Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #7 - Page 38

Originally posted by: Peanutbolt

Raavi’s supreme goal in life is to be Pandya parivaar’s bahu and tbh I don’t find it unrealistic given her background, she yearns for that belonging and considering how her life revolved around pandya brothers and how she is a clueless naturally innocent soft bean, I find her character very endearing.

also though we are in 21st century, some people do want to get married to the prince of their dreams and take care of their family. I think raavi falls under that category. Not everyone needs to be ambitious, i just want her to take a stand for herself.

I agree that some people are ambitious and some are not. Also in her family, everyone gets married at young age and started prefer to have a family rather than focusing on their career goals. From childhood, she does have a understanding that marriage is kind of supreme goal and her sister Anita doesn't have a married life and she still kind of sad about it. Raavi kind of lived in her dream world and having unrealistic expectation from Dev about his imaginary love where he never confessed or even had a chat about it to her. Now she started to see the world in realistic eyes, hope Dev and Raavi have a conversation where both can clear about their sides of story and comes to closure. Raavi didn't feel sad about the insults thrown by Rishita which is very surprising to me as the latter was so rude but she kind of felt sad about her life in general maybe she have a feeling that she is in loveless marriage as Rishita claimed so she is not arguing or feeling angry at Rishita but she sad about her state. Once she comes of this sad state, she might stand for herself and be very vocal about her stance.

You read my mind. I’m working on it right now 😂

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Do we have a list of ShiVi scenes anywhere? I want to rewatch their scenes once I’m all settled at my new place 😆 But kinda want to skip episodes that don’t have their scenes.

Originally posted by: Peanutbolt

Raavi’s supreme goal in life is to be Pandya parivaar’s bahu and tbh I don’t find it unrealistic given her background, she yearns for that belonging and considering how her life revolved around pandya brothers and how she is a clueless naturally innocent soft bean, I find her character very endearing.

also though we are in 21st century, some people do want to get married to the prince of their dreams and take care of their family. I think raavi falls under that category. Not everyone needs to be ambitious, i just want her to take a stand for herself.

Getting married to one's Prince Charming is not the issue. It's the lack of everything else. Look at her, floating around and doesn't know what to do.

I understand it's an ITV show so looking for logic is ridiculous and we wouldn't get ShiVi if there was an ounce of realism!! 😆

Everyone is different, I just find that weird. There is no rule that it has to be one or the other. Aim for everything. Loving family, amazing husband, adorable kids and a fantastic career. That's my opinion!!

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

You read my mind. I’m working on it right now 😂

Yay!!! Thank you ❤️❤️ I just saw your post! I didn’t watch a few scenes of them as kids! Have to watch those as well along with all the post leap ones again! Super excited haha

Haha you’re welcome! I didn’t watch most of the Pre leap episodes either! Just watched the scenes with the kids and skipped through the rest 😂

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Yay!!! Thank you ❤️❤️ I just saw your post! I didn’t watch a few scenes of them as kids! Have to watch those as well along with all the post leap ones again! Super excited haha

I liked Udaari, Zindagi Gulzar Hai (a classic), Bin Roye, Suno Chanda (this was i more fun then dramatic), Ranjha Ranjha Kardi (minus this one glaring flaw that never gets addressed is INCREDIBLY beautiful), Mann Mayal.

Okie those are the ones I have enjoyed! The bolded ones are my special favorites!

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Getting married to one's Prince Charming is not the issue. It's the lack of everything else. Look at her, floating around and doesn't know what to do.

I understand it's an ITV show so looking for logic is ridiculous and we wouldn't get ShiVi if there was an ounce of realism!! 😆

Everyone is different, I just find that weird. There is no rule that it has to be one or the other. Aim for everything. Loving family, amazing husband, adorable kids and a fantastic career. That's my opinion!!

I understand what you are implying. As per ITV logic, everyone blames FL and wants her to be housewife also do all house chores also they should remain silent when someone scolds them. It might happen in some places but in all serials, FLs does have the above definition so I am not expecting much in serials as you said. Raavi too want the same status like Dhara all we all know that Dhara is ready to take every blame thrown at her way as well as remain silent and patient at all times. Hope Raavi understand that Dhara is not perfect example for life and people might live their in their own way. Raavi too have her own life and expectation instead of being perfect like Dhara.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

I hate to say it but who in their right mind makes marriage a dream. That’s it. No other aspirations without asking the guy seriously. Dev is obviously the most to be blamed but Gaumbi did what he thought was right. Dhara did go to Janardhan’s place. Circumstances weren’t in their favour. It is what it is. Either accept it and move on after venting of course or simply walk away.

Someone mentioned that the continuation of Dharas convo will happen today and I reallllly hope they're going to fill in all the gaps in Raavi's head.

Originally posted by: HanaKB

I MISS HER WARDROBE! I mean she looks absolutely beautiful in her current clothes but her outfits before marriage were so nice too! Sigh! Why is Alice so pretty? ☺️

I was thinking the same and wondered what happened to those clothes. So after marriage she changed her wardrobe and gave away those clothes 🤷🏻‍♀️😒😂

Originally posted by: Namita-M

@Pink - I agree wholeheartedly!! It’s not Dhara’s fault alone. A lot of factors played into it.
I don’t understand Raavi simply blaming her.

I hate to say it but who in their right mind makes marriage a dream. That’s it. No other aspirations without asking the guy seriously. Dev is obviously the most to be blamed but Gaumbi did what he thought was right. Dhara did go to Janardhan’s place. Circumstances weren’t in their favour. It is what it is. Either accept it and move on after venting of course or simply walk away.

Another thing I’d like to point out and it didn’t sit well with me, a 21 year old is talking about khalipan. Simply tells me she really hadn’t planned anything in her life out. Just marriage to Dev. I’m absolutely baffled 🤪

I honestly don’t think anyone took her seriously!! There were a couple of her scenes that I skipped because they were cringe worthy and I suffered 2nd hand embarrassment watching her 😆