Is Suman Correct??????

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Is Suman rite in calling Dhara as " Bhagodi ki beti" everytime???


There is a limit. when they both are alone she can call dhara like that!! but in front of everyone and each and everytime?????

i dont think it is rite!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Verbal Abuse 🤢 Suman needs a PSYCHIATRIST! 🤣


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sredaa

Is Suman rite in calling Dhara as " Bhagodi ki beti" everytime???


There is a limit. when they both are alone she can call dhara like that!! but in front of everyone and each and everytime?????

i dont think it is rite!

Its kind of subjective actually.

I would really like to know what Dhara thinks about it actually.

Personally, I feel like Dhara doesn't mind, and I understand Suman's personality so I feel even in that there is some sort of hidden affection, she isn't one to express her love in cheesy ways, so I personally don't really mind it.

But if Dhara feels hurt by it, then by all means, Suman needs to stop that at all costs. And even makers should clarify this, rather than letting the audience assume, because it definitely has the potential to send out the wrong message.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Insulting your Daughter in law before the family is definitely not right.but I Will try to look at sumans point of view on this.


No doubt dhara raised her boys and took care of her over the years, but she literally took the place of a mother in their lives, and no mother can accept that. she will always have a passive aggression for dhara, but at the same time will appreciate her too.( A rare glimpse of Which we saw when she gifted her a saree in their anniversary ).


All important family matters are kept away from her on the pretext of not hurting her.she is Clueless of what is going on in her own house and that can be very demeaning for a strong woman like her.she has gone through a lot in her life , these small fights, prank are not something over which she will cry on.


Imagine the betrayal she must have felt at the Mandap when everyone except for her knew what is going on in her own son's life . I feel she would have handled things much better if she knew about rishita.( Though that track was necessary for shivi to get together).

Overall suman is a grey character for me till now. As for now I feel for her more than dhara😅. Maybe this track has changed the dynamics.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sredaa

Is Suman rite in calling Dhara as " Bhagodi ki beti" everytime???


There is a limit. when they both are alone she can call dhara like that!! but in front of everyone and each and everytime?????

i dont think it is rite!

no at all.......she should have been stopped in early stages.......now they take it as her endearment for Dhara.......which is not the case

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I too have the opinion that it's completely subjective . It's been ten years for them staying with each other .... This is like a Nick name for her ... We have seen suman has starred to care for Dhara over time .... So I don't think she is doing this consciously . But I do feel dhara is extremely wrong . After all she is in all reality their bhabhi . I mean domestic violence on grown-up men is such bs ... She herself is a hypocrite when she asked Rishita not to kiss Dev outside of bedroom but did the same sometime later .... She is trying to put herself as the head of the family by taking massive decisions on the pretext of emotional blackmail . . ... I mean suman has the all the right to know everything . Y make her feel like an outsider . Dhara can do the physical work but all the mental and emotional work for her kids as a mother should be done by suman alone ... Here Dhara is wrong not suman

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Posted: 4 years ago
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what ever Dhara have done for the boys they all appreciate it and also respect her but being a mother i can think Suman s pain that which is her right to know and make the decisions have not been taken away from her also no one even wanted to ask her or let her know what ever had been going on in the house she should have given her status and respect in her house .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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yes on top of that Gombi sports her in her decisions he dose not bother to inform his mother what ever is going on and if now suman scolds Dhara whatever she have done and Gombhi comes to sport his wife then yes Dev and Gombi are just the status .

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