Why bashing Dhara? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Shivikaishkara

I genuinely believe that the entire family treated Raavi as a backup plan in this scenario. Janardhan maan jaaye toh Rishita se shaadi karva do, varna Raavi toh hai hi it's the moment I lost respect for GauRa.

This is precisely why I feel so bad for Raavi. The poor thing was treated so badly in the entire marriage fiasco. She was dragged till the altar only to be discarded so badly. As a woman, all my sympathies are with Raavi and I hate the Pandyas for the way they treated her. No woman deserves to be treated like that. Then they expect her to be understanding and loving. If someone else was in Raavi's place, Pandyas would have seen hell by now.

I have a feeling that makers are not going to stop here. They want to whitewash dhara's character and for that they will butcher anyone. If hardik comes to take dhara, there is a high chance he will reveal the secret about dhara voluntarily not having kids for Shiva, krish and dev's sake. Again dhara puran will start and everyone will be busy chanting her name and so called sacrifice. My only hope is Suman. Makers are trying so hard to put this beating kaand behind them and push it under the rug so that they can focus on track of how dhara is so mahaan and how much she has done.

I know Dhara made a sacrifice to not have their own child to take care of all brothers. But that was her own decision. Nobody forced her. If she makes that devision, doesn’t mean they are indebted to her or something. But all three brothers think that way. This will definitely bring trouble in their married life one way or the another.

When a mother does something, she doesn’t expect something in return. But here Dhara have controlling issue for sure. She thinks very highly of herself.

If she is unable to maintain peace and unity in family, then first should have been to tell Suman. Because of many reasons. First suman is elder in family, second she can definitely put Rishita in place.
Dhara doesn’t have the right to decide to divide the household. Did she not need Suman permission? She can definitely separate herself but she could have kept Rishita-Raavi kitchen together if she really wanted to bring them together.

One question, how does she think separate kitchen or everything else will bring them together? I don’t see it in Rishita behavior. Not even one percent. Only seeing Raavi-Shiva compromise because of arrogant behavior.

Even in the kitchen episode, she was able to trick Raavi by taking advantage of her goodness. But then she is thinking how would I do that with Rishita?

For me her character is to the point of no return. I am happy seeing the precap. I wish it is true.

Originally posted by: Shivikaishkara

As far as what Dhara is doing right now, its just basic gaslighting. She literally dismissing every person's emotions, and when things don't go her way, she trivialises other's emotions. I'm actually glad that her actions are being called out be the fandom, since gaslighting and the emotional abuse done by parents in India is often normalised as a "Parent's Right" which is frankly, not okay.

Yes, please! There are so many things wrong with this serial in terms of character development! It's not happening well! ☢️

Gaslighting, Narcissism, Sadism, suffering just seems to be the theme of this show! What happened to a light-hearted family show? It has become just like any other Star Plus show in the TRPs kitaar! 😵🤬

You mentioned so many good points, I just came back to it to read but the biggest victim in this whole ploy is Raavi and the poor girl is not even allowed to show her emotions, not even allowed to put her opinions forward, doesn't even have anyone to share her pain with! 😒

I didn't like seeing Raavi being sad and playing the victim however in her case she was completely allowed to feel like that and we all felt her pain! Look at what happened to her! Her suicide attempt almost became a joke, didn't Shiva joke about it a while back? 🤔

This happened because of Dhara bulldozing like always! However, I am not a heartless sea witch to see that she was not alone, the responsibility has fallen on her shoulders when Dev, Shiva, Gaumbi were also to blame! I think as the head of the house after Suman, Gaumbi should have been blamed more! Even then they didn't tell Suman the truth, and now they didn't tell Suman the truth!

Also, I am not happy with Suman overlooking her sons' fault when it comes to blaming others! 🤪

I swear I will end up writing a book if I were to point out the instances of gaslighting, narcissism, sadism!