ZKM Life lessons ❤️

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~ZKM Life lessons~ ❤️

This is just a random thought that crossed my mind. Though our forum is full of positivity, just in addition felt a need for this thread. A place to feel grateful and express our gratitude. A page to share the lessons you imbibed from the show/characters. Or those reflections of your self that you found in the characters.

Selflessness 😊

I won't say that I became selfless ultra pro max after watching the show. No not at all 🤣. It is not simple as it looks. Unless we have any traces of the quality, it is very difficult to imbibe that by just watching a person. My life , surroundings and those people who became a part of my life over the years made me selfless. I used to ensure that I will become selfish only if it does no harm to anyone else. Being selfish for positive things, is fine I suppose. I might be wrong too.

Mehak tends to forgive people so easily. But I can't 🤔. Especially the ones who are experts in misunderstanding business. See how selfish I am 😆

At times Mehak's decisions seemed to be meaningless. Even wondered many times, what she is getting in return of being selfless. Though "mahaan Mehak" tagline has been quoted many a times. Haven't found a single instance where we could see her boasting about her selfless nature. That is something worthy of learning and inculcating👏. As you can see I have been boasting about being selfless. This post itself is an example😆🤣. Hope I would learn that lesson soon. 🤞

I do carry forward the emotional baggages over the years. Doing the tally of all those things I have done in the past,where people left without any sorry, thank you, in a nutshell with no sense of gratitude. I haven't seen Mehak doing anything of that sort. Is it because the episode duration was 30mins?. Because I have got a whole lot of 365×24×7, to think and think and think. 😆. Another lesson to be learnt.🤞

When I sit and cry for hours thinking about a small incident. What forces me to rethink is that Mehak is selfless in all sense and even she had to face all these hurdles, and you aren't even closer to her. So chill girl😆 😳

We all are aware of the show's ending. But not taking into consideration that. I would believe Mehak's life with Shaurya and their lil munchkin to be the happy ending. I'm not crazy like CVs you see😡😔. Being selfless is not going to do you any harm, atleast in the future. I strongly believe.

At times people tend to question you, accuse you completely putting a blindfold. Shaurya and Mohit , I would take the examples in Mehak's case. Selflessness is quite underrated. And this ain't a job or career that one would opt for after checking the pros and cons. It is a quality, that either comes within or need to be developed over time. There is nothing to be ashamed of being good or doing good to others.

Mehak masked her feelings many times when she was badly hurt. We all are human beings and we are bound to certain emotions. The selfless nature forces a person to supress the feelings . Once it will erupt like a volcano of tears. It is okay to cry, to wail just as it is to laugh out loud.

So the point is, don't stop being good. No matter what. We all have positive and negative traits. We tend to identity those pretty late. In these testing times, we all might be going through ups and downs mentally and physically. It's a matter of this phase.

Dreams, careers, studies many things have taken a back seat for many people including me. It is very easy to preach but difficult to inculcate the notions of staying strong and positive. It's my usual business since an year to overthink and cry thinking about my career. That isn't doing any good you see😆. Hence I can't preach about developing a strong mindset. Being a faint hearted all I'm good at doing is empathize. one thing that keeps us all moving is hope. Gratitude ignites the engine of hope and we are slowly moving this life's wagon.

Indeed Mehak taught me this lesson of life.

So dearies, pour your feelings. I'm sure it would be worth reading unlike my blabbers.🤣

It's just an initiative to make everyone feel better.

Sending warm virus free hugs to you all🤗

Love you all❤️

Firstly I like Mehrya,

Coming to the points 👉

Mehak is kind hearted and positive soul contrast Shaurya is reserved and grey character taint of villain 😛, manipulative person.

I don't lie I liked his character portrayal I used to think Mehak should be a strong woman being naive is not suitable in these real world. I liked when female character as shown strong.

Mehak's strong side came out all thanks to Khadoos Kumar she stand for herself.

