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Posted: 4 years ago
#41

It’s hard to believe we got two best episode in one single week ❤️😆 rare in history we got that only in first 10 episodes 😆

Finally sk-mithi got married after passing so many hurdles in their life 👏 iske sath hamari ek aur wish puri hui but his immediate arrest was another heart break for us 💔 hope they reunite soon. 😔

Adilie's promise to each other was like cherry n toppings on the cake ❤️

Adi's eagerness to tell police he is the jamai of his proud sasur satyakam 😆 ha kehdo aur sasur ko company dene khud bhi chali jao unke sath jail mein 🤣 n that bailbuddhi police use thodi padi hai what sk is calling him he is only seeing his medal in sk n i hope use woh kabhi na mile 🤣 imlie ne bacha li pati ko jail jane se 😆

I just disliked it so much how they made imlie asking mithi that weirdo ques 😵 i was like abhi abhi tumhari asli ma-baap ki shadi hui hai please don’t disrespect your actual father in this grand day by asking about your manhoos biological baap 😡

N precap 🤔 dd ke irade thik nehi lagat hai, seems she came with full planning to create mu among all

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Posted: 4 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: MuteButton


Why is the onus only on Aditya and Imlie to have awareness and not on Malini? Why is everyone else expected to make amends when it is Malini who is incapable of detaching herself from Aditya and lacks the self-respect to walk out? She heard him say Imlie was his first wife. That meant she is second. That meant he married her knowing he was already married. Why did she lack the basic understanding to drag him for that? Let’s not try and give her benefit of doubt because she had the consciousness to cook up an affair between the two but none when it came to blaming Aditya for the mess?

Just because a woman lacks agency does not mean others around her need to kowtow to her fragility. If Imlie is wrong in assuming Malini’s happiness is in a second marriage, it is equally wrong for Malini to continue being blind.

NM sorry for referencing Malini again - will stop after responding with my views to this.

Right now there is is no logic to any track or any consistency of character in this show. There is a story they are following blindly and as needed characters say things to move the story along a pre-determined path. As such I believe defending any character logically is useless - but without looking at the bigger picture - will try to respond to your question within the specific situation.

Malini heard the full truth from Adi 3 days ago - and has since left the house and started divorce talks. Till now she was operating blind and reacting to her failing marriage...Adi and Imli have had 7 months to deal with the situation. She has emotionally moved on - has not walked out since the T's are not yet made aware of the truth by Adi. It;s his responsibility to tell the truth to them.

Affair was cooked up to encourage Adi to share his story. Now it's kept going so she can save face and self respect. I don't like MAlini at all - and detested her less than dignified reaction to Adi's confession...however post full revelation by Adi - I don't have anything to blame her for. Yes she did ask Adi if he would forget everything and come back to her...but the way she asked - it seemed more like she was testing his reaction vs. asking him for real.

MAlini is a single threaded dependent woman who Adi dated for 7 years and they married each other whole heartedly. Both of them are at fault for their failed marriage - they have no clue about each other. Where are you seeing that she is continuing to be blind? Last few episodes - I don't see her plotting to keep Adi ... I only see her making moves to move on. She does sound upset and precap has her throwing taunts...which is what a normal wife would do right now. If she was sweetly accepting the situation - we would say she is unreal - like she was in the earlier episodes.

Adi and Malini need to sit down with both sets of families and share the truth openly. They need to communicate their marriage is over and has no future. Then after everyone has time to adjust to the truth - he can look to bring Imlie back to the T's. Bringing her back home when T's have no clue and truth has not been shared is like asking for Imlie to be taunted and disliked.


Below is more of a general rant than a response to your comment...frustration at the content thats coming our way post the suicide attempt :(


So far Imlie show managed to tell a good story with consistency in character sketch logic etc.. However now ...logic has been sacrificed at the altar of following a pre-existing story. The adaption is very more enjoyable in the way scenes are framed..the acting etc ...but there is is no character sketch integrity or logic. Each and every character is flawed and inconsistent.

Imlie is 19 and a confused soul - she wants Adi to be truthful to her and also be there for Malini. She is consistent in not wanting to hurt Malini - however whatever they showed to date of her fighting against all odds to come up in life and her maturity with understanding relationships is lost with all her recent stands...need sindoor but hubby can go to didi, dhoka when hubby actually goes to didi, keep marriage truth quiet, asking for Malini to settle down first, has sidelined her education.

