Originally posted by: nycgal
So, here I am with my 2$ and 2 cents on Friday's episode..
I know we have discussed this topic to death so appreciate your patience my friends.
I will break this down to 4 parts to make it easier to talk about.
Part1 : In Purvi's room
Completely understand KK's shock . Expected reaction from her.
I actually cheered for her when she announced she is just Sakshi and no more SVPS. Great!! You do not need a man to make you complete.👍🏼
She was very right to say that she was betrayed because of not being told the truth. It is insulting too to be not told of this truth. I know, doc ne bola tha to not give her any sadma.
BUT to imply that she was betrayed by his shaadi after her demise is not true. How and Why is that betrayal?
One thing to point out in this scene -even though KK had the lines, Purvir's body language conveyed a lot. It is easy to overlook people with no dialogues but here Purvir were amazing as usual. Their body language showed pain, grief , some shock that KK found out the truth this way BUT at no point of time did their body language convey shame at being found together. They are man and wife and they have accepted it. They did not jump apart or flinch when they saw KK. I think that was pretty important to convey the sanctity of Purvir relationship.
Part2 : Purvi's erstwhile bedroom
I quite liked the flinching and the following scene. where KK asks not to be touched. I also understand her desolation, desperation, fear when she asked VPS what would she do. All natural reactions for someone in her place.
The googly and disconnect for me started when she started yapping about the talks of 5 years pehle and the promises he made to her.
VPS yeh bhi promise kiya tha kya he would also be like living dead if she happens to die? I am just surprised at her utter selfishness here. What did she expect ?? VPS would make a shrine in her name so that he and the kids could pray to her everyday?? Not only that , they should have wallowed in grief, pity, depression just because she was dead???
I noticed her resentment that they moved ahead with their lives when she was held captive and kept thinking about them everyday. It was moot to her that there was no way for them to even entertain the possibility that she was alive and kept prisoner. How can she hold it against them?Just because she had a very tough 5 years, she wants them to experience similar pain by drowning in grief and not moving forward in life? Whatever happened with her was very wrong and unfortunate but why should the husband and kids get punished as compensation for her time in the khandar?
As a wife/mother should she not be happy that her family found peace and happiness even after her death? She needs to wrap her brains around the fact that irrespective of Purvi's presence/absence people do adapt and move ahead in life. Her expectation that EVERYTHING would be frozen in time for her to come back and pick up from square 1 is just so bizzare that I cannot relate to it. Change is the only constant in life and her family was right and justified in moving ahead.
KK had no idea she would ever escape the khandar. Luck,fate or whatever intervened and she escaped. I am surprised she learnt no life lessions during her captive days. Life is short and live it to the fullest? Uske baad bhi she is all rona dhona ki yeh log khush hain without her?? How is moving on in life after a partner's or parent's death a vishwaasghat??
I am very curious to know how VPS used to jhelo her. I had such high expectation from her as a human being going by the tareefon ke pul that VPS used to tie for her. Well, madam has been such a huge let down. She definitely has traits of being a narcissist apart from being privileged and entitled.
She has always been "humse zyaada aapke liye kaun important hai" " I am most important for you". I just do not think she developed these traits overnight.
I won't talk too much about KK's dialogues of Purvir sleeping together.( we ALL have the same opinion on this)
By implying he gave in to $exual gratification, she just dissed and insulted him so badly. She knows what kind of a person VPS is and that was just hitting below the belt. VPS's face also registered the shock at her implication. He did not flinch or hang his head in shame because he knows the truth between Purvi and him.
One thing will never cross KK's dimag - that things just did not fall on Purvi's lap. I really do not expect her to understand or acknowledge the struggles of Purvi. I mean why would she?
When she spoke about how VPS and her kids like Purvi, she does not know that Purvi EARNED that place. She just assumed Purvi had it very easy.
KK was loved by VPS just because she was his wife. The young J+M loved KK because she was their mother. So, this love was default hers. KK did not have to earn anything.
But Purvi ko kuch default nahin mila - na bacchon ka pyaar na hi pati ka pyaar aur izzat.
Her dialogue about izzatdaar aurat? Was it meant to imply Molkkis are not izzatdaar?
I do get KK is right in many ways. Some of her questions were valid. But others were meh.
VPS letting her vent out was good. He definitely should have told the complete truth about how his present feelings for Purvi.
WHat I did not agree upon ( like so many of you) - It is not KK's job/responsibility to be kind and just towards Purvi. Kyun hogi woh??
The only person who is reponsible to ensure Purvi's dignity is upheld is VPS himself. The SOoner he gets that, faster he will take actions.
Part3 : VPS's bechaini
Amar nailed it and then some. Enough said.
Also, VPS needs to understand he can't keep both women happy. He is the sole sutradhaar of how things will end up between the 3 of them. Tough choices but they have to be made.
He has to choose 1 path and put a fullstop to the drama.
Part4 : Purvi visiting KK
I understand Purvi coming and apologizing for the truth being hidden. She should have just left after that.
WHY did she have to talk about her Ram kahani and how she was betrayed by her own dad?? Again, she does not OWE KK an explanation. KK bhi kyun sune iski safaiyaan?? Again, life lesson - you just can not expect everyone to sympathize with you. Why would they ?
VPS ke samne izzat and samman samman chilati rehti hai. KK ke samne khud chali gayee apni insult karwane.
I do not support the irrational dhokka line from KK but sorry bolke Purvi ko cut lena chahiye tha.
P.S. - I have never watched Toral in a show before. She was good today but she did not hit it out of the ball park for me. As many have said, we have such powerhouse performers in Amar and Priyal that anyone else in the frame needs to have amazing acting chops.
crying all over him and always me and my hurt not what he was feeling he was feeling or Purvi went through n doubt all were victims of circumstances but and both of them are thinking about her but not she.
