house is out now ... and rakhi herself is a business woman . And it’s completely okay if she chooses not to work ... she has the capability to live that style and she does ... of course she musnt push kinjal but she never did that when anupama was there coz she knew her daughter was safe with anupama inside the house ... with a person like kavya and a mother in law like Baa who supports male dominant crap any mother of a daughter will be afraid ..

in real world - a mother should stay away till her daughter is being exploited

In anupama world - there is very thin line between kinjal being smart and family exploring her .. somebody should give her the reality ... and anupama should also understand that kinjal can’t be and need not be like her .. in fact what rakhi told anupama is what anupama is probably going to tell kinjal soon

I think Kinjal is more mature than rakhi and kauva put together. Rakhi is back to her idiotic ways and even though I thought she was playing games to destroy kavya's marriage, I now think she is just being back to that old vampire rakhi. I loved her when she cared for baa when anupama was away.

Originally posted by: suresh555

I think Kinjal is more mature than rakhi and kauva put together. Rakhi is back to her idiotic ways and even though I thought she was playing games to destroy kavya's marriage, I now think she is just being back to that old vampire rakhi. I loved her when she cared for baa when anupama was away.

Amd its not entertaining also anymore, but plain foolish of what she is doing. She is looking dumb actually.