Adi knows his Imlie truth and thats what he has going for him...but lacks planning and patience to set his paths straight. He listens to Imli for a while (like he was initially looking for Imlie's agreement in telling Malini the truth) but then later realizes she is wrong and does the right thing. Does he learn that Imlie is not always right?...no ...again he will keep quiet about the truth at Imlie's request ... until Imlie is taunted and EMA suspected...he will only then tell the truth much later after seeing Imlie totally insulted. But even the truth speaking Adi has not shared the Imli Malini sibling truth thus far - and that little matter actually has a lot of relevance - esp now. So what do we make of that? Maybe his intent is to save Imlie pain - but again his truth based character sketch has wavered.

MAlini can walk out completely - but if she does makers can't show her mahaanta. And her character sketch has her clingy and dependent - so at least she is consistent.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: MuteButton


Word.


Everything was nice by itself but felt very off-place, all because they want to prop up someone else. Problem yeh bhi hai ki this is now happens constantly. Not like abhi do hafte ka useless track khatam and back to being the show we all liked.


Mithi’s entire conversation in the end felt very misplaced. Haan, husband has been arrested lekin she has always known Satyakam right. Arrest hone ka darr toh hamesha se raha hai. Also, I thought she never knew about Dev being married. Toh doosri aurat kahaan se aa gayi? Unless she assumed ki he got married somewhere in between those two decades.

She left a worm in Imlie’s head for no reason. Aur jitne bhi external forces hain, woh sabhi use karenge this opportunity.


Lol I think mitbi thought he went back and married and not like he was married before and used her.m I guess she meant dusri aurat isko log samjheinge caz eventually DC would have married in shehar and woh spineless kahan itni himmat rakhta ke kehta rang raliyaan mana ke aaya hai.. in that generic sense her rant made sense ke koi bhi mithi ki baat na maanta given that she was a lonely young woman with no backing of any sort so she didn't bothered plus her being from lower financial strata added to her choice of staying.. .. she knew about SK but again I guess we have to give her thoda space it is indeed too much of a shock ke itne saal toh nahi pakda gaya but as soon as they married he got arrested mithi bhi chali gayi into main kalank zone jisme woh pehle hi thi itne saal se according to her only .. so she quickly attached her badkismati to SK ka arrest.. I guess she will come around and sambhalo herself caz she is wiser than that .. dekhte hain.. for now she gave bitiya another reason though to put pause on her life lol

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Ariel6

It’s hard to believe we got two best episode in one single week ❤️😆 rare in history we got that only in first 10 episodes 😆 lol i disagree we have gotten fab episodes in a streak many times but again woh apna nazariya hai je kiske liye kya good hai ...🤷‍♀️y sk-mithi got married after passing so many hurdles in their life 👏 iske sath hamari ek aur wish puri hui but his immediate arrest was another heart break for us 💔 hope they reunite soon. 😔yup felt bad for them bechare abhi toh poori tarah mile bhi nahinthay ki bichandne ki ghaddi aa gayi

Adilie's promise to each other was like cherry n toppings on the cake ❤️ sweet indeed

Adi's eagerness to tell police he is the jamai of his proud sasur satyakam 😆 ha kehdo aur sasur ko company dene khud bhi chali jao unke sath jail mein 🤣 n that bailbuddhi police use thodi padi hai what sk is calling him he is only seeing his medal in sk n i hope use woh kabhi na mile 🤣 imlie ne bacha li pati ko jail jane se 😆i found it adorable how he didn’t think of aconsequences and was all fierce in protecting SK


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Posted: 4 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

i disagree we have gotten fab episodes in a streak many times but again woh apna nazariya hai je kiske liye kya good hai ...🤷‍

yah i agree we did get many fabulous episodes many times but sometimes those were also filled with some you know which peoples nonsense too, & these too were cut out from all those nonsensical peeps 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: Ariel6

yah i agree we did get many fabulous episodes many times but sometimes those were also filled with some you know which peoples nonsense too, & these too were cut out from all those nonsensical peeps 😆


Let's agree to disagree while I do have my problems with other characters I do not hate them all and count them under one blanket and do enjoy some of them and would love to see the positivity and warmth like before asap

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Let's agree to disagree while I do have my problems with other characters I do not hate them all and count them under one blanket and do enjoy some of them and would love to see the positivity and warmth like before asap

neither i hate them, it's that sometime their scenes make me feel irritated for example - during the last pd trip the family trying to console malini constantly in every other epi 🤔

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thanks for the great analysis everyone.