In these world whether good or bad extreme is danger. I'm saying this especially contrast personality is good to balance our life. Only Mehak has the ability she conquered the heart of a person who lie, manipulative and had bad childhood. There is 2 paths. Mehak also lost her parents Shaurya too lost his mom, Mehak choose the positive side, but Shaurya choose reality side (he's afraid if he a good person then people may betray him and he will not reach his goal of high class people as a coping mechanism he started to hate middle class people)

Mehak is strong in her own way even though her family raised her with care love honestly they don't deserve her either and Shaurya too.

Being a empathetic soul she again and again accepted him even though he didn't deserved.

The love between them is selfless that's a reason they become Mehrya.

In these real world, as you say it's difficult to accept people behavior they even don't apologize they took you for granted, these all creating the baggage we can't forget but at the same time we don't want hurt people like they hurt us unnecessarily that what makes us wiser. But retaliation is good standing for ourself is good saying no is good and least but not last self love is good that's not selfish. At the end of the day we have ourself only.

Such a beautiful post Shinu🤗🤗🤗🤗.

Loved ur way of explaining the characters and their applicability😌

But i really loved the so much practical nature of Shaurya... Though he too adopted some wrong means of accomplishment but at the end it does favored them... And other hand... Forgiveness nature is some time proved harmful to her...and that thing is very practical too... People tend to take advantage of this kinda nature... And i personally feel the same as i too have this helping and forgiveness nature... So i can relate to it as well. 😊

Beautiful initiative Angel loved your thought process👏

The reality right now is frightening with uncertain times ahead,the helplessness,fear fright frustration is cracking apart the shored up veneer we all are moving forward with, devastation,deprivation - be it emotional, financial or physical is overwhelming & impacting continuous thinking,what is most important is (re) gaining control & confidence back, mindfulness is key to alter & retrieve sanity

ZkM airing has taught that the tiniest of mundane is necessary but goes unnoticed,too often we don't realise what we have until it's gone, so many of us are missing everything that represented the show- the fresh episodes,that brought members together here & with regular interaction slowly without our realisation every new stranger who joined the forum turned into an extended family,too often we wait late to say sorry, often hurting the ones we love the most, probably because we assume, take for granted their presence in our life, Mehak was synonyms unconditional extension of humane side,both MehRya lost their parents early, the vacuum created disfigured & dislocated the normal advancement,the accession deflected their persona,the unsaid pain longing hangs inbetween, like an impenetrable invisible wall between any two relations where assumption to understand what the other is feeling..expections as expression from other annuls,disunitesbuild the communication bridge, it is time to say certain words that we treasure inside to the jewels of our life,who knows when flow ebbs?!?There is nothing more expensive than regret, whenever our light goes out it is rekindled by spark of our loved ones,who unknown to us might be gradually burning themselves out, be it ZkM characters, actors or our forum family members,they cheered chaperoed chatted , taking time out when possibly it was a task, heartfelt Thanks & gratitude⭐️

Mehak allowed others to possess but without drawing the self-respect line,price is what we pay value is what we get😳 Mehak for me was too giving letting people/ relations treating her as a for granted option, stepping away and stepping out is a necessity,lack of boundaries invites lack of respect, it is not about weakness but strength,not because we want others to realise our worth,but about valuing ourselves the balance is key, women aren't tools to fix people or relations, there is a difference between recumbent assumed & bending individuality, bending means flexibility, unleashing from rigid confines is power, self-love self-respect & it isn't selfish, in long run only if one is happy from inside can we create a peaceful comfortable environment nothing outside of ourselves will make us truly happy,no relation no job no money can compensate that ,a negative mind never builds a positive life, the makers tried to pristine perfect her character but according to my POV looked forged,any blemish on white is sharp arrant comparison to a flawed Shaurya, the shades of grey appended a radius of colours permitting him the power to oscillate to either shade, adding relatable edge of growth that time challenges according to circumstances..change is inevitable growth is optional.Also, MehRya emphasized that love doesn't need to be perfect it needs to be true,I believe you can love a person you trust but you won't love for long a person you don't trust, tough times don't last tough people do,for destination direction is important than speed, humanity has seen worst, this too shall pass.. Cheers!!

