'Meri mumma ne kaha tha' (My mother told me that)

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Anytime someone tries to tell Kairav something sensible, he hits back with 'No, you are wrong. My mom told me otherwise'.


Recently when Sirat said that we can only pray to God & hope that he fulfills our wishes, Kairav replied 'No'. His mother told him that kids can make demands & God has to fulfill them.


Like.. Sure Kairav. Try demanding better parents from God. Did Naira ever do something good for this poor kid? She was such a sh!tty parent, man. All she did in the name of 'Good Parenting' was make Kairav memorise details of all festivals like a parrot.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am sorry to say but as a parent I know we say so many things to our kids to avoid some situations, that doesn’t mean our kids become like this spoilt brat.. you can’t blame parent for every behaviour of a kid

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Posted: 4 years ago
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An 8-year-old kid who


- had to fight poverty, depression, & danger for 4 years for no reason (except his mother's massive ego?)

- had to fight the world alone to find his father & large family

- survived his parents' bitter divorce & custody battle

- had to fight to get them to be civil with each other

- was punished because he didn't accept Krishna overnight

- was blamed of attempting to murder his cousin by his mother

- is forced to change home & school frequently

- one parent thinks therapist is 'baharwali' & other doesn't check credentials


Sure.. It's the 8-year-old child's fault that he has emotional issues. Not his egotistical, selfish parents'.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Ha ha ha.. I still disagree with the point that only parents are at fault..but ya he is overly pampered child.. that is his parents fault.. u can’t just fulfill every demand of children.


I feel Vansh’s situation bad than Kairav’s..if you see his position carefully.. is vansh behaving same way as kairav? I am not watching this serial since Naira was about to die.. so don’t know if Vansh also is behaving like his one year younger brother kairav

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Haha we don't even know what's up with Vansh anymore. Now he is only used as a tool for Kairav to express his feelings. Apart from that, he only runs around in the background. There has not been a single Vansh-Gayu or Vansh-Vatsal scene since Naira's death.


Ria was right. Send all Goenka kids to hostel, including Krish. All young Goenka's are trash parents. All these parents do is traumatise the boys, put them in danger, & give them fu¢ker up lessons like 'I can order God to fulfill my demands' 🤡

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Posted: 4 years ago
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It reminds me a meme that I saw in insta.

That made responsible her for corona😂

I missed kartik's favourite dialouge tumhari wah sei😂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

An 8-year-old kid who


- had to fight poverty, depression, & danger for 4 years for no reason (except his mother's massive ego?)

- had to fight the world alone to find his father & large family

- survived his parents' bitter divorce & custody battle

- had to fight to get them to be civil with each other

- was punished because he didn't accept Krishna overnight

- was blamed of attempting to murder his cousin by his mother

- is forced to change home & school frequently

- one parent thinks therapist is 'baharwali' & other doesn't check credentials


Sure.. It's the 8-year-old child's fault that he has emotional issues. Not his egotistical, selfish parents'.

did she blamed him to attempt to murder?🤔

No.If i am not forgetten in hospital naira shared her doubt that kairav might be pushed him as she spotted him there.Gayu overheard it.

Whereas, the reality is kairav tried to save vansh.

but that time kairav had a bad record.just few days ago he endangered akshu's life.So negative thing come first on mind..


N.B- there is a huge different btwn pushing and attempting to murder.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I didn't comment anything about parenting.But I am tired of seeing over pampering.Little vanash is so mature.He understood his father didn't love him but he didn't make any scene rather he tried to adjust.


Even he used to console kairav how good kartik is.

I think kartik is also over pampered in his this age.

Even sometimes he acted so childish.Both kaira as a parents failed.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Kids, atleast young ones are gonna be moulded as per parenting. If you’re gonna over pamper, tolerate all tantrums of your toddler, he’s gonna grow up to be spoilt - like Kairav is. Probably when they grow a little more, may pre-teen, they’ll tone down.


Kairav has had a super stressful life because of Naira’s idiocy (till 5 years) and then because of Kartik and Goenkas spoiling him rotten (till now) so he’s bound to be like this. And since this is a show so sometimes he becomes “normal” too but irl such kids’ behavior will not be tolerated by everyone.


(i have seen this in my own family - over pampered child (since birth) became a nuisance till he was 7/8 years- very ill-mannered, rude and even used to push people - physically, even if his small demand was not met. (But now he’s 10 and much better - idk what the parents did or maybe he learnt on his own). But none of us blamed the child. It was the fault of parents/guardians.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: jannatsara

did she blamed him to attempt to murder?🤔

No.If i am not forgetten in hospital naira shared her doubt that kairav might be pushed him as she spotted him there.Gayu overheard it.


It wasn't just a doubt. They came home & Naira started pressurising Kairav to accept that he pushed Vansh to a deadly fall.


She kept saying 'Aapne dhakka diya na Vansh ko? Kyu dhakka dia? Uski jaan jaa sakti thi'. When Kairav kept saying he didn't push Vansh, Naira said 'Ye jhooth bol raha hai'. Even after Kartik calmly explained that she isn't asking Kairav, she is blaming him.. She kept insisting that 'Kairav ne hi kiya hai. Maine khud dekha hai'.


All this happened while Vansh was in the hospital battling for his life. That is why Kartik had to hide Kairav away from Naira.

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