There maybe a time when Imlie will support Aditya, but I feel now is not that time. Aditya might have to fight solo battle to get Imlie her rights. Adilie are similar to each other in many ways but the fundamental difference b/w them is that while aditya works for his happiness , Imlie does not. She has her own insecurities to deal with before she can become a true partner to Aditya. Because aditya’s happiness lies in Imlie’s happiness he will indulge in her wishes however much he disagrees with her. Imlie will not let him reveal their truth as she is not yet ready to face consequences of it.


Recent incident at C house is a major revelation into Imlies psych. how does she really feel about herself? She tells everyone that she is from gaon but not a gawar. That she is enough. But does she really feel that way? She always had an insecurity about Malini. When she laid her eyes on Malini at adini’s engagement party, she displayed signs of inferiority complex. Was the ever resolved.? Or was this brushed under carpet because of her sister worship? Does she herself believe that Malini is better than her, more educated, rich, mature , accomplished so it’s only natural that Aditya loves such an accomplished woman?if yes, then then he lied to Imlie that he loves her and hence he is a dhokebaaz.


If she believed Anu because of her insecurities then her response to insecurities showed that she is not capable of handling emotional vulnerability. Imlie had always been in a vulnerable position but this time her feelings were involved. When Anu yapped about adini’s happiness, Imlie did not confront Aditya about it. She was scared of his response. Her flight response kicked in and she packed her bags to PD. She did not even consider reaching out to Aditya, talking to him about her insecurity.

Imlie seemed happy to fulfill the relationship in her head, but is she ready to work on this relationship with Aditya the person? Aditya always complains that Imlie never considers the impact of her decisions on him. She has a natural independent streak and she is not yet in a place where she and Aditya are a unit. So will this change now?


Less said about her masochist nature the better. In recent episodes, She herself said to Aditya “I don’t deserve happiness”. So she will actively discourage Aditya from telling truth and put up with all insults and keep getting hurt till Aditya will burst.


Adilies conflicts will continue to be more with themselves than external. t-gang , c-gang are going to be always around to suck the joy out of them. But these do not really matter if the couple is on same page. They can face the challenges together. But to get to that place, Imlie needs a journey to realise her self worth. She needs to work through her insecurities and fears to be a partner Aditya deserves.


In all this journey Aditya’ limited patience will be tested to the max. So I’m imagining some fun adityas outburst scenes and scenes of Imlie being muleheaded. Aditya really has work cut out for himself. He needs to patiently support Imlie as she works on herself and protect her from every one else. In all this I don’t think he will be able to stop himself from displaying his love for Imlie. That will cause more drama and suspicions of affair.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#49

Just some Gif's... Hopefully they won't be stolen and get claimed as someone else's work.. i would appreciate if bina asking or crediting no one posts them on social media.. now let's continue to scheduled programming 😆


Just posting them in parallel..


imlie ki smiles are just wayyyyyy too cute in this bit.. it wasso awww ke finally she was giving her cutesy smiles.. shy wali haha


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Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: jojo_mojo

Thanks for the great analysis everyone.

There maybe a time when Imlie will support Aditya, but I feel now is not that time. Aditya might have to fight solo battle to get Imlie her rights. Adilie are similar to each other in many ways but the fundamental difference b/w them is that while aditya works for his happiness , Imlie does not. She has her own insecurities to deal with before she can become a true partner to Aditya. Because aditya’s happiness lies in Imlie’s happiness he will indulge in her wishes however much he disagrees with her. Imlie will not let him reveal their truth as she is not yet ready to face consequences of it.


Recent incident at C house is a major revelation into Imlies psych. how does she really feel about herself? She tells everyone that she is from gaon but not a gawar. That she is enough. But does she really feel that way? She always had an insecurity about Malini. When she laid her eyes on Malini at adini’s engagement party, she displayed signs of inferiority complex. Was the ever resolved.? Or was this brushed under carpet because of her sister worship? Does she herself believe that Malini is better than her, more educated, rich, mature , accomplished so it’s only natural that Aditya loves such an accomplished woman?if yes, then then he lied to Imlie that he loves her and hence he is a dhokebaaz.