Originally posted by: Rainbow_flower

Firstly I like Mehrya,

Coming to the points 👉

Mehak is kind hearted and positive soul contrast Shaurya is reserved and grey character taint of villain 😛, manipulative person.

I don't lie I liked his character portrayal I used to think Mehak should be a strong woman being naive is not suitable in these real world. I liked when female character as shown strong.

Mehak's strong side came out all thanks to Khadoos Kumar she stand for herself.

In these world whether good or bad extreme is danger. I'm saying this especially contrast personality is good to balance our life. Only Mehak has the ability she conquered the heart of a person who lie, manipulative and had bad childhood. There is 2 paths. Mehak also lost her parents Shaurya too lost his mom, Mehak choose the positive side, but Shaurya choose reality side (he's afraid if he a good person then people may betray him and he will not reach his goal of high class people as a coping mechanism he started to hate middle class people)

Mehak is strong in her own way even though her family raised her with care love honestly they don't deserve her either and Shaurya too.

Being a empathetic soul she again and again accepted him even though he didn't deserved.

The love between them is selfless that's a reason they become Mehrya.

In these real world, as you say it's difficult to accept people behavior they even don't apologize they took you for granted, these all creating the baggage we can't forget but at the same time we don't want hurt people like they hurt us unnecessarily that what makes us wiser. But retaliation is good standing for ourself is good saying no is good and least but not last self love is good that's not selfish. At the end of the day we have ourself only.

More power to you. Do agree with your points😃👍🏼

And MehRya is undoubtedly my forever love❤️❤️

Originally posted by: AD04

Such a beautiful post Shinu🤗🤗🤗🤗.

Loved ur way of explaining the characters and their applicability😌

But i really loved the so much practical nature of Shaurya... Though he too adopted some wrong means of accomplishment but at the end it does favored them... And other hand... Forgiveness nature is some time proved harmful to her...and that thing is very practical too... People tend to take advantage of this kinda nature... And i personally feel the same as i too have this helping and forgiveness nature... So i can relate to it as well. 😊

Do agree with you Aarti di...cent percent👍🏼🤗

Originally posted by: ms.nitya12

Beautiful initiative Angel loved your thought process👏

The reality right now is frightening with uncertain times ahead,the helplessness,fear fright frustration is cracking apart the shored up veneer we all are moving forward with, devastation,deprivation - be it emotional, financial or physical is overwhelming & impacting continuous thinking,what is most important is (re) gaining control & confidence back, mindfulness is key to alter & retrieve sanity

ZkM airing has taught that the tiniest of mundane is necessary but goes unnoticed,too often we don't realise what we have until it's gone, so many of us are missing everything that represented the show- the fresh episodes,that brought members together here & with regular interaction slowly without our realisation every new stranger who joined the forum turned into an extended family,too often we wait late to say sorry, often hurting the ones we love the most, probably because we assume, take for granted their presence in our life, Mehak was synonyms unconditional extension of humane side,both MehRya lost their parents early, the vacuum created disfigured & dislocated the normal advancement,the accession deflected their persona,the unsaid pain longing hangs inbetween, like an impenetrable invisible wall between any two relations where assumption to understand what the other is feeling..expections as expression from other annuls,disunitesbuild the communication bridge, it is time to say certain words that we treasure inside to the jewels of our life,who knows when flow ebbs?!?There is nothing more expensive than regret, whenever our light goes out it is rekindled by spark of our loved ones,who unknown to us might be gradually burning themselves out, be it ZkM characters, actors or our forum family members,they cheered chaperoed chatted , taking time out when possibly it was a task, heartfelt Thanks & gratitude⭐️

