Originally posted by: countryapple
Well it is not due to dev’s betrayal AC went bonkers. It is her inherent dominant and controlling nature that DC was running from the beginning. As his nature is weak, he found love and solace in Mithi and eventually wanted to divorce AC to get married to Mithi. But he went ahead and forgot the basics of the relationship and reversed the steps that is had affair with Mithi and then divorce. But once back to delhi, back to reality, he flipped once again giving priority to responsibilities of a parent. Ac was never aware of DC’s deeds completely and lived in limbo for 19 years until Imlie surfaced, cementing her shaq.
For 19 years, already dominant she is, bitterness and resentment added to her nature. So, from the beginning AC & DC are a complete mismatch for each other.
DC is an artist, by nature he cannot sustain any pressure or dominance, they work/live on free will. AC likes controlling everything around her and very class conscious. A complete disaster of an union.
I too feel the same. Dev AC situation is almost similar to aditya malini somehow i think
Dev found true love in mithi same goes to aditya for imlie
Both thought they loved the women they married but later realised they were not their true loves. And find love and solace in the other women. In devs case will add the word peace as well taking anu dominating nature into consideration
When a man is not happy with his marriage he will find love peace and solace in another woman whom he may get attracted to. Though it was not shown AC dev marital scenario when they were married by looking at AC nature clealy shows her dominant side. Well from rich parents . Money power status.
In practical life i have seen many rich egostic ladies like AC whose spouses are not happy with them. Too bossy dominating likes to control etc. No need to go far my cousin married a rich woman out of love. Divorce about 2 yrs after marriage. Couldnt take it. That guy belongs to midde class family. And almost like a yr after marriage he had an affair with another woman . He was so stressed up with his wife. He find peace and solace in that woman. He said she pushed me upto that level
The same thing must have happened in AC dev case. Perhaps she couldnt understand dev she thought her marriage life was perfect. Perhaps dev was pretending to be happy with her but deep inside he was not .
Dev is not a womaniser. He did the mistake only once and truly loved mithi all the while remembering her and todays episode he was heartbroken coz she married satyakam. Something must have triggered dev to take that step 20 yrs back.
And the fact that devs mum said AC and dev was happy and AC was not like that perhaps she doesnt know deeply how AC dev relationship has been. Moreover she lives separately. Husband wife ki bateein wo hi janey
The only reason dev didnt look back to mithi was malini and also he didnt know about imlie.
The difference between dev and aditya was dev chose to live that loveless marriage coz of his responsibility for malini and aditya chose to give imlie his right . If malini was pregnant will aditya chose to live with imlie. ??
So thats the thing its easier for aditya to do so coz he does not have a child with malini. Aditya will be like dev . Helpless in that loveless marriage life. He wont take the step . Perhaps malini will coz shes a woman of self respect. She will single handedly bring up het child but chose not to live with aditya. She had seen her parents fights. Wont repeat the same mistake again
Humans are not perfect . They make mistakes forgive and move on. AC should move on . Been 20 yrs now. Malini is an adult now. Give divorce to dev andmove on.
I never found dev a bad person. He made mistake yes. He is regretting for it thats more important. Never been happy since then.
But i find him thousand times better than AC when comes to treating people . He is humble soft spoken talks with respect and mostly doesnt judge people based on their class . Would prefer dev anytime over AC .
If imlie was not his daughter he will still treat her nicely