Mithni a new phase - Page 2

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I want Malini to find a better version of her self

I want imli-Malini sisterhood bond getting stronger

I want a happy Malini who know what she want, and don't depend on others to get her love and happiness

Anu being this Anu is due to DC !

She act strong to hide her weakness!

I don't want her in a mute phase, I want her to overcome her weakness and divorce the loser who the whole mess is his karma of bad actions to 2 woman which make the 3 leads and the 2 women in his life pay for his mistake

And I don't want to see Mithi/ Anu ever forgive him for ruining their lives along with their kids lives!

I want him to cry a river over losing everything and every respect and love he once gain before, watching happy Mithi and SK, losing Anu, distancing from his bf prophesier Malini, rejecting from Imli, falling down from the eyes of the Ts!

Make that 6 , 2 women , 3 leads and 1 satyakam ... 😉

Betrayal to meethi was the worst. As someone said literally meethi was thrown to wolf by Dev. Meethi would sink into the worst phase beyond the imagination if there was not a protector like sathyakam. Due to the misfortune of meethi imlie also suffered. On other hand AC have the options for moving on after knowing the betrayal. She only stick to his marriage because she wants her daughter to get name of her father. Also she wants devs name and fame. Economic and social status provided by devs name. Only thing is she become hostile to dev and suppressed him when ever she can. We cannot even compare meethi& Imlie life with Malini and Anu. Both Malini and Anu have enough social support and background support from there family. Meethi have done a grave mistake to her daughter by not giving her his fathers name.. more than that she doesn’t turn imlie against her father who betrayed her. It quit disgusting to see imlie forgive dev for his misdeeds . I don’t wish to see such thing in future. Malini who needs a divorce from adhithya will be very warmly welcomed by AC . And she will get her married to someone at the earliest (if needed). In no way life’s of Malini and meethi have similarities.

Originally posted by: Aniash

Good post. But sometimes i wonder why mithi is not like her though she went through the same betrayal. On top of that a stepmother taunts and physical abuses. Why mithi didnt turn into a bitter woman. In fact she treats people with love care and respect.

This is how i look at it

As humans our level of tolerance is not the same which to a certain extent affects our perception about people and everything around us.

I agree but you know when you are a privileged one even if something which is not the worst happens to you it seems to be the worst thing that could happen to anyone else .

I totally agree that the share of betrayal by meethi is very high as compared to AC but for AC it was the worst thing happening to her resulting her being bitter and the way she is.

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I want Malini to find a better version of her self

I want imli-Malini sisterhood bond getting stronger

I want a happy Malini who know what she want, and don't depend on others to get her love and happiness

Anu being this Anu is due to DC !

She act strong to hide her weakness!

I don't want her in a mute phase, I want her to overcome her weakness and divorce the loser who the whole mess is his karma of bad actions to 2 woman which make the 3 leads and the 2 women in his life pay for his mistake

And I don't want to see Mithi/ Anu ever forgive him for ruining their lives along with their kids lives!

I want him to cry a river over losing everything and every respect and love he once gain before, watching happy Mithi and SK, losing Anu, distancing from his bf prophesier Malini, rejecting from Imli, falling down from the eyes of the Ts!

Oops u dislike dev a lot. Agree he is the culprit and AC s bitterness is justified but not to the extend of unnecessarily throwing her bitterness upon others for her husbands actions 20 yrs back

Take for exampe the tripathis. What wrong have they done to her that she keeps humiliating them. They never did anything bad to her.

Imlie is from pagdandiya that explains her reaction with imlie but tripathis are not from there or outer space either that she treats them like aliens .

To me her behaviour is not normal not with imlie tripathis and even malini as well. Her bitterness created a mess in malinis life from childhood itself.

Why take out devs anger on imlie. 20 yrs u keep the bitterness in u for what. Why not go to pd and confront mithi yrs back. Throw ur anger on her. Why now on imlie when she did nothing wrong.

I just dont agree with AC actions. Thats all.

On a serious note they wont mute her coz they need drama and shes the most dramatic character in the show.

Originally posted by: Ps143

Basically each person has their way to deal with things. For example, loss. Loss is dealt with in different ways by different people. Some mourn, some just stay silent stuffing the pain within, some yell and some refuse to believe it's reality. Similarly, response to betrayal varies. While AC chose to see the negative side of it and become bitter, Meethi chose to love. It's easier to hate but difficult to love. AC should have confronted her husband and dealt with him the way he deserved. But she dint and in all this, it was her own daughter who was so much affected. Both Meethi and AC have gone through the same betrayal and share the same pain. While one chose to live with love for her daughter, the other chose to become bitter and dominant for her daughter.

Agree . Perception differences.

Originally posted by: Ps143

Actually the thing is, what AC considers warning and protecting her daughter is nothing but filling her ears with negative things, be it about Aditya or Dev or even the Tripathis for that matter. This isn't a healthy attitude. AC is a dominant personality and hence in her presence, Malini can never take the proper decision. Has AC ever tried to sit with Malini and talk to her about what she feels, how she feels? She always jumps the gun at every and any moment possible. What happened with AC was bad I agree but that doesn't give her any rights to behave the way she does! Mithi is a much better mother as compared to AC because she works on seeing and keeping in mind her gudiya's emotions and not just protecting her by hurling insults and abuses at every other person apart from whom she actually has to confront. Clear difference can be seen in the way Meethi handled the relationship with Adi after coming to know the truth . Had AC been there, things would have gone way out of hand.