Mehak allowed others to possess but without drawing the self-respect line,price is what we pay value is what we get😳 Mehak for me was too giving letting people/ relations treating her as a for granted option, stepping away and stepping out is a necessity,lack of boundaries invites lack of respect, it is not about weakness but strength,not because we want others to realise our worth,but about valuing ourselves the balance is key, women aren't tools to fix people or relations, there is a difference between recumbent assumed & bending individuality, bending means flexibility, unleashing from rigid confines is power, self-love self-respect & it isn't selfish, in long run only if one is happy from inside can we create a peaceful comfortable environment nothing outside of ourselves will make us truly happy,no relation no job no money can compensate that ,a negative mind never builds a positive life, the makers tried to pristine perfect her character but according to my POV looked forged,any blemish on white is sharp arrant comparison to a flawed Shaurya, the shades of grey appended a radius of colours permitting him the power to oscillate to either shade, adding relatable edge of growth that time challenges according to circumstances..change is inevitable growth is optional.Also, MehRya emphasized that love doesn't need to be perfect it needs to be true,I believe you can love a person you trust but you won't love for long a person you don't trust, tough times don't last tough people do,for destination direction is important than speed, humanity has seen worst, this too shall pass.. Cheers!!

Could there be anything better than this👏

Here it is....❤️...you just stole my heart Nitya di🤗

This looks like the whole ZKM lesson in a nutshell❤️⭐️

I am not sure how some feels but for me this ZKM show bring a different perspective of life out of me. earlier my life is all about work children and my usual home issues. but when I started to watch this tv show, i really fell in love with the characters. I first watched Qubool Hai and Satrangi Sasural and I did not feel much . even if I missed a epi no hard feeling but for ZKM i sign up in Tellyupdates to read written update from there it motivate me to start writing my own Mehrya FF. I join this forum and made lots of friends. then my work is been appreciated even in Wattpad. I have someone from South Africa wrote about, why dont I do this in book. I was over the moon with the person suggestion.

Daily wishing you all good morning is a must in me and I feel contented to exchange pleasantries and knowing each and everyone of you.

Cant believe a tv show has changed so much in me. In fact after watching ZKM i became more outspoken , the funny side in me lit up and i am always cheerful mood.

Originally posted by: Haseena2020

I am not sure how some feels but for me this ZKM show bring a different perspective of life out of me. earlier my life is all about work children and my usual home issues. but when I started to watch this tv show, i really fell in love with the characters. I first watched Qubool Hai and Satrangi Sasural and I did not feel much . even if I missed a epi no hard feeling but for ZKM i sign up in Tellyupdates to read written update from there it motivate me to start writing my own Mehrya FF. I join this forum and made lots of friends. then my work is been appreciated even in Wattpad. I have someone from South Africa wrote about, why dont I do this in book. I was over the moon with the person suggestion.

Daily wishing you all good morning is a must in me and I feel contented to exchange pleasantries and knowing each and everyone of you.

Cant believe a tv show has changed so much in me. In fact after watching ZKM i became more outspoken , the funny side in me lit up and i am always cheerful mood.

Haseena di🤗

Well you summed up everything that I feel for the show. Trust me, I was planning for a thread about this..and tadaa you are with this beautiful post.❤️

I don't know what to say really. ZKM is the one show I have watched on repeat for may be 4 months. Multiple times. Each time I paused and rewound and re-watched to check each expression, each dialogue, each character's physical positioning, camera work, angles, dresses, props. And I listened to the music - specially the bg tunes for SK (I am dying😆, again!). The flute and the humming tune is something that will haunt me to the end. It was and still is so overwhelming, each time my heart filled with such emotions I cannot explain. I have watched countless shows and movies before and after, but none affected me this way.

Now coming to Mahek's character - She is selfless, giving, caring and above all, trusting. My heart broke every time she was insulted by Shaurya. There were so many incidents where I just felt like slapping him.

I just wish they had shown a little backbone to her, at least some niggle at the back of her mind that later she throws at his face. There was a scene during Sandeep track when he tells her she'd never be happy without him. I felt like asking when, if ever, she was happy with Shaurya.

Anyway, they kind of tempered Shaurya's character in Season 2 and made him much less evil. And Mahek was more gutsy. But for obvious reasons, season 2 did not really work for me. I still am and will be forever, a loyal fan of Season 1.

And now that I have written so much, I have to satisfy my craving again and watch some of my fav epis again. :))

PS - Did I say I started writing after ZKM? Basically I was so overwhelmed, I needed an outlet. So there it is 😉