IMMJ Episodes Discussion Thread #CXLIX - Page 57

Originally posted by: Max789

I really don't this janam ke saathi hum saath saath hai family .

Are baap re aisi unity kabhi dekhi he nahi .

Kal pura parivaar vansh ko ya riddhima ko bomb se udda de .

Vansh ko koi farak nahi padne wala hai .

Riddhima loves him and cannot ignore him.

Vansh only sees his side of pain and only looks at riddhima and doesn't see riddhima's side of pain and his mistakes towards her .

Riddhima realises her mistakes sooner or later , mistakes se seekha kuch woh baad ki baat hai jo kabhi nahi seekh thi .

Lekin she understands her mistakes atleast and she feels sorry about it .

Isiliye woh manane aajati hai woh naraz rehta hai .

Ps : Lekin iss baar riddhima tagda khand kar diya bohat paison wala deal barbad kardiya hai ussne 🤣

Right.

I knew Vansh was gonna be grumpy because they left at revelation of 6hrs raaz and this would have been the normal course if situation was fine.

So i thought I will ignore the other things and go with flow.

But after the family reunion I cannot ignore. Apparently everyone's fault is ignored but Ridhima ko gin-gin k bharpai karni padegi.

Originally posted by: Eternalallure

This is bloody patriarchal conditioning and I hate the makers for perpetuating this even more. Just because Ridz is doing something wrong it doesn't justify Vansh's behavior. He is being such an asshole right now and Riddhima being all supportive is just the result of that conditioning.

@bold: Exactly, this is where everything is going wrong. Look at vansh, one mistake how is voicing out. This girl never voices out, she self understands her mistake and let's go everything, never voices out what she went through.

Originally posted by: Sunshine_nino

Like Shashu bhai said *Corona mein kidhar jayegi*

Writer for how long u r going do this shit. riddhima is not weak character, dont make it just to showcase vansh strong.

Originally posted by: abby143

So true!! The family reunion was just screaming "double standards"

I don't know why the hell Ridhhima is all lovey dovey with him.

Mana galti dono ki hai.

Fir ek hi kyun naraj rahe( hamesha!!)

It's high time Ridhhima stands up for herself ( and that doesn't mean taking a gun and start shooting ppl).

Show her Self dignity.

Her character is just revolving around Vansh... Which would have been bearable if the other way around was also same.

Agreed 💯

https://twitter.com/alifnoonx/status/1400469696156143623?s=21

Originally posted by: Sunshine_nino

Like Shashu bhai said *Corona mein kidhar jayegi*

Originally posted by: abby143

Right.

I knew Vansh was gonna be grumpy because they left at revelation of 6hrs raaz and this would have been the normal course if situation was fine.

So i thought I will ignore the other things and go with flow.

But after the family reunion I cannot ignore. Apparently everyone's fault is ignored but Ridhima ko gin-gin k bharpai karni padegi.

I was fine with everything till , the family reunion .

Actually somewhere I knew that vansh is going to forgive them even without any apology .

https://twitter.com/its_fajari3579/status/1400444420458049540?s=21

Originally posted by: Sunshine_nino

Like Shashu bhai said *Corona mein kidhar jayegi*

Sab ko vansh punishment main maut de diya toh new characters kaha se layenge aur new characters ko establish karna difficult hoga .

( He said something on these lines not accurate but he told this ) 🤦

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Zyada tar Indian men are like this. This is patriarchy. Family matters the most.inke liye biwi k liye alag rule /apni family k liye alag. Aur Saswat toh khud ek mard hai...Ekta Gul Rashmi is patriarchal mentality se ubhar nhi paye toh Saswat kya khak hoga. In wattpad, I am getting stories were abuse and rape is glorified in name of love and here,.Vansh is patriarchal . If Riddhima 's life will b in danger he will ran amuck to save her. If Her bady (Izzat) is in danger, woh us molestor ki muh tod dega. But when it comes to saving wife "s dignity in front of family.Mard kavi aage nhi aate.They will be double standard. Hum agar dekhne baithenge toh yehchiz humari father,uncle brother, fiancee ,.husband mein vi dekhenge. This is a grave patriarchal Indian double standard issue. I know i am sounding like a feminist. But being a student of sociologist, I have seen it and studied it. It sucks.But its true.

🙈🙈 AM I SOUNDING LIKE A LADY JO MORCHA NIKALTI HAI.😝😝😜😜

I don't know about Indian men and the patriarchy and mard and stuff and all.But somewhere its the truth

How much ever we try, we can't change it. Its inbuilt in her core systems and there is long long way to go before we get rid of it..and i really don't think we can.

Coming to the show, People might find Vansh forgiving Sia bit hard to digest, but I feel its a smart move

I have always said Sia is not negative. She is a hormonal teenager, A new student in a fancy school who is tempted into the world of bitchyness by the Queen bitch of the school. She had then viewed Vansh as the person who is restricting her to the ground, not letting her get her dreams so she rebelled. If it was someone from real life, that person should be handled very carefully and with love. So Vansh's actions towards Sia is psychologically a good thing

It is always riddhima's actions vs Vansh's actions. But Sadly Vansh's actions get overlooked by none other than riddhima herself.

While both claim to have done everything for the other, they fail to understand what the other person actually wants and there lies the problem

Riddhima in her desperation for Vansh, takes impulsive decisions,

Vansh in his anger and ego, goes blind with rage and cannot see that he is being a hypocrite.

Riddhima gives in when it comes to him

Vansh never forgets when it comes to her

Communication is the key, and that is in negative for Riansh

That over consuming love is what is keeping them alive.

Riddhima DOES NOT trust Vansh,

and Vansh doesn't think of Riddhima as his equal

I am waiting for the day, Dadi's whatever truth that is, is out in front of Vansh. Because i seriously would like to see what he does. Dadi is not Sia.

And the makers's inconsistency when it comes to Dadi's character is super annoying.