If she believed Anu because of her insecurities then her response to insecurities showed that she is not capable of handling emotional vulnerability. Imlie had always been in a vulnerable position but this time her feelings were involved. When Anu yapped about adini’s happiness, Imlie did not confront Aditya about it. She was scared of his response. Her flight response kicked in and she packed her bags to PD. She did not even consider reaching out to Aditya, talking to him about her insecurity.

Imlie seemed happy to fulfill the relationship in her head, but is she ready to work on this relationship with Aditya the person? Aditya always complains that Imlie never considers the impact of her decisions on him. She has a natural independent streak and she is not yet in a place where she and Aditya are a unit. So will this change now?


Less said about her masochist nature the better. In recent episodes, She herself said to Aditya “I don’t deserve happiness”. So she will actively discourage Aditya from telling truth and put up with all insults and keep getting hurt till Aditya will burst.


Adilies conflicts will continue to be more with themselves than external. t-gang , c-gang are going to be always around to suck the joy out of them. But these do not really matter if the couple is on same page. They can face the challenges together. But to get to that place, Imlie needs a journey to realise her self worth. She needs to work through her insecurities and fears to be a partner Aditya deserves.


In all this journey Aditya’ limited patience will be tested to the max. So I’m imagining some fun adityas outburst scenes and scenes of Imlie being muleheaded. Aditya really has work cut out for himself. He needs to patiently support Imlie as she works on herself and protect her from every one else. In all this I don’t think he will be able to stop himself from displaying his love for Imlie. That will cause more drama and suspicions of affair.


@bold: Good points.....I do remember that scene from AM's engagement when Imlie's self-esteem was pricked on seeing Malini all decked out and she glanced down at her own clothes and felt a sense of inferiority in the moment. But then that was never followed upon in the 100+ epis after that.


Instead, what we have been shown for a majority of those epis is Imlie pushing back against anyone trying to call her a gawaar, displaying a sense of self-confidence in her capabilities....always talking about what a powerful Imaliya she is😆.....this set her apart in the eyes of the audience from the perennially weak-minded Malini. Imlie was set up as that contrast to Malini who has immense emotional strength....which she does in many other ways....but like all human beings she does have her own fallacies and chinks in her armor.


I just wish the writers had set up this crucial transition towards exploring Imlie's self-esteem issues better.....the fact that they raised it all with Imlie labeling Adi a dhokebaaz but then never followed up on it afterwards....just quickly brushed it under the carpet with Adi revealing he's told Malini the truth and Imlie forgetting all about why she thought he betrayed her.....lol....Adi also never bothering to ask her why exactly she thought this of him.....that's where they've dropped the ball a bit writing-wise.


That said, I do feel there is still potential to explore this issue. Imlie fundamentally is a strong girl but she does have some self-esteem issues as well as a masochistic/defeatist streak about some things. At the end of the day, for all her bravado, she does have vulnerabilities she hides from everyone - even Adi. I'm remembering that scene before the press conference when Adi is telling Malini that Imlie puts on this front of how confident she is about everything but he knows she ghabraoes about some things.....and it did indeed get proven right at the press conference....Imlie was indeed nervous despite all her bravado otherwise.


So I think the upcoming track is going to test all the bravado that Imlie has established in 150+ epis....it was easier to display the bravado when her feelings were not this intense....it was easier to nibhaao the rishta when it was in her head, one-sided, without any expectations....now the stakes are higher, now she feels like she actually has something to lose vis a vis Aditya's love.....so that is why her insecurities are rising and I do hope that Adi and her talk through them. That is the fundamental beauty of their relationship.....communication. Off late, Imlie has had a tendency to hide more things from him than usual....and that is what has created many of their recent issues....yes, she likes to hide her pain/vulnerabilities but Adi has to figure out a workaround if he's going to get through to her.


Adi has fully accepted that Imlie is his soulmate.....while Imlie so far has accepted that he is her husband and she loves him.....she is yet to realize why they are soulmates. It would be nice if the upcoming explored that in some fashion beyond the endless cycle of Loservedi dramas or Didi nautankis.....if they want to address Imlie's insecurities, logically speaking they will have to address why Imlie is the right partner for Adi and not Malini....but let's see if the writers have the guts to address Didi's flaws rather than building a mandir for her daily😆.


I do agree that Adi will have his work cut out in boosting Imlie's self-worth....he has to shower her with a lot of love and positive reinforcement in the sea of maligning she will be subjected to coming up....there is scope for good scenes here if the writers give them the scope to display their emotional connect.

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