Would/Are you (be) okay with your husband/boyfriend watching ****?

Question to all women (barring lesbians) and gays on this forum.

Would you be okay if you caught your husband/boyfriend watching p*rn?

If yes, then why? Won't it feel like cheating? Him lusting over women other than you. Won't that make you upset that he doesn't consider you hot enough that he has to look at other women?

If not, then why not? Even if he's your husband/boyfriend, he's still a man....and he still would be sexually attracted to other women if they are beautiful.

Just like you're going to be sexually attracted to a man if he's a hunk. You can't control on being attracted to someone.

And maybe he's just looking at p*rn only to learn some tricks to please you in bed?

I dont have a husband or boyfriend

But Ive heard watching adult films builds character

Eh, then what about all the committed women having the hots for HW/BW heroes.

It's just a form of entertainment, as long as he's not into something super disturbing and knows that it's a 'fictional world', I'm good.

If we are living separately then yeah he can watch whatever he wants. If we live together then no. Unless we watch it together of course.

Almost all using internet watch p*** here there, be married or unmarried. Ranbir Kapoor once said whoever is saying they don't watch it, is a liar.

They watch p*** as they must be getting sexual feelings in their mind and it gives them a pleasure when they watch it. We all have very easy access to p***. Whoever feels like can watch it especially when you are alone in the house or in your room. Common thing.

Nah.. This watching it together thing gets old really fast. Then the whole genre becomes boring till you discover your next fix and the movies just become weirder and weirder.

Imo, it would be better to leave the guy alone to watch if he is interested. And if he is too interested, leave the guy.

A lot of men and women watch p*** privately. I think it is idealistic and unrealistic to expect one person to only fantasise over their partner for years. The passion and lust are bound to slow down plus you may not be on the same page when it comes to your libido. As long as he doesn’t watch it when I’m with him I couldn’t care less. Watching p*** or even fantasising about attractive people and s** is not cheating, just natural human need.

Obsoletely! For couple of reasons if your husband was your one and only s*x partner, you may have hard time saying/expressing what you want him to do. It's no fun watching him have all the fun while you're just hanging out. Gets very boring and you lose interest.

Try not to look at it in an offensive way, meaning it's not like your husband will pack up and find that female because he desires her the most. If anything he's learning what excites him.

I would go a step further and suggest you watching with him. See how things are done. Think of it as research and making notes on your likes and dislikes.

Having and open and honest conversation with your partner will really create a strong bond and growing love for each other.

My stand on this is we should not watch it for-

Our watching it is what fuels an industry that works mostly on abuse and exploitation of many. We are the consumers of this debauchery that leads to so many being abused, exploited and trafficked. As it is what they show is wrong and give young people a wrong perception of what to expect in their own partners.

I am a Christian so for me morally too it is wrong because what we watch, goes in our minds and stays there, the images cannot be erased and slowly it leads to addiction. So dont go down that alley.

This is my two cents on it. Please no personal attacks. This is my opinion on the matter.

My partner is p.rn addict woman