AC s way of handling situation is very wrong. Thats the main flaw in her . And also too sensitive and emotional as well

Originally posted by: Aniash

Oops u dislike dev a lot. Agree he is the culprit and AC s bitterness is justified but not to the extend of unnecessarily throwing her bitterness upon others for her husbands actions 20 yrs back

Take for exampe the tripathis. What wrong have they done to her that she keeps humiliating them. They never did anything bad to her.

Imlie is from pagdandiya that explains her reaction with imlie but tripathis are not from there or outer space either that she treats them like aliens .

To me her behaviour is not normal not with imlie tripathis and even malini as well. Her bitterness created a mess in malinis life from childhood itself.

Why take out devs anger on imlie. 20 yrs u keep the bitterness in u for what. Why not go to pd and confront mithi yrs back. Throw ur anger on her. Why now on imlie when she did nothing wrong.

I just dont agree with AC actions. Thats all.

On a serious note they wont mute her coz they need drama and shes the most dramatic character in the show.

Well I was not justifying her actions (AC) , but I am calling the main culprit here wich I really hate 😂 and it was too clear to you. 😂 Sorry I can't hide it he is such a loser who get a free pass from all around just acting kind, helpless and talking wise and sweet talk 🤮

At least AC is called to what she is doing, directly by Aditya , Malini, DC , and indirectly by the Ts, she is not a lovable person and everybody knows that and she also know that everybody know and she doesn't care.

Yes I want her to be punished for what she did to Imlie, but if the girl (Imlie) not wanting the others to know and address the action just coz she is DD's mother, and the Cs don't want to admit it coz they would be ashamed, what can we do? 😩

Edit:

Just saying, if I am not mentioning a thing it does not mean that I am ok with it, so rather than assuming things , you could ask to clarify the misunderstanding 😉

Originally posted by: Ps143

Basically each person has their way to deal with things. For example, loss. Loss is dealt with in different ways by different people. Some mourn, some just stay silent stuffing the pain within, some yell and some refuse to believe it's reality. Similarly, response to betrayal varies. While AC chose to see the negative side of it and become bitter, Meethi chose to love. It's easier to hate but difficult to love. AC should have confronted her husband and dealt with him the way he deserved. But she dint and in all this, it was her own daughter who was so much affected. Both Meethi and AC have gone through the same betrayal and share the same pain. While one chose to live with love for her daughter, the other chose to become bitter and dominant for her daughter.

I am not sure why AC didn't divorce Dev but her bitterness would have reduced to some extent had she removed dev from her life and focused solely on Malini's upbringing. AC looks like a character who wouldn't have asked for an emotional support from anyone close after learning the betrayal. So, no healing happened.

Originally posted by: deepzz

I am not sure why AC didn't divorce Dev but her bitterness would have reduced to some extent had she removed dev from her life and focused solely on Malini's upbringing. AC looks like a character who wouldn't have asked for an emotional support from anyone close after learning the betrayal. So, no healing happened.

Well it is not due to dev’s betrayal AC went bonkers. It is her inherent dominant and controlling nature that DC was running from the beginning. As his nature is weak, he found love and solace in Mithi and eventually wanted to divorce AC to get married to Mithi. But he went ahead and forgot the basics of the relationship and reversed the steps that is had affair with Mithi and then divorce. But once back to delhi, back to reality, he flipped once again giving priority to responsibilities of a parent. Ac was never aware of DC’s deeds completely and lived in limbo for 19 years until Imlie surfaced, cementing her shaq.

For 19 years, already dominant she is, bitterness and resentment added to her nature. So, from the beginning AC & DC are a complete mismatch for each other.

DC is an artist, by nature he cannot sustain any pressure or dominance, they work/live on free will. AC likes controlling everything around her and very class conscious. A complete disaster of an union.

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Well I was not justifying her actions (AC) , but I am calling the main culprit here wich I really hate 😂 and it was too clear to you. 😂 Sorry I can't hide it he is such a loser who get a free pass from all around just acting kind, helpless and talking wise and sweet talk 🤮

At least AC is called to what she is doing, directly by Aditya , Malini, DC , and indirectly by the Ts, she is not a lovable person and everybody knows that and she also know that everybody know and she doesn't care.

Yes I want her to be punished for what she did to Imlie, but if the girl (Imlie) not wanting the others to know and address the action just coz she is DD's mother, and the Cs don't want to admit it coz they would be ashamed, what can we do? 😩

Edit:

Just saying, if I am not mentioning a thing it does not mean that I am ok with it, so rather than assuming things , you could ask to clarify the misunderstanding 😉

To be honest i understood ur post clearly but just wanted to justify AC actions from my own povs. Thats all☺☺☺

So no worries. Everything is fair in the forum 😂😂😂

What matters is a healthy discussion . 👍👍👍