Originally posted by: Svt611
achha itna bol hi rahe ho toh likh deti hoon....
DISCLAIMER- purely my views, ignore if you disagree!
and no I am NOT supporting him!
Peace!
so a few things-
1) the family did not believe sai because they saw how virat was when she left the house, they know he loves her, so for them it is weird that she would say that... they haven't seen what pakhi does cause she manipulates the entire scenario...
2) yeh pehle wala virat hota toh he would have yelled at sai. he chose to stay silent because a. he knows she is right (sometimes silence speaks louder than words)
b. he is trying to understand her feelings (which she has not understood herself, she herself is confused as to why this is affecting her). she says she will leave but it affects her....
3) he was thrown under the bus without warning, yes sai is not at fault but he was dragged down and it is pakhi's doing..... he knows it and knows she is lying
4) if he agrees to the vaada bit, it gives pakhi hope they can be together and sai will leave... he does not want that... if he agrees that will be the end, she (sai) won't listen after that!
5) he is also riled up.... hurt yes, angry perhaps cause this was brought out.... he needs a third perspective a neutral POV, which he will get...
6) anything he says today will be held against him by sai.... sometimes silence is better than speaking something... he is gauging the situation and will take a stand.....
I know it is too much but PATIENCE, we need to have this.... karega... flawed hai bohot. His core values are the same, he is changing, slowly, take amey or hand-holding- he lost his cool with sai- abhi dekho he is silent cause he knows she is right and he wants to understand her....
He knows he has hurt her, he will not understand it till someone explains to him and that someone has to be neutral to both, they cannot take sides...
the biggest thing is he is willing to understand her..
Sai ka reaction is justified, she has held all this in since the marriage... he said something and she agreed, his feelings changed and he has not cleared it to her... pakhi knows this and uses it!
He will talk to her PRIVATELY cause it is their issue to sort and it will happen.....
just need to be a little patient!
I lose my patience with KBA! can't stand her....
SO yeh mere views hain! Please agree to disagree if you don't like this.... don't @ me or bash me for having my views... Does not make me patriarchal or makes me support what happened! NOPE, I don't support